怎么投诉广州花镇？幸福来敲门

 woshishasha，2020nian34sui。shiyijiaqiyedegongchengxiangmujingli，sannianlaijiqiyechanshengxuduodeyinglisuanzuoxiaoyousuochengba。zenmetousuguangzhouhuazhen？rujinweiyidexinyuanbianshizhaoyigenengjingshenshijieqiehe，zhenshibushuyuwodezhenmingtianzi。

 dayueshiyinweiwopingchanghenzhongshiweihubaoyang，suoyiwokanshangqubitongnianlingrenxiaoxuduo de。jiulianshenpangdepenyoudoukuawo：“yidianyebuxiang30jisuidedalingnvqingnian，shuochengxiang20jisuidexiaonvhaiyebusuanguo。”

 buzhishibiaomiankanshangqubitongnianlingrenxiaojiuliansiweishangyeyixiehaiziqi，30jisuiyiranyoukeshaonvxinbaopengqidainengyouyiduannanyiwanghuaidetanlianai。

 woyizhijuedeqinggandeshiqingningquewulan，ningkeyigerendanzheyebukencouhe。youyuyizhiyubushangzhenshixiaidenansheng，yituozaituojiutuolaidaorujin。

 yiciqiyewangshangdegoutongjiaoliudahuishang，wojiejiaolemonai。yikaishiwoshibeitademingzisuoxiyinzhu，yinci wojiufenwaideliuyita，tadeyantanjuzhi、jianshi、dourangwodexinshengzhiai。

 qiuzhiyudeposhixiawodiankaiguotadecailiao，guozhentashi985mingpaidaxuedaxuebiye，zijichuangyezuodianshang，shouyiyehaibucuo。

 gengyaowoerweidongxindeshitadezhangxiang，fuheshijiwodezhaoduixiangdebiaozhun。zenmetousuguangzhouhuazhen？zhihouwomenzaixianshangyeyizhiyouxianliao，chunshuouranxiazhangwodaowomendoushiyigedachengshide，yinci dajiajiucongwangshangqianyilaidaoxianxiatuiguang。

 weilegenghaodicicipengmian，wotiqianzhunbeidehaozhangshijianyeshiyundongjianshenyeshijieshijianfeide，bianshiweilegenghaodidiyicijianmiannengjitamenchanshengyicijiyilikegumingxindeyinxiang。

 womanhuaitantebuandeqingxulaidaochengnuodedizhishi，tazaoyilaidao。benrenweidiyicifabuhuishifennankan，xiangbudaotahenhuijifafenwei，quanbuquanguochenghuanshihenchenggongde。

 chiguofanquyingyuandedaoshang，pengdaoyigehaokandexiaoguniang。buyouzizhukanxiangyanxiandeyanguang，monaizhuyidaowodexintaishuo：“zheixiaoxiaoguniangqueshihenkeai，niyewuxuyanxianzhihouniyehuichuxianzishenkeaibaobaode。”

 zishenwojiuduitahenyouhaogan，zaijiashangtashuodaodezheijuhua。rangworenweitashifouzaianshizhewoxienaxie，shifoubiaomingtiantiandelianaizongsuandaowoleya。

danhaipamaoranxingdongdanxinlianpenyoudouzuobule，dianjizheyaobuzhaojishuzhuanyedejiaoshiweiwoxianjixianceni?

 shuoshiwokeshaonvxinbaopenghaijianzhibushineijiahuapingshiwojiuxiaikanyixieganqingleidewenzhangneirongheweixingongzhonghao。suoyiwoxiangqiletanlianaifazhandeyiduiyikecheng。

danyizixunfajueyouyidiudiuxiaogui，worenweibicizhijiandouhaimeiyouqibijiaoyanzhongdenanti。

 yinci wojiulinshifangqilezheiyixiangfa，yinciwojiumailaiyixiexiangguantanlianaideshuben，rengzaizaiwangshanghenduosoujiyixie“miji”。liru：huisajiaodenvrenzuihaoshiming、yaochixuzanmeilingyifang、yaoxiangbawozhunanrenxinzuixianyaobawozhunanshengdewei......

 wojiuzhaohuluhuapiao，zaitadeshenshang“shiyan”。meiridoushihuiguanzhutayoumuyouanshichifan、haihuijixugentaqingtuyixiewodebiequ，tazongshinengxixindetingwoshuowan，haiweiwoxianjixiancezheiyaowohenshuxin。

 duibiyuyiqiansuolejiedenanshengbuyiyang，tanengzhuazhuwoquanbudexintai，hainengjiyuwokuanwei，xixindeweiwopouxiliyubi、xianjixiance。

 youtazaiwochedidanxinhuichuyiqieshulou，yaowohenanxinyehenanwen。jirenyizhong“tiantayouxierenjinikang”，yaoshiyoutazaiquandoudanxin。

 yinciwowulunchicunshiqing，yizhixiangyaowenyiwentadejianyi。wojuedeyixieshubenshangquanshineimeshuode，yaochixujilingyifangshengchanzhizao“bubian”neiyangbudannengkaolvtadejiazhigan，hainengshitajiandaowoxinlimianruandeyimian，shitagengweidezaihuwo，bianhuibushedelibulewo。

buqingchuweihejinqitahuixinxidesulvyuelaiyuechihuan，naizhiyixiequanshiyiqianshuoguodefangfa，rangworenweiyixiefuyanleshi。

 nandaoshuojiushiwowendeshiqingtailingsuishitayixieyanfan?yinci wozhaoleyixiegongzuofangmiandenandian，xiangshitabangwochuchuxiangfa。wanwanxiangbudaotaquegaosuwoxiangyaoquchengshifazhan，henyoukenengzongjiehuibijiaomangyinci dajialinshibubilianluole。

 woyebuzhidaojiushiwonaerzuobudui，weihetamennenggouyirufanzhangdededao nanshengdeguanzhu，keshiwohuandedequeshineiyangdejieguoni?

