情感咨询不肯退款投诉有用吗？总是冷暴力你的男人在想什么？

 dajiacengwenguoyixiexuesheng，zaiqingganlizuihaipa，qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?henduorenshuo，wofeichangweileng，haipatabuliwo。

danshi，dajiayuepadewupin，tongchangtayuehuizhaoshangmen。

congjinxienianminzhengdeshujuxinxizhongkeyikanchuqu，hunwailian、sanguanbuhehejiatinglengbaoli，shihunyinshenghuodesandaxiongshou。

 henduorendoudanxinjiatinglengbaoli，yiqianyouxueshengshuo，meiyicichaowanjia，tanenggouyigeyueyebugenwojianghua，jiazhongjiuyuelaiyuegenbingkuyiyang，lianqitiquanshilengde。woqueshihaohaipa。

 yeshiyouxueshengshuo，youfenqiyoubumanyi，shuochulaijiukeyilema?weishenmeyizhengchaojiunaoxiaotuini?jiubukeyihaohaodigoutongjiaoliuma?

duia，jiatinglengbaolidenanshengdaodishiruhexiangdeni?weihefeideyongneimezhishangdefangfalaikandaizishendeairenni?

 nanrenyongjiatinglengbaoli，shiyoushencengciyuangude，bingqieyuangushijishangyedabuyiyang，jinyouquelilelingyifangjiatinglengbaolidezhongleijixinlizhuangtaiyouyin，caiyoukenengconggenbenyuanyinzheshou，dapojiangju，zhongfanqinmiwujian。

neijinriwoyedaidahuoerlaipouxiyixia，jiatinglengbaoliyounaxiezhonglei，zaocheng tamenzaochengdexinlizhuangtaiyouyinyoushisha。

第一种：逃避性家庭冷暴力

 laiwomenfuwupingtaidexuesheng，youhenduorendoushuoguo，jiaoshi，nijiaojiaowo，wogaizenmegentagoutongjiaoliu，tacaixiangyaozhangkoushuohuani?

wotongchangshuo，nimeigoutongjiaoliu，lingyifangcaiyoukenengxiangyaogennijianghua。

 liruyiqiandexueshengzhennvxing，jiehunqinian，fenqiyulaiyuduo，zhangfugangkaishijiatinglengbaoli，chukaigenxiaohaiyouguandeshier，jihubugenzhennvxingjianghua。zhennvxingkubukanyan，genwoshuoshifoulaidaoqinianzhiyangle?gaishuoyidianernaxie，zhangfucaixiangyaozhangkoujianghua。

zaixiangjindezhangwozhennvxingyijizhangfudezhuangkuanghou，wogaosuzhennvxing，shenmedoubuyaozuo，xianlinshijieshoutadeqingkuang。

zhennvxingjienabushang，yiranxianggenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，chixujizhangfufaxinxi，jieguozhangfukubukanyan，banlechulai。

zhennvxingkuzheshuo，tajiuneimefanganwoma?liankanzhewoyiyandouganjuefanma?

wogaosuzhennvxing，nizhangfubingbushiyanfan，zhishidanxinni，youyutadeyilaifangshishihuibixingyilian。

 shenmejiaoyilaifangshini，bianshibaobaozichushiqi，yuyangyuzhe，youqishimamazhongjianchuangjianqideyilianguanxi。jinyoudangbaobaoyumamachuangjianqilezheileiyilianguanxi，baobaocaihuijuedeanquanxing。

 danchuangjianyilianguanxidequanguochengduiyouderenlaijiangbingbingbushichedichenggongde，congerzaocheng dejieguoyedabuyiyang，henduorenchanshenglebuyiyangdeyilaishejifengge，dazhikefenchenganquanxingyilian、jiaolvxingyilianhehuibixingyilian。

 henxianzhu，zhennvxingdezhangfujiuguishuyuhuibixingyilian，tadanxinqinmiwujian，taoyangoutongjiaoliuhebiaoshuganqing，youqibixuzishendeshineikongjian，jiarubeibizhe，tamenfeichangrongyibenkuihetaochu。

 erzhennvxing，shidianxingxingdejiaolvxingyilian，qipanqinmiwujiangan，qidailiangrennengwuhuabutan，xianghuyichengxiangdai，youqidanxinbuquedingxinggan，danxinbubeidafu。

