情感咨询不肯退款投诉有用吗？这样去吸引男人

 jinrigongxiangyigeaifapiqi、kongzhiyuqiang、zongxiaidiaokannanpengyou、tanleliangrendouyinertichufenshoudeshili。qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?yizhishibangdahuoertiaochulaitanlianailide“xiaohaizixinlizhuangtai”，yonggaojidexinjue，yunyinggaopinzhidehunyinguanxi!

男朋友瞟了一眼别的女孩，差点儿闹提出分手!

 tongtong27sui，henmei，shuoshibiyehoubeijingmousanjiayiyuandanghulirenyuan。youyuzixiaojiajiaolaoshiyan、chengzhanglichengdanchunxing，yinci tongtong25suicaitanlediyichangtanlianai，huanshibabamamaxiangxijieshaode。

danjiaowanghaimeiyoudabanniannanhaizijiutiletichufenshou，yuanyinshitazongxiaiyanlidajiren、sanguanbuhe。

 dierduantanlianaishitazhenshidechulianqingren，tahenxihuanzheiyinanhaizi，danzuizhongfajuelingyifangbuchengshishouxin，aishuohuang，erqiegenbiedenvhailingwaiweichiguanlian，tongtongjianjuelaheishanchujiangguotichufenshou。

zheijiduanbuchenggongdeqingganhou，tongtongyushangleljun。

 ljuntingshuai，shixiaofanganquanjingwurenyuan，zaildejijizhuiqiuwanmeixialianggerenxunsulaidaoyiqi。yikaishiljunhenchongnitongtong，jibian duitadexiaopengyouxingziyeguangjieshanyuan。

danjianjiandide，tongtongdeguidingyulaiyuduo，naizhixiangguanzheldegegefangmian。

 youyiciyiqiquwan，nanpengyoupiaoleyiyanzhengduimianzhuopiaoliangdenvhai，tongtonghuidangpenyoudemiansihaomeiyouliuqingde“diaokan”nanpengyou。

 yeyouyici，nanpengyouguanzhuletaxiongdidenvpengyoudeyitiaogaoxiaopengyouquan，tongtonglijijiepingfasongjitananpengyoudexiongdi，zheinongdedajiadoufeichangganga。

男朋友说她：

“nitaiguodeaifapiqi，mobushizishentaiquefazixinle!”

童童还击他：

“nishichizhewanlide，haikanjianguozhongde!zuozeixinxu!”

lianggerenchangchangyouyuzheizhongshichaodebuxiangwanglai!

zuihou，ljungentongtongtiletichufenshou，yuanyinshi：

“nitaiziwole，neixinxiangfaguoduo，zhihuozaizishendequanqiuli，burongyigujitarendetihui，wotaileile!”

 jiezhewuluntongtongjiljunfayiqiexinxi，tajihubuhuiying!rejiletongtongjiuzaiqunneifazhenghunqishi，xiangcijixingyixialingyifang，xiangbudaozheiyifa，ljunlijibatalajinxinyongheimingdan!

 zheishihoutongtongcaigangkaishijiqiedeyaoxiangwanhuinanpengyou，zaitalaikanzishenmeiyoufancuoyiqieshi，daodishiweiherangshenpangdenanhaiziyige2gesuoyoudouneiyang。

shenxianbenkuidetongtonggenjuwangzhansousuokandaoledajiaqingganzixunzuzhi，juecexunzhaodajiadexiezhu。

虚身型自以为是的人，看不到他人的优势!

 yikaishi，tongtongzhibaoleyicishipinyuyinzixun，keshishipinyuyinhou，jiuruzimuzhijiyaohaidepouxiqinpeile，jianjuebaokaodapaimingxingzixunguwenzudeyiduiyizhangqixingzixun。

 tongtongdenantixuduo ，lirulianaijinglishaoqiekanke，bumingbainanrenxinli，burongyiyunyinggaopinzhideguanlian，danzuiguanjiandenantiyou：

1.“发脾气社会心理学”

qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?tongtongyoushineixinxiangfaxuduo ，fengshengheli，huishibukanchanghedefapiqi。

 zheiyifangmianshiduizishenquefazixin，pazishenbeitidai，caihuiguoduobaohuziji;lingyifangmianshipazishenzaiqingganzhongshoushang，yinci yaogenjudiaokan、shiyananpengyoulaihuodejunheng。

 erzheizhongdiaokanheshiya，shijishangshixiang：dedao daliangquanli/juecequan、jiechuanlingyifangdeai、xunzhaoguishugan、tianbudizizun。

2.“虚身型自以为是”

wuzhihongjiaoshiyiqianshuoguo，renquanshiziyiweishide，zheiyeshiweihubaoyangdajiazaicicunhuodejichubennengfanying。

 keshixushenxingdeziyiweishiderenjiaoweifeichangrongyibijiaomingan，kanbudaotarendeyoushi，lingwaibixuxiangwaibuduandesuoquqingxujiazhi，rangzishenyouguishugan，zheirutongxiaopengyouyoukuyounaoyaochengnianrenhong。

子沐说：

 “xiaohaizixinlizhuangtaibingbuyiweizheshaonvxinbaopeng!fapiqishixiaoguniangsixudeyizhong，guanjianshicuchizhengquelenanhaizihuiganjuenitaorenxihuan，chidehaowudaolibianhuirangnanhaiziyanjuan。”

3.扬长避短心理状态

 tongtongzaikeguanshangshihuijianbienanhaizide，talejienaxienanhaizikekao、heshizishen，keshiconglixingshang，youhuigenkekaodenanhaizibulaidian!

tiaoxuannanhaizishi，buqingchuzenyangzai“dongxin”he“kekao”zhongxunzhaoyigejunhengdian。

yifangmianganjuezishenjihuyemeiyouzhenshitingcongxinli，yingyongditanguoyichanglianaierquehan，yinci xiangzhao“dongxin”de!

danyifangmianyouganjuezishennianjibianda，yaoganjinzhaoyigeshihederenwanhunguoshenghuo，neiyangyoupianzhongyu“kekao”。

zheijiushitanlianailideyangzhangbiduanxinlizhuangtai，qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma?suozaocheng dedanxinhefenqi。