shilianshiyigeremendehuati,jihuzaimeiyitianchuxian,neimenimenjuedeshilianruhefuhe?shilianruhezouchu?shilianruheanweini?meidaanbuyaojin,wohuijiniyixiejianyi。
一、失恋如何挽回
youyuzijideyuanyin,youhuozhenixiangzhongxinwanhuiyiduanaiqingdeshihou,woxiangniyidinghuiwen,shilianruhewanhui?henjiandan。
1、首先先冷静
shilianruhewanhui?shouxianjieshouxianshi,zhongduanlianxi,jizijilengjingqi,wendingqingxu。tingzhiheduifanglianxi,wanbukekukuaiqiu,gengbunengsichanlanda。aiqing,heyouqingyiyang,shiqiqiubulaide。nichuxiandeyuepinfan,duifangjiuyuexiangtaopao,shenzhiyuelaiyuetaoyanni。guodubiaodaxuqiugan,huizaiwuxingzhongjiangdizijidejiazhi,rangduifangjuedefenshoushizhengquede。jizhu,houtuishiweilegenghaodeqianjin。keyishidangbiaodazijidehuiyihenanguo,dandiandaoweizhi,bukeguodu。shuobuyaozailianxile,jiuzunzhongta,zanshiduanlian。tashuozhinengdangpengyouyiyangxiangchu,yezunzhongta,jiudangpengyouneiyangbaochijuli。zheiduanshijian,qingxushibijiaojidongde,xianjizijiyiduanlengjingdeshijian,rangxintaipinghexialai,shizhetouruzuoxiexihuandeshiqing,rangzijimangliuqilai。xianhuifuyigezhengchangdeziji,cainengzuochuzhengquedeshiqing。
2、反思
shilianruhefuhe?jiezhefansizishen,zhaodaowenti。fansizijizaizheiduanguanxizhongyounaxieshiwu,zhaodaowentideyaohai。zhiyouzhaodaowentisuozai,caiyoukenenghaohaojiejue。ruguohetahaiyoutongxun,keyijianyaodegaosutanidefansijielun。biaoshinilijietadejueding,queshishizijibuhao,niyishidaolewentisuozai,bingjuedingzaijinhounulixiuzheng。biaomingzheixiejiuzugoule,xianbuyaotifuheyaoqiu,zhixuyaorangduifangzhidao,niwanquanlijieta,jiuxingle。jiexialaiyaogaizaoziji,weirihouduitajianliercixiyinzuozhunbei。youneierwaidegaibianziji。biru:huanyihuanfaxing、gaibianzhezhuang、changshixinshiwu、xuexindongxi、jiaoxinpengyoudengdeng,rangzijihuanranyixin。bingqieouer“bujingyide”rangtakandaonidegaibian。dangnikaishizhongxinxiangshouzijideshenghuo,bingqieguodefengfuduocaiyouziyouweideshihou,duifangkenenghuizhongxinshenshihenidefenshou,shenzhikaishihuaiyizijidefenshoushibushitaicaolvle。
3、重新联系
shilianruhewanhui?zhongjianlianxi,zhanshiziji。shilianruhewanhui?yizhanxindemianmao,zhongxinjianlilianxi。rangduifangganjueziran,keyizhizaoyixie“buqieryu”,zhizaoyixiebujingyidejiaoji。gengxiangshizhudingdeyuanfen。zaiourandejianmianshi,yidingbuyaojizhebiaoluzijidefuhexuqiu,yebiekeyixianshizijidegaibian,buyaorangduifangganjuedaoyali,jinjinguanxinyixiataguodezenmeyang,huozhenimenyiqianyoushenmegongtongdehuati,doukeyiqingsongdeliaoyiliao。ruguotabingmeiyouxianluchukangju,guoduanshijian,keyishizhezaiyue。youyiwuyidejingguoyiqiantianmiyuehuidedifang,bujingyidetiqigongtongdemeihaohuiyi。zheixiezhuiyi,huirangtachanshengqingxugongming,rangtamanmanzhongxinduinichanshengqingganxuqiu。ruguoshanzhangwenzibiaoda,keyixiexinbiaodazheixieyisi。taiduyidingyaolengjingpinghetongqingdali,qiebukeshijiayali。
4、zhuazhujihui,huifulianxi
shilianruhefuhe?huifulianxizhihou,zhiyaonibubiaoxianchupobujidaidejinbi,duifangyibanbuhuituranzaicixiaoshi。ruguoyouwanhuidekenengxing,zheishihouwangwanghuichuxianyixiehenhaodejihui,qiebukecuoguo。biru,zaitaqingxudiluodeshihou,huoxuhuijinifayitiaoduanxin。huozhe,zaitatingdaonimencengjingshuxideyishougedeshihou,chudonglejiyishenchudemouchurouruan,yushifayitiaodongtaishufaxinqing。zheixieyouyiwuyidezhudonglianluo,shuomingtazaineishixinzhongduinirengranyouzhehuainian,shenzhiliulian。dangranyaozhuajinjihui,zaitachuyuzheizhongqingxuzhuangtaishi,jishilianluo,shenzhikeyiyuetachulaishenqingbiaobai。
二、失恋如何走出
1、首先思考
yourenhuiwenshilianruheanwei,nikeyirangtashilianzhihouyidingbuyaozaibaoyourenhehuanxiang。qishidaduorenshilianzhihouzoubuchulai,doushiyinweiduiqianrenchongmanhuanxiang。tamenjuedeyaoshizijizaizuodianshenme,duifangjiuhuizhongxinhuidaozijishenbian。shishishidaduoshulianqingjieshuzhihoudoumeifazaipojingzhongyuanle,yiweidebaozhehuanxiang,zhihuishizijijiujiezaishiliandetongkuzhongzoubuchulai。yexuzheishihounihuijuede,yaoshiwanyinimenshihenshihedeyiduini?jiuzheiyangcuoguotaikexile。neimezaifenshouhou,bufangwenwenziji,ruguonimenjixu,xingfuzhishumanfenweishifendehua,nimenzhijiandexingfuzhishuhuiyouduoshaofenni?ruguofenshuzaibafenzhixia,neimejiujianyinifangshouba,nishihezhaodaogenghaode。yinweinimennaodaofenshouzheiyibu,nimendeganqingkendingcunzaiyixiewenti,ruguonimenzaiyiqijixudexingfuzhishubingbushihengao,neimezhongxinzaiyiqihou,neixiewentihuiyirancunzai,nimenyexuyouhuixiangfangqi。
2、该干嘛干嘛
liruhaohaogongzuo,haohaoxuexi。yexunihuishuo,shilianle,xinqingyipianzaogao,genbenmeiyouxinqinghaohaodequzuohaozijigaizuode。xinqingbuhao,keyitongguoyixiefangshiqudiaozhengzijishilianhoudexintai,danshizheijuebushizongrongzijibuhaohaoxuexihegongzuodejiekou。nikeyijinliquzuozijixihuandeshiqingrangzijideqingxushengqilai,yidingyaorangzijixingdongqilai,qiebuketaiyonglanxiaojidemianduizijideshenghuo。
3,给自己一点时间
shilianlehaixihuantazenmeban?dangnishilianhou,nihaishihuijingchangxiangqita,zheihenzhengchang,yunxuzijiquxiangta,huainianta。danshiyeshizuohaodierdiansuotidaode,zuohaozijigaizuodeshiqing。yexuyourenhuijuedezuohaozijigaizuodeshiqinghejizijishijianzouchulaiyouyidianchongtu。tamenbingbushiduilide,zuohaozijigaizuodeshizhixingdongshangyaoxingdongqilai,erjizijishijianzouchulaishizhicongxintaishanglaishuode。nikeyiyibianxiangzheqianren,yibianhaohaogongzuo。buyaokeyideyidingyaohenkuaiwangjiduifang,yebuyaotaibeiguan,juedezheiduanganqingnizaiyewufashihuaile,yaoxiangxin,yiliangnianhou,dangnizaizhongxinmianduizheifenganqingshi,niyidinghuigenglixingdekandai。
4、总结成长收获
yourenhuiwenshilianruheanwei?qishikeyigentashuo,meiyiduanganqing,buguanzuihoudejiejuzenyang,yebuguannimenxiangchudeshifouyukuai,xiangxinzaizheigeguochengzhongniyidingyoushouhuo,niyaoquzongjiezheixiechengzhang,zheiyangdangnixiangqizheiduanganqingshi,nihuiduoyixiezhengmianqingxu,ershaoyixiebaoyuanzhizeyufennu,dangnizhengxiangmianduizheifenganqingshi,nijiuhuigengtandang,yegengyouliyunizouchulai。
zouchuyiduanshilian,meigerenfangshibuyiyang,danxiangxinshijianshidejieyao,xuehuijienaxianshi,jienayijingfashengdeshiqing,yiqiedouhuimanmanhaoqilai。
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