 jiaolvqingxuxinghehuibixingderendaozuikaishishishifenxiyinzhulingyifangde，keshizaiyiqihouyoufeichangrongyishifentongchu，jiaolvqingxuxingderenxiaizhuazhehuibixingderengoutongjiaoliu，erhuibixingderenpinlemingyaoxiangtaochuguanlian，jiuyanhualeyigexiangzhui，yigechixuzaitaozoudefangshi。

 zheileifangshiheshicaikeyizhongzhini?zheirutongjingchazhuaxiaotoudeshoujiyouxi，qiezeipaodeyefeichanglei，tayexiangting，yinci ，jinyoujiaolvqingxuxingderenmanxialai，buzhuile，huibixingderenganjueanquanxingle，caihuimanxialai，bupaole。

zhennvxingrumengchuxing，shuotamendexiangchumoshijiuzheiyang。

 zaizhennvxingyijuwomenjianyidiaojielezishenxingweimoshihou，tadezhangfuqueshixiangyaofanhuijiazhongle。naizhi，yehezhennvxingdakaixinfei，biaoshulezishendezhenzhengtihui。

 ershi，talaogongdemamabianshineileiyouqijiaolvqingxuderen，meitianzhuazhexiaohaimeishizhaoshi，yinci zaocheng tazhangfuyouxiaodaodaquanshirichangshenghuozaizhiwenzhong，zaocheng tajiweiqidaiyouzheyigeshifangyalide、shufu、zishendeshineikongjian。

第二种、防御性家庭冷暴力

dangtalengdandeqingkuangxia，tahaiaiwoma?tashixuduo xueshengdeyihuo。

qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?woxiangshuo，huidayibanzhuangkuangxia，zongshixihuan。weiheneimeshuoni?

 yiqianshiwoyiweinanxueshengzhangliang，youyuqiziyaolihun，qianquxunqiubangzhu，lihunliyoushizhangliangyizhiduilaopojiatinglengbaoli，meiyicizhengchaodoushihuichuzou。

 tingjianzheili，dahuoershifouhenshengqi?nidouneimeguofenle，neibeiliyibingbushijiuyouziquma?zaishuole，nidoumeilibierenle，ganshenmehaibuliyini?

 dahuoerneimexianghenyiqiezhengchang，woxunwenta，weihebuyuanliyi?niyaoaitama?weihelingyifangjilenineimashucijiyu，nihuanshineiyangyizhengchaojiulengbaoli?

 tashuo，jiaoshi，woziranaita，bingqieyinweiwolibuleta，keshiwohaohaipawozenmeshuo，tayebulejiewo，wozenmeshuoquanshicuode，jiaruzheiyangdehua，woyehuijinbuzhugentazhengchao、qusunhaita。

 neiyangdehua，tahaowuyiwenyaogenwoliyi，shijishangxuduo qingkuangxia，zijichulaitoutoufengxiaohuaxishouxiajiuhaole，danshitafeideyaowoyizhigoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliu，danwohaizaiqitoushangshibukeyigoutongjiaoliude。

 kandechuqu，zhangliangduilaoposhiyouhenduobumanyide，keshitahaipabiaoshu，youyuzhangliangershi，fumuquanshibaopiqi，yibugaoxingjiunazhangliangchuqi，zhanglianglveweibiaoshuyidianxintai，babamamabianhuidecunjinchididuita，naizhiweixieyaopaoxiata。

 yinci ，ershidezhangliangjiujuede，biaoshubumanyishiyijianshifenfengxiandeshier，huirangguanliangengweicaogao，naizhihuidaobeiyiqidechengdu，yinci tajibenshangjihudouhaipabiaoshuzishenzhenzhengdeniantouhetihui。

zhangdayihouyeshineiyang，weilegenghaodiweihuguanlian，tadoushihuibiezhubuyongshuo，tabushufu，laopogengbushufu。

 wojiaozhangliangxuehaoguanlizijidexintai，bingjilitabiaoshuzishendeganqing，tazongsuannengzuoxialai，genlaopokaizhanyichanglingjulideshencenggoutongjiaoliu。

 tagenlaopobiaoshu，wozhendehenaini，buxianglikaini，wohendanxinbeinipaoxia，yedanxinnifahuo，yinci meiyicinifahuodeqingkuangxia，wozhiyoubikai，qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?haipadajiazhengchaohoudejieguoshiyifabukeshoushide，ershi，wofumubianshiyouyuzhengchaoliyide。woqueshihenfanganzhengchao……