huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?“buhuiwoxinxineirongshifouzaihetarenliaotian?”xiaocheng2020nian25sui,mingpaidaxuedeshuoshibiye,zaiyijiagongsideguanliyigexiaojingyingtuandui,shencaimiaotiao,kanqilaiyehenhaokan,danqueshi“mutaisolo”。
shenpangdexuduo haoguimidoushifenguaiyi,ganjuexiaochengnaerdoufeichanghao,ruhejiuzhaobuzhenanyouni?
bulunshinianshudeqingkuangxiahuanshigongzuozhongdeqingkuangxia,xiaochengshenpangdequeyouhenduojiaowangfeichanghaodenansheng,danyizhitaobudongtongyigeyunshi——“zuopengyou”。
xiaochengyeyizhihenkunhuozheigewenti,youyuyizhikanxuduo xiaoshuojihedianshilianxuju,libianxuduo nanhaihenvhaizhurengongquanshianshengqingsuyihoucongpenyouxueqi,yidianyidiandenuanweizhidaotanlianai。
danshidaozishenzheier,bianchengpenyouyihoujiugangkaishibulengburedeliaotian,zhujiandejiugangkaishibuhuiyingle。
jinguanxuduo qingkuangxiaxiaochengdoushihuiyangzhuanghuodadadudeshuoyiju“jirantaoyan,neimejiuhushanba!”
keshiyigerendeqingkuangxiayiranhuimangranruoshi,zhiyouanweizijiyiju“tamenhenyoukenengcongyikaishijiutaoyanwoa,yaoburanhaowuyiwenhuizaoyiyuwogaobaile”。
zhihouyouyicichunshuouran,xiaochengzaikanyishuzhanlandeqingkuangxiapengdaoleyigenansheng(xiaodonglaoxiansheng)。
xianghuzhijianjialelianxidianhuayihoufajueliangrenxihuandedongxilingrenzhenjingdeleisi,bingqieshuoshiyanjiushengdejishuzhuanyedouhenleisi,rutongpengdaolezhixinyiyang。
shijianyizhang,xiaochengzhujiandexiaishangxiaodonglaoxiansheng,ganjuezheiyidingshijizhongzhudingdeaiqing,haowuyiwenmeipaole。
bansuizhexiaochengganqingdefachun,liaotianpinlvyulaiyugao,yeyulaiyuyikaozheiyinansheng。
xiaodonglaoxianshengjiaruyijuhuameihuiying,xiaochengbianhuihenjiaolvbuandefaxinxiwen“nizaiganshenme?”“jiushiwojijuhuashuocuolema?”
libaitianlaoxiangwenxiaodonglaoxianshengquganshenme,keshitashuodaoleyihou,xiaochengyoubuqingchugaizenmehuifu,zongshihuiyiju“ee,xingba”。
yizhineiyangxialai,xiaochengyeganjuefeichanglei,naohaizhonglidexiangshengyouchulai“taruguoxihuanwobianhuiyuwogaobai,keshizaoyizheimeduonianle,shifoutabingtaoyanwo。”
xiangqizhei,xiaochengyixingfen,jiuyoufaxinxijixiaodonglaoxiansheng:“shibushiniganjuewomenbuheshi,ruguoshineiyangdehuawobudaraonile。”
cici,xiaodonglaoxianshengliandaosantianyemeiyouyiqiedehuiying,keshipengyouquanqueyoushengji。
xiaochengyixiajiuhuangleshen,buqingchuyinggaizenmebanle,benlaiganjuecicishiwuyongzhiyidedetanlianai,queyeshizheiyijieguo。
zhujianpingjingxialaidexiaochengganjuezishencicishiqueshitexianghexiaodonglaoxianshengyongxindetanyichanglianai,yexianzaishishihouyaogaibianxianzhuangle。
kanguoxuduo zuzhidewenzhangneirong,zaibizhaoxiazongsuanzhaodaoxuehaodeaipinshengjiaoshi。
02
“baozangdituliaofa”zhaodaozhishengdazhongnanrendexin!
aipinshengjiaoshixixindezhangwodaoxiaochengdenantiyihoushuo,“weiyounibaituozishendexinlizhuangtaiyuzhi,erqiezhengqueyindaolingyifangtongbu,caikeyichenggongdefazhanqushixialai”。
shijishang,xiaochengshangzhongxiaoxuedeqingkuangxia,babamamajiulihunle,zaitadeyinxiangzhong,babamamazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuhenshao,meiyiciquanshimamashuoliangsanjuyihou,babayiyanbufa,likebaituojiamenkou。
gengshizheileifumuaiqingdecunyou,jixiaochengchanshengleyige“zaiqianyishizhong”:nanshengmeiyoudafubianshibuxihuan。
zaixiaodonglaoxianshenglveweimeiyoulijihuiyingxinxideqingkuangxia,xiaochenghuizaocheng“shifouwojiangshuocuole”deniantou,yeshidanxinguanliankailie。
huibuzijuedebababamamadeqingganmaixiangtouyingdaozishendedeshenshang。
bianshiyouyuneiyang,zaimengfaqingyiyihou,meiyicilingyifangbuhuixiaoxideqingkuangxia,xiaochengneixinjiuzaoyizaochengle“tabuxihuanwo”dexinlizhuangtaiyuzhi。
jihaowuyiwenyoudanxin,zhinengyikaoyizaidebiwenlaihuodehuida。
danshizheileibiwendepinciduole,bianhuirangnanshengdaozhiyizhongguannian:“benlaiyikaishitingbucuode,ruheyueliaoyueleini”,zuizhongdejieguozhiyoushi“henyoukenengzhishihezuopenyouba”。
dangyigenanrenganjue“zuoqinglvdouhaimeizuopengyoudeqingkuangxiashushi”,tamendangranhuiganjue“bushihe”。
yaoxiangrangnanshengzishentisheng“lingjiedian”,jijigennigaobai,jiuxuyaoshitaganjue“bufuheyuzuopengyou,zuoqinglvhuigengshushi”!