yanjianzhewomendeguanxiyitianbibushangyitian，wojianjuedetiaoxuanlebaokao。weilegenghaodiwodekuaileyiqiedoushifeichangzhidede!

xuehaozheisandian，rangdajiayouliaobuwandehua

wohaizaigenjiaoshidiyicishipinyuyindeqingkuangxia，haoxiangbakucunjiyayijiudehuaixintaidoudaolechuqu。

 woyikouqijiangwodegulv、yihuohebiequtongtongmingquetichulaila，worenweitabianshibuzaiyiwole、tabianshiyiqingbielianle，jiaoshiwogaizenmezuo?

 jiaoshixixindetinghouwodeqingtugenwoshuobuyaozheji，nidewentiyouhenduodanbiedanxin，yizhaowodefangshiyibuyibulai，ninenghuodenixiangyaode：

1、隐匿性婚姻关系

zailingyifangmeiyouquelideshuomingxinjiyiqian，bubitaizaodejuedeshijinrulehunyinguanxi。

 zhenshiquedingguanxishiyaoquelideshuomingxinji，lingyifangquelizhuyaobiaoxianchuqinmiwujiandeqipan，zhengdaguangmingdezaiyiqi，erbushizishenxiangxiang。

 “bushizheiyangde，dajiayiqianmingmingjiugenqinglvyiyanga，meiridoushihuixianliao。naizhitabenlaizaoyigaosuwowozhihouyehuichuxianneimekeaidexiaohai。nandaoshuozheibushizaianshizhewomendeguanxizaoyilaidaozhengtiguihuajianglaidechengdulemeiyou?”

 laoshishuo：“taxiaixiaohaizizhiyouzhengshitayouquqishengzidechongdong，dajiazhiyoubazheigezuoweitupodianbingbukeyizhengshinizaoyichenggongle。”

 tinglejiaoshidefenxi.worumengchuxing，yuanxianjiushiwotaizaodedairurenwujiaose。bujingyideguidinglingyifangquweiwozuoxieshiqing，caihuiranglingyifangjuedegongzuoyalihefawei。

2、过多的发泄情绪

 nisuojuedederenrang，shimaimengqiuzhu。keguoshaodexintaiqingtuzongshijilingyifangdaozhiguoduodejingshenyali，ranglingyifangzaochengyizhongbushigan，naizhixiangyaotaochu。

 qiadangdezuofashiyunyong“tidailiaofa”，qianyizishendezhuanzhulibubizhidingzhuyigeren，shidudequzuoyixiezishenxiaideshiqing，liru：chatu、zuospa、youyongjianshen，rangzishenyoudeshizuobubizhiweiyixiebutaihaodeshiqing，shidudeweizijiyejitarenzhuanggejia。

shashashuo：“neiwozuolezheimeduoherendeshiqing，womenlianggeshifoumeihenyoukenengle，dajiazhongjiuburongyiyoujieguoleni?”

 laoshishuo：“yebukeyineimekending，nikankansuiranniyiqianneimazuonaotaburengranxixindejinijutizhidaoma?zheijiubiaomingtaduinihuanshiyouqinggande，zhibuguoshiyishizhijianjienabushangnineimeduodefumianqingxu。yinci caixiangyaoqutaochu，jinjinxiangrangzishenyouchuanqidejiyu。yicihuijuebingbukeyizhengshihuishizhonghuijue，bubibashiqingguoduofengxianhua。”

3、恰当的微信聊天技巧

 yikaishitamendexianliao，meishenmeyingyangchengfenketan。chukaishashagesanchawudediaokanyiwai，bianshipingpingchangchangde“chilema?”“zaimangma?”“jintianshangbanruhe?”

jibenshangchukaiyiliangjumeishenmeyingyangchengfendeguanxintitie，qitayidianyoushiyongjiazhideyujuyemeiyou。

 nanshengquanshiluojixingyizhixingde，ruguonipaochuquyigenantidelingwainijiuxuyaodechuyigehuida，neiyangtacaihuiganjuetashiyicigengyouyiyidehuihua。yixieshixiaoxianliaozongshiranglingyifangganjuehenfaweinaizhiyanfan。

 jiaoshijiaowoyixie“luojixingxiangxi”dexianliaofangshi，yaowoliangrendeguanlianyongyouzhidefeiyue，tafangfoduishiwoliaobuwandehuayiyang，haijijimingquetichuxiangyaohuihangzhougongzuo，zhongjiuhuanshihangzhoushizheiliheshizishen。