分开后怎么挽回这段婚姻

　　fenkaihouzenmewanhuizheiduanhunyingemen/jimeimen，shifoujinqitiantianshimian、meiyoushiyu、yikandaotajiuxinkoududehuang?

　　tatichulihunle，nikuzheqiutabuyaozou，dantalengzhelianshuo“meiganqingle”;

　　tabanchuqule，nifaxiaoxibuhