huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma?youxierenshuo,quanbudexiangchulaizidongxin,youdedongxinyilingrenmanyierwanhun,eryoudedongxinyizhangwoertichufenshou。
fenshouzhihou,xuduo nvshengxiangyaowanliu,danchangchangyusuzebuda,youyuwanliubenbianshiyigejidadekeng,ruguoniyixiangzheyaozuodaozheiyiyongyi,tongchanghuichuxian“yiduncaozuomengruhu,dingyanyikanyuandibudongchu”dezhuyaobiaoxian。
jiuliru“woxihuanni”zheisangezi,fangdaorelian,lingyifanghaowuyiwenjijizhudongdafuni,liru“woyeaini,shangpin”,keruguonifenshouzhihou,yiranyizheisangezideweiming,yigunaopobujidaiquwanliushi,zongshijiedaoxialiehuiying:
lijiculuxingqiannanyou:zoukai,wobuainile
yishenyiguixingqiannanyou:biezhuangle,nishufu,woyaokantaileile
taobijingjuexingqiannanyou:niyouxiangshuanaxiehuashi?
huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma?yiyangyijuhua,yingduibuyiyangdeqiannanyou,ninengfajueruguonihaipashiqu,niyejiuhuiyouyudanxinersangshidaliang,ruguonipinlemingwanliu,bianhuiyouyuxinfuqizaoergengweifuhexingyaoyaowuqi。
qingganjiuzheiyang,chongmanlemiulun,yinci wanliuyaosansierhouxing,weiyounikanqingdajiazhongjiandecunzaidewenti,caikeyiduizhengzhiliao。
第一思:为什么分手?
fenshouzhihou,xuduo nvshengyaobuhuashenweilinmeimei,yuantianyuandiyuanchusheng;yaobuhuashenweiluzhishen,nubachuiyangliu。
xintaihuishidajiabianchengtixianmuou,beixinxinhefenbianermihuoxinlizhuangtai,buyouzizhudakai“quanzidongdaohanglan”fangshi。
lizhixia,zaiyijufenshoudeyuanyinqupouxi,dangdajiazhengchao,xianghuzhijianbutuoxie,bulizhixiadetichufenshou,shijishangshiguishuyujiaxingfenshou,bushibuaini,zhishi“qingzhishenzezhiqie”,qidaihuodetadewanhui。
dangdajiazhangqixingchuzai“nizhuiwoduo”,yeyouyixingpengyoudedisanzhechazu,lingyifangxiangjinzaojiejuezheiyifenguanlian,gangkaishimeihaoshenghuo,tashizhenxingfenshou。
cike,zuizhongyaodeshi,bingbushiwanliu,zhishixuehuifangxia,lejiedajiadeguanlian,pouxibuchenggongqingganzhong,zishendebuzhengquehebugou。
danbubiquanfangweifourenzishen,mingbaiquhuahaoyiwu,fangzhibei“buzixin”xinlizhuangtaizhengqueyindaozheqianxing。
第二思:他是一个如何的人?
juedaduoshudetichufenshoutongchangdaozaile“yuanyiwei”,jiangzishenduitarendexiwang,huazuolingyifangdexiguanxinghetedian,hushilelingyifangxinlizhenzhengdeniantou。
zhengsuowei“zhibizhijibaizhanbaisheng”,yaoxiangzhangwotaweishenmeshuobuaijiubuaile,zuixianyaozhangwozheigeren。
bianrenzuihaoshidefangfabianshihuiwang,shijianzhizhang,niduitadezhangwoyejinjincunyouyuzaiqianyishizhongli,lejielingyifangdeaihaohexiguanxing,bingfeishencengcilingyifangdexinli。
yinci cikeyunyonghuizongdefangshi,congguanjiandianzhongfajuetazaihudedian,zhangwotaxinlizhenshideyaoqiu。
jiulirutahenizaiyiqishi,huiyouyushenmexiguanxingerzhengchao,tadexihaoyouyoushenme,tayoufumianqingxushiyoushenmezhuyaobiaoxian。
erdajiatichufenshouqian,tajiaoda degujizainaerdengjibennanti,duofangmianhuizong,niyejiuhuiduiwanliuyougengquanfangweidelejie。
第三思:他的要求是什么?
zaiqingganzhong,zhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu,shikaiqiqinggangongmingdeguanjianhuanjie,ernanshengyaoxiangdegongmingdian,fenchengxintaiyaoqiuheqingganxuqiu,jinyouqiadangdelejiehebawo,wanliucaikeyishibeigongban。
ruguonixiangzhangwolingyifangdexintaiyaoqiushi,nijiuxuyaojitamenchongzudeguishugan,jutibiaoxianzaijilingyifangchongzudeqinpei,renkehetouru。
qiadangdebawozhesanzhongxintai,huiranglingyifangzaixintaishanghuodekaolv,jinercujinganqingdenianchoudu。
rutongrenmenzaijialishiqidainenghuodeqinrenderentong,zaizhirenyuanchangqidainenghuodelingdaoganbuderenke,huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma?zailianaizhonggengbixuhuodelingyifangdegongmingdian,jinernenggouquedingzishendeyantanjuzhishinenggoubeirenkede。
ernanshengdeqingganxuqiulaiziyuzishendeluojisiwei,rutongnanrenlaiziyuhuohua,nvxinglaiziyujinxing,gengshinanhaihenvhailuojisiweidechabiecaidaozhiqingganxuqiudebuyiyang。
zheishinidelejiehejieshou,suichuweitakaolv,jitamenchongzudekuanweiheshiyong,shitajuedezishendeyaoqiushibeikandejiande,shinenggoubeizanchengde,yibushigujunzuozhande,shihoudexuduo nantibianhuidedaojiejue。
zuihaoshidewanliubingbushibaiwanxiongbingdequanguocheng,zhishishensiyuanlvdemoulve,youyuwanliushiyibudoubukeyicuodequanguocheng,yidanyibucuobianhuimanpanjieshu。
yinci yaozhunbeihaodagongjianzhan,zhongjiumoushizairenchengshizaitian,weiyounirenzhenquyunyinghehuifudajiadeqinggan,caikeyijinzaoxundeaiqingmeimandejiqiao。
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