失恋这件小事要应放松心态去面对

 shilianlezenmeban，haishichaoxihuanta，shebudeta。niqishikeyizhaoyixiashilianzixun，huozheyoushenmeyouyongdeyijianjini，duiyushilianzheijianxiaoshiyinggaiyongpingchangxinquduidai。

 nvshengshilianhaixihuanduifang，yudaozheiyangdeqingkuang，nvshengwangwanghuibuzhisuocuo，zonghuixiangshilianlezenmebanni？zonghuixiangwanhuiba，youjuedediulianmeimianzi，buwanhuibaxinliyoufangbuxia。xiwanghuazhenshilianzixunnengjininidaan。shilianlehaishixihuantazenmeban？niyaokaolvxianishifoukeyijieshounishiliandezheigeshishi。

 duifangjiranyinweijianyisiqianhenifenshou，zheigeshihouyidingshiduifangzuolexuanzede。shouxianfangqiderenyidingshizuixianxiangdetongde。nizaizheilikukuxihuanta，rujinyijingchenglezijishashadefuchu，erduifangmeiyouhuiying，zheibushiaiqing，zheizhinengjiaozuodanxiangsi。yebushiduifangshilian，duifangzhishizhaodaolezijizhenzhengxiangyaozhaodaoderen，fouzeyebuhuihenifenshou。henduoshihouyijianzhongqingshizhende，zhishizheijianshiqingfashengzainishenshang，shilianzheijianxiaoshiquehuirangniganjuedaogewaidebeishang。danshiniyebubiyinciertainanguo。yinweishuyunideneigenanhaiziyexuhaimeiyouchuxian，bierangbuheshiderendaizoudeni，nihetajiranbunengzhangqihuxiangxiyin，shilianduinilaishuoyeweibishishenmehuaishi。neimeshilianlezenmebanni？

一、有没有挽回的可能

 ruguonizhendehaishifangbuxia，neimexiangyixiangyoumeiyounixidekenengxing。ruguonizhendexiangwanhuiduifang，zheigeshihounijiuyaoyouyidingdecelvehemoulve。ruguojuedezijizhihuibugou，nikeyiquzhaoyixieqingganjiaolianlaizhizhao。bijingxihuanyigerenqingyijiufangqile，haizhentanbushangxihuan。xiricengyoujinyuelinxihuancainvlinhuiyin，zaitajirideneitiantongkuliulei，shangxinyujue，hekuangzuoweiqinggandongwuzhichengdenvhaizini？henduoshiqingzhiyounulilecaizhidaoxingbuxing。danshiyidanfangqikendingshimeiyouxiwangle。

二、强化你自己的本能

 renzheiyishengzhongzhongjiukeyiyikaodeshiziji。dangnizijibiandeqiangdadeshihou，nijiuhuifaxianqitaderendouhuixiangnikanqi。youshihouzhisuoyiliubuzhunanrendexin，bushiyinweinibupiaoliang，ershiyinweinihaibugouqiangda。qishinanrenbinvrendouhenxianshi，tamenzongshibuduandizaibijiao。yinweitongguobijiao，tazhidaoshenmeduitalaishuogengyouli。tazhisuoyixuanzefangqini，neiyeshitaquanhenglibidejieguo。jueduibushinixiangxiangdeganqingyinsu。jiuxiangxuzhimozhuiqiulinhuiyin，qishiyikaishijiatingyinsujiujuedingletadeshibaixing。henduoshihoubushininalibuhao，ershinihaibugouqiangda。ruguonizugouqiangda，duifangyexugenbenjiushebudegennifenkai。renzongshizisi，yudaogenghaodedongxijiuxianghuode，zheishiqiangububiandezhenli。duiyushilianzheijianxiaoshi，zhinengyongpingchangxinqukandai。

 shilianle，haixihuanta，jiuyaozaiaizhongxuehuifangqiyuzhenxi。niyaomejieshouxianshifangxiata，yaomejiunixiwanhuita。danshiwulunnizouneitiaolu，shilianhoudouyaobaochikuailedenengli，nidouyaojideqiangdaziwobishenmedouzhongyao。yinweiwulunshiaiqinghaishihunyinli，ziwoqiangdadoushihunyindewendingji。shilianlezenmebanfangbuxia

三、刺激引导法

 shilianqijian，henxuyaoshilianzixunbangni，dangniyijuebuzhen，huiyiguoqudezhongzhong。keyideyazhuzhinengshinizanshiwangque，dandiertianzhengkaiyan，youlaile。“buquxiang”jiuzhendenengbuxiangma？“xiangyaowang”jiuzhendenengwangjima！rendesixiangzongshihuinixiangerxingzhi，niyuexiangwangdiaodedongxi，tayuexiangquxiang，nizongshixiwangquwangji，pianpianyouwangbudiao。chufeinizaoyilianjiu“xinruzhishui”degongfu，fouze，yixintaixueyanjiuxianshi，zanshizhenyaqingxuheyizhisilu，zhihuirangxiayijieduanhuibiandegengjiadetongku。suoyizheigefangfabingbuzanchengtaiguoyubaoshou，xiangfandi，tichang“yidugongdu”，rangzijixiangqineixierangniliuleideshiqing，xiangneixiechupengdaonidixiandeshi，jiqinideqingxu，zhidaofanyingqupi，ganjuemabiweizhi。dengnixiangdaomeishenmekexiang，yejiujuedemeiyisile，yejiumeishenmehaoxiangdele。lianai：lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

四、丑化他法

 shilianlezenmeban？dangshilianshi，gengyinggaixuehuikanren，kanqingchuneigeren。fankainidejichouxiaobenzi，jixiatademeiyitiaozuizhuang。tadezuixingshibukeraoshude，yidingyaorangzijiyuelaiyuehenta，taoyandaoyaoyaqiechi、daojinweikouweizhi。（suiranfenshoudeyuanyinyekenengshiziji）ruguozheiyanghaibuguoyin，nikeyizhaoxieyiyangtaoyantadepengyouyiqilaidihuita，pidouta。dajialunliupipanneigeren，batamachengyiwenbuzhi。rangnihaohaofaxieyixiayuanqi，nihuituranfaxianshilianzheijianxiaoshiqishimeishenme。

 benfazuijialiaoxiao，shibangnizaiqingxieyuannuzhiyu，faxianduifangjingshirucibukanzhiren，shoushiqisinianhuaijiudexinqing，wanquanpaoquqianguayubushe。