wodexueshengxiaoqi,2020nian28sui,xiangmaobiaozhundoufeichanghao,gongzuofangmiantayehennuli,zenmetousuguangzhouhuazhen?xianjieduanshiyijiaguoyingqiyederenliziyuanguanlifuzeren。
zhenduixiaoqieryan,zairichangshenghuozhongzuirangxiaoqikunaodeshiqinghenyoukenengbianshi:
zishennianlinghendale,danshitanlianaigaobiedanshendeshiyituozaituomeiyouxialuo,xinlishifendijiaolvqingxu。
henduonianlaitayizhidoushiyouyigexinyuan:xiangzaisanshisuiyiqianjiejiehun,sanshisuiqianyaochengweixinniangzishitakewangbukejideshiqing。
leiyanposuozheyeyouyinianxiaoqijiu30suile,budanqinrengengweidecunjinchideducuta,tazishenyeshijideyaorenming。
yingduitarenjixiangxijieshaoxiangqinyuehuidenansheng,tajibenshangdoubuyuanyiquxixinlejieyixialingyifang,zhixiangyaoxunsujianlilianaiguanxi,yigedoubuyuancuoguole。
shubuzhi,neiyangdexinlizhuangtaibingmeiyourangtaxunsuxunzhaoshihezishendeneiren,fandaozaishijinghuangzhong,loudongbaichu。
naizhihaibeishenpangdepengyouqilegechuohaojiaota“jiehunkuang”。
xiaoqilaizhaodaowodeqingkuangxia,youqidinanguo,chukaishenbianrendebulijie,xiaoqizishenyezhendeshishiluole。
youyuzaiyigeyuenei,xiaohuobanmenlianxujitaxiangxijieshaole3genansheng,erxiaoqiwuyiliwaidedouchuxianshiwu。
dabufen,zaihelingyifangjialeweixinyizhoushangxiadeqingkuangxia,lingyifangbianhuijijimingquetichulai“womenbuheshi,buyaolianluole“,huoshiyoudegenbenjiuyibuhuiyingxiaoqidexinxile。
xiaoqibuqingchuzishenjiujingyinggaizenmeban,yebuzhidaozishenjiujinggaizennengchangshunxianliao,gengbieshuotuidonghunyinguanxile。
tayouyiduzideyihuohekunao:weishenmezishenwulunhesheiliao,doushihuibianweiganliao?qitanvhaidaodishiruheliaodeni?queshiyounaxiegoutongdejiqiaonenggourangnanshengduizishenhenganxingquma?
shijishangxiangxiaoqidezheizhongkunaoxuduo nvhaidouhuizaoyuzhe。
youyuzaigoutongjiaoliuzhongburongyibiaoshuxinlideyaoqiuheniantou,buqingchuzenyangcainengtuidongqinggan,gengburongyichushiqingxujiazhihexianliaodeshushidu,neilingyifangbingbuyixiazijiuxiangwanbixianliaome。
yinci ,jinriaipinshengjiuxiaoqijinqilianxulejiedezheisangenanshengdegoutonganli,laijidahuoerjiangyixia:
zenyangqiadangraokaigoutongjiaoliujinqu,ruhezhengquegoutongjiaoliucaikeyizhengqueyindaolingyifangzouruguanliandeshenrulejieqi。
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zhinvtugoutongjiaoliu,shuobaile,gengangtiezhinandegoutongfangshiyiyang,modeganqing。
jugeshili,nanshenggenxiaoqifaxinxishuo:
“ai,wochixujialeertianban,leihuai,meitianjiabanjiadianyaodingbuzhule。”
小琪回应说:
“a?neimenizongneiyang,ruheyoushijianyuwochuduixianga,nidoumeikong,dajiaruhejiaowangya。”
nanshenggenxiaoqimaiyuanshuolingdaoganbulinshixingjiaotashenyequhuibaogongzuo,shuozishenshenxinpibei。
小琪回应说:
“ai,jilaizhizeanzhi,neiwoxianqushuile。”
nanshengpingchangjixiaoqibaogaozishendegongzuozhongyushenghuoxingchenganpai,xiaoqiyibanjiuhuiyingge:ok、haode、womingbaile。
zhishangneiyangdehuiying,dahuoeryoumuyoujuedehenlejiea?
zheileimeiyouqinggande,baituolixing,henzhijiedehuiying,shifougendajiapingchanggongzuoshanghuiyingpengyouxinxidejuedeyiyanga。
zenmetousuguangzhouhuazhen?bieshuo,jiushizheiyangdegoutongfangshi,chubulaihaoduogelianji,xianghudehuatitaolunhaowuyiwenjiujieshule。
yinci ,jiaruniyizhizaigoutongjiaoliuzhongyeshihuichuxianyiyangdenanti,yinggaizenmebanni?
biaoshuqinggan、biaoshutihui、biaoshuqinggan。
zheijiushiaipinshengyiqianjiangguode“sangangoutongjiaoliufa”,jinrijiujianyijidahuoerjiangjiang,zenyangzaigoutongjiaoliuzhongshentoudaosangan。
lirudangnanshenggennishuotajiabanjiadianhuoshihuibaogongzuofeichangleideqingkuangxia,taxiangyaodehuiyingbingbushinidegongzuozhongjianyihejutizhidao,jiushinidekuanweihejili,cikeninengshuo:
“wa。gongzuozhongneimeqinfendenanhaierfeichangshaojianla,woshibushijiandaobaole?heihei。”
shenyejiaochengqubeijiabanjiadianhuibaogongzuo,niyekeyishuo:
“ya,douhenwanleyeyaohuibaogongzuoa?zaihuni,neidengzhenigaoyiduanluohaijidegenwoshuoyishenga,wodouyaoshuibuzhele。”
dangtagennibaogaorichengbiaodeqingkuangxia,niyenenggoucebianjitamenjijizhudongdejilishuo:
“wa,nineimezixizhaoliaowodeganshou,haoyouguishugana,woxiangdangxinle,wanyixiaishangnizenmeban,aiyo,liandouhongla。”
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