有在花镇退款成功的吗？学会避免自我感动与苦行僧式的付出

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？nvhaimendouqidainanpengyouduizishenhaoyidian，touruduoyidian，danshi，niquefajue，niduitazaoyihenhaola，zaiyitadetihui，jitamenzhufan，songjiageangguidelipin......

 naizhinenggoushuochengtitieruwei，keshitaqueyulaiyubujiangnidanghuishi，naizhihaijinifaguohaorenka，nishigehaoxiaoguniang，danwobuzhide。

 tingzhehenxinsuanshifou?zheiyizhuangkuangbianshidajiazhiqiantitiaojianguodeqingganguanlianzhongtianpingchengdewaixie，dajiazhongjiandenagetianpingchengzaoyichediquxiangtale。

youhenduoxueshenggenwoshuo，jiaoshi，weiheguanlianlidetianpingchenghuiwaixieni?zenmecainengrangtianpingchengjunheng，huoshipianzhongzishen?

zheigewentiqishibushihennan，liruyikaishideqingkuangxia，yiduanguanlianzhong，lianggerenyibanshishiyongjiazhifeichang，fenliangxiangtongde。

 deguanlianshiliangrendouhuishidudiweilingyifangtouru，lingwaiyejienalingyifangdetouru，baochizhetouruyukouchudejunheng，liangrendeguanlianbianhuiyizhishifenpingwen。

keshi，tongchangyouderenbushizunzhaozheiyibiaozhunde，tamenxiaiguoduotouru。

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？zheijiurutong，ahebchuduixiang，abquanshi100jindeiphone。abuduandijibiphone，yige2gesangesige，jianjiandi，abianchengle90jin，80jin，70jin，bjiubianchengle110jin，yibaiershijin，130jin。

neiyangdetianpingcheng，huanshijunhengdema?

 neimeshuo，xuduo xueshenghenyoukenengjiuxuyaobulijiele，naizhihuibianboshuo：tashiguohechaiqiaoba，woduinihenhao，jinitouruneimeduo，nandaoshuonimeiyingdanggengaixiwoma?

 zheijiushicunzaidewenti，zaiguanlianzhong，tourushihaoshier，danshiyoubiaozhun，jinriwomenyiqilaigongxiangyixia，guoduotouruduiguanliandeshanghai，jiqizenyangzhangwohaozheiyidu。

1、自我感动式的投入：这份爱不是他要想的

yiqianxueshengxiaohuahualaiwanliudeqingkuangxiayizhizeguaizishendetouruhelingyifangdewuqingwuyi。

nanpengyoushengchen，xiaohuahuaweilegenghaodijitamenmaixinxie，yigeyuejieyisuoshi，jieguo，nanpengyoushuozheibushitaxiaideyangshi;

 nanpengyoudebing，xiaohuahuajingchangaoyedunlelaomujitang，zhanzhuanhaoduogezhongtoujitamensongyiwang，nanpengyoushuomeiyoushiyu，hexiabulai。

fenshouzhihouxiaohuahuaquzhaolingyifang，zaitadamenkouzhanleyiyemeishuijue，nanpengyoujingranwen：niquganshenme?

 tingxiaohuahuaqingtuwanhou，woxunwenxiaohuahua，nizuozheizhongshiqingdeshijiyiyishisha?nishuonitourule，woxiangwenyixiatahuodelenaxie?tashihuodeleqian?huanshihuodelehaodeshuimianzhiliang?huanshihuodelejinshengdejiyu?huanshitigaoleyanjie?

xiaohuahualengzhule，tashuo：“jiaoshi，nigentashuodaodeyimoyiyang……”

 dahuoernenggouxiangyixia，zheileimanbuzaihude、ziwogandongdetouru，jiujingdadonglesheini?jiujingkaolvdedaodishisheideyaoqiuni?

 jianyanzhi，zheileitourubianshineilei：woxiangyaoyigeiphone，danniquejilewoyicheli，wobuhuijiena，niyaomawobudongganen，benlaiwozhishiyaoxiangyigepingguoa!

dajiadoushuo，aiyigeren，yaoduiyigerenhao，yaoxuehaokaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu。

 ruguowomenlianlingyifangdeyaoqiushishadougaobudong，neidajiabianshimangmugenfengtouru，zigaozidadetouru，kaolvdedoujinjinwomenzijitourudeyaoqiu，erbushilingyifangde。

ruguonikanbujianlingyifangdeyaoqiuhexiwang，kanbujianzhenzhengdelingyifang，neiyangdetouru，queshizhenailingyifangma?

 lingyifangtihuibushangzheifenai，zhijiandaonimanbuzaihudetouru，lingyifangdeganshoushishenmeni?neiyangdeguanlian，younengbuduanduozhangshijianni?

2、苦行僧式的投入：这份爱使他室息和小看

youyigemuqinwenxiaohaixiawuxiangchisha，xiaohaishuo，muqin，woyaochiyu。

 muqinbujinpaotaiyuandenongmaoshichangmailaixianyu，weilegenghaodikouwei，haijinshanquhenweixiandediquzhaiyaocao，jieguoshuaileyishenshanghuijia。

huijiahoujiudaizhuchuxuedechuangkou，jianchibuxiebayuzuowanle，xiaohaicaifajuemuqinshoushangle。

muqinshuo，buyaojinbaobeiguai，weinimuqinruhedounenggou，nikuaichifou。

zheipanyu，niyaochidelema?

 zheimingmuqindetouruhenxianeryijianbianshiyizhongkuxingsengdetourufangfa，bianshirangzishendetourukanqilaitongchujiqi，zheileitouruyouerzhongquedian，diyi，huibianchengbierendesixiangfudan，youyu，aideneimeshentaichenzhongle。

 xiaogushizhongdezheiyixiaohai，bianshiwodehaopengyouxiaoquan，congwolejietagangkaishi，tajiucongbuchiyuleizheixieyixiliefeichangfuzadecai，youyumuqinzuoqilaitaixinku。

 xiaoquanmuqinyizhiyilaiduizishenshifenkoumen，bushedechichuan，bahaodedoucunzhezhangfuheguinv，haihuijixuduiyourenshuo：buyaojin，dajiaxihuanjiuhao，wojidajiashengzheyidianer。

ershijishang，xiaoquandejiazhongyebuhuidaobixumuqinjieyisuoshidechengdu。

 zheileitourudedierzhongquedianbianshi，judadidihuilezishendeshiyongjiazhi，kuxingsengdexianwaizhiyinbianshi，dajiafeichangzhide，erwobuzhidezheixiehaodewupin。

ganqingguanlianquanshi2gerenshengdejiazhixiyinzhu，jiaruniyizaidihuilezishendeshiyongjiazhi，lingyifangyebuhuijiangnidanghuishi。

 zhihou，xiaoquanbabachuguile，changchangjilianrenmaijiwanyuandeyifukuzi、pinpaibaodeng，danjilaopoyaobubushimai，yaobujiusuanmailai，yejinjinyixiejibaikuaidejiajushipin。