花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？拉进彼此的心理距离的最佳手段

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？meiyicipengmianzongqidaijidahuoerchanshengxindeneirong，zaiguoqudecaifangzhongdajiatijiguofenlidisanzhededuice、zhengqueyindaoxiangmutouzideshijijihuafangan、zhongxinmaodejishuxingzheixie，erzaidangqidecaifangzhong，dajiayejiangyouxingyuanganqingxueyuandeyunhongjiaoshizhenrenbanchujing，rangwomenjieshi2gexinnanti：

 tigaotonglixindeshijiduicejiqizenyanglajinxianghujiandejianju，weicixiezhudajiagengqiangdejiejuehunyinguanxi，dedao jingcairensheng，shijizenyangzuo，dajiakanlaixiamian。

▌碰触禁区，不破不立

zaigangkaishijinridecaifangyiqian，dajiayouyigenanti：nixiangyaozaitarenyanqianbaoludeyinsibaohuma，youqishiqingganwenti?

yaolaijuedaduoshurendouchifourenhuida。

dajiadouxiguanfenshitaiping，jianghuayeshizhenweichanban，yinci bingbushilejiederentongchanggaobuqingdajiadezhenzhengniantou。

 zheikanshangquwuguanjinyao，danzaizixunquanguochengzhongqueshiyigehendadenandian，youyuzixunguwendouyaoxianzhangwozhuangkuangcaikeyijidaoxiangduixingyingdejiejuefangfa，er“shuohuanghua”、“yinzangzijidezhenzhengniantou”huirangzixunzhituyuelaiyuezhongzhongkunnan。

huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？yinci ，rangxueshengshuoshihuasuanzuomolianlaoshizixungongzuonenglideyigeshuiping。

那如何保证呢?

yunhongjiaoshitiji2geliucheng：

1、zaidajiazuimingandeqingkuangxiayutagoutongjiaoliuganqingwenti

2、shidupengchulingyifangjinqu

yunhongjiaoshijuededajiazuimingandeqingkuangxia，yeshigoutongjiaoliushuzuiduodeqingkuangxia。

 yinci zaizixunzhongtahuichangchangtichuwentiyixiepuluxintai、zaochengzhuiyidenanti，liru：nizhiqianzaitarenyanqiankushishenmeqingkuangxia?zishenkuyoushizaiheshi?

 yingshedaorichangshenghuo，dajiahaikeyiwen：nizhiqianjuededaoshushouwuceshishenmeqingkuangxia?nishiyiheshijuededaoshenxinpibeideni?

genjuneiyangdenantihuanqidajiaxinlingshenchudemianruan，lajinxianghudejianju，chuangjianxinlaigan。

 ziran，xinlaiganbingbuyiweizhewuhuabutan，yejiushishuodequanshishihua，yinci zheigeshihoujiubixuyouduicedepengchulingyifangjinqu，ranglingyifangshuoshihua。

 bixuliuyideshi：pengchujinquyoukenengdaozhilingyifangfahuo，yinci womenyaobawohaoyigeshudu，gaoqingchushenmejiaonenggoutaolunde，naxieyeshilinshiyidingyaobikaide。

 duiyuguize，yinrenyousuobutongde，danshiyunhongjiaoshiyeliejuyigeshili，lirulingyifangtaoyantarennazishendeqinrenhuoqiannanyouwanxiao，neimadajialinshijiubukeyitanjizheiyihuatitaolun，dengyouhaoduheyichengxiangdaidutigaole，zaizuotaolundoubuchi。

▌qianyizhipeiquan，tonglixinqingting

tidaozixunfangfa，yunhongjiaoshiyeyouyitaozishendeguize，tabazijidezixunfangfafenchengsigehuanjie。

diyijieduan：lejie、lingting，rangqiuzhuzhedexiaogushihuodechongzudeqingting;

dierjieduan：pouxiyuangu，tantaowenti，genjudisanfangjiaodu，rangqiuzhuzhekanqingzijideganqingfangshiheganqingwenti。

disanjieduan：mingquezongtimubiao，youhuananti，jiangfanzadenantixitiaotiaohua、xihua。

disijieduan：jiejuekunnan，dechujihuafangan，xiezhuxueshengchulijutinanti。

 jincongzheisigehuanjiekanlai，henyoukenengdahuoerhuiganjuezuozixunyebuhuitainan，zhongjiujiuzheiliangbu，danzhiyixingnan，nishizhongbuqingchuyigezixunguwenweilegenghaodiyigejianjiemingledewanliujihuafanganyaotourushiduoshaoxinli。

yunhongjiaoshibingtaoyandaokushui，danshidajiahuanshicongguanjiandianchukandaoleyunhongjiaoshidetouru：

 henduonianqingganzixungongzuojingyan，jierenshilibujiqishu，yecengtaguocuowuguannian，moguobi，zaibuduanchuaimohehuizongzhongzuihouchanshenglezheisigejianjiemingle、nengrangxueshengyiyanjiukandongdefenjieduanduice。

 nadiyijieduanjulishuoming：lejie、lingting，shijishangzhidebianshizhangwoxueshengjibenqingkuang，hexueshengchuangjianguanlian，zhibuguoshiyunhongjiaoshiduoganleyidianer：chongzuqingtingqiuzhuzhedexiaogushi。

如何充足呢?

bianshibazhudaoquanjiaodaoqiuzhuzhe，bubipobujidaidezuochufenbianhejutizhidao。

 tajuedexuduo zaodaoganqingweijidenvshi，zuibixudebujinshiyigexingzhiyouxiaodejihuafangan，haibixuyigekeyiyongxinlingtingzishenxiangshengderen。