有在花镇退款成功的吗？如何让男人反过来黏着你？

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yinci，dajiachengnuoleyigeshijian，meiwanliudianwubichouchulaishijianlaitongdianhua。

 diyitian，taanchengnuodadianhua;diertian，tashuodaolinshixingyoujiaojijiuhuijuele，erqieyijianshibiaomingleqianjiu，worenweizheileishierchedinenggoulejie;erlaidaodisantian，yelijiudianzhihouwojitamendaguo5dadianhuatayizhiyemeiyoujie。

zhizhidiertiancaifalaixinxi：

“zuorimang，gairiyidingpeizheni”。

lingwai，haijiwozhuanle5200yuan。

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yinci woyejitamenfaguotiaoshoujiweixin：

“shibuguosan，nilaidaodisancihuanshibuxinshounuoyan，jiaruzuoninvyoujiushizheigegongzidaiyudehua，neiwoqingyuanbubi。”

keshijishiruci，tahuanshimeiyouhuiwoweixin，wobianchixujitamendaguo30haojigedianhua。

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无同理心+不成熟是关联的凶手!

 zimugenwokaizhanleyiciyuyinliaotian，suihouyouyijuwobaokaoshitiandexuejibiao，jiqizaitonghuazhongwochangshuodezhuangkuangweiwozhidinglesangeyuedexuexijihuabiao，jiezheyoufasongjiwodiyizhoudekechenganpai。

jiexiaqushiwoyinxiangzuikegumingxindesangeyuedexuexipeixunhegenggaile。

zaidiyijieduan，zimuyouxianxuanzejiwoqingchanantidegenbenyuanyin。taqiangdiaolewodexuduo buzhengque：

●1.开设不正确的恋爱规则。

dajiachengnuodemeiwanliudianjishijiantongdianhua，zheiyifangshishibuzhengquede。

 zimushuozheiyiguizhangzhiduzishenjiuyoushenmewenti，dajiabuyinggaiquchengnuodaoyigegudingbudongdeshijianlianluo，neiyangbujintaibulinghuohua，daozuizhonglingyifanghaihuijixufeichangrongyibazheigeshierzuoweiyizhongmeirirenwulaishixing。

●2.无同理心，不成熟。

zimulaoshishuo“zaichaojiahou，nanpengyoujinguanyuwozhiqianle，danshishishangwobingmeiyouzaihuguotadexintaishishenmeyangzide。

yeyoubianshi，wotaizhuzhongyuyanfangmiandeqingxujiazhile，liru：

nanpengyouzhishuo：woyangnia

youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？woyehuicaiyi，ganjuetashuodaodequanshijiade!

keshi，jiarunanpengyouzaiqingxujiazhishang，zaiyuyanfangmiantianmanxixin，liru：

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 zheileibuduandequeding，bianhuirangworenweihenanxin。danduinanhaizieryan，feichangrongyixiaoqiandiaoxixin，youqishiduiyigezaidaxingshangchangshafajueduandenanreneryanshijihui。

●3.子沐实际操作性的来教我四步溶化芥蒂的沟通交流法。

sibugoutongjiaoliufadeneironghenxi，zimukanyixialehouhoudeyibendeketangjiaoxueshouji，bingjiwotilianlejingcuidesiweinaotu：

发生什么事事儿?

我有哪些体会?

怎么会有这类体会?

希望另一方怎样做?

 liru，jiaoshijiaowoyongshexinao，xuanzhunalaoxianshengdetupokou，zaiyong“fengzhengguilv”、“xianyujibenyuanli”dengjinjinbawozhutadexin，suihougenjuzheisigequanguochenglidesanmiaobiaozhunxianliao，yigaiyiqianbuchengshudepinpaixingxiang

alaoxianshengzhikuawo：“nvwangbukuishinvwang，budanqingshanggao，hainengbangwochushidutedeshangyefuwukanfahegousi。”