shutonglezheizhongxinlizhuangtaiyihou,aipinshengjiaoshigangkaishijiaoxiaochengyibubude“zhaohuiganqing”。
一、重构“人物关系”,升级认知能力
aipinshengjiaoshigaozhixiaocheng:“jinyoushitachedigaibianni,caikeyidianfurenzhinengli,jijiyueni。”
jiaoshijutizhidaoxiaochengfaguoyitiaopengyouquan,yiyangshiquyishuzhanlan,keshijiashanglekaixindezhaopian,bingqiepeicishi:“yiranyaoxinzhisuoxiangya”。
zilixingjianhuirangxiaodonglaoxianshengjuededao,xiaochengfanhuileyiqianxinggekailangdemoyang,yiyangfanhuilexiyinzhuxiaodonglaoxianshengdemoyang。
keyidehuade,xiaodonglaoxianshengjijifaxiaoxiwenxiaocheng:“jinqiyoushenmehaokandezhanma?”
huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?zheishihouaipinshenglaoshishuo,“xianzaishishengjirenzhinenglidezhongyao,yidingyaocaozongliaotiandepinlv,bubilingyifangwenyiju,niyejiuhuiyingxuduo ju”。
qiadangdezuofashibaliaotianfencheng3gehuanjie:rechanghuanjie、yiqiezhengchanghuanjie、jieshuhuanjie。
rechanghuanjiedehuiyingpinlvbianshi2-wufenzhonghuiyingyitiao,yiqiezhengchanghuanjiezeshi10-ershifenzhonghuiyingyitiao,moweihuanjienenggouguo25-sanshifenzhongzaihuiying。
zainibawoneiyangdeliaotianpinlvshi,lingyifangbianhuixiangnizaiganshenme,weishenmebuhuiyingxinxihuoshidenghounihuiying。
neiyangtajiuerrumurandishengjileduinidejingzhundingwei,erqiezaibuzizhidezhuangkuangxiaquanzidongzijintouruganqing。
二、“咬一口iPhone基础理论”,激起男生探寻欲
zainanshengzijintouruqingganyihou,jiuxuyaoshitabuduanduini“jileihaoganduhehaoqixin”,neiyangcaikeyizaishijianzhoutianmanshijijigaobai!
aipinshengjiaoshijiaoxiaochengyizhao“yaoyikouiphonejichulilun”:rendaozhichidaoyikouiphoneyihou,caihuichuxianqianglieyuwangxiangyaoquyaoxiayikoudexinlizhuangtai,zheiyeshiyizhongcijixinglingyifangzaochengtanxunyudefangshizhiyi。
jiaruyixiabayikuangiphonedoujitamen,tahaowuyiwenjiubuyuanchiwan。
bacixiangjibenyuanliyingyongzaixiaoshouhuashuli,bianshidanglingyifangyaoxianglejienishenmeshiqingshi,buyonggaozhilingyifangguoduo,yaoshibiaoluzuixiaoxiandudexinxineirongjiuxing,zheijiushi“yikouiphone”deyingyong。
xiaochengzaiyihoudeliaotianzhongyigaichangtaihua,qiujiaolexuduo xiaodonglaoxianshengyouguannanxingsiweidenanti,xiaodonglaoxianshengzongsuanrenbuzhulewen:“niweishenmeyizhiwenyixienanrendexiangfaa?”
xiaochengyunyongle“yikouiphone”dejichulilunhuiying:“youyuxiangduolejieyixiananrena,bushishuonanshengcaizuikanchuannanrenma。”
zheizaiwuxingzhongjiuyaoxiaodonglaoxianshengzaochengerzhongniantou:
1、tashifouxiangduozhangwowo?
2、tashifouyoubiededeyaoxiangzhangwodenansheng。
neiyangqiadangde“yinnixingdaorujingzhengfa”shifenjianxiao,xiaodonglaoxianshengbujinmeiridouxiang“genpichong”yiyangjijidewenxiaochengdexingji,haiyaoshuoxuduo roumadehua。
meiwanbixuhexiaochengdayigeduozhongtoudedianhuacaibashou。
danaipinshengjiaoshigaozhixiaocheng,yidingbukeyigensui“nuanwei”zou,yaoxiang“fanggouzi”yiyangdediaotadeshiyu。
guozhen,meiguoduojiu,xiaodonglaoxianshengjiuannaibuzhudegenxiaochenggaobaile!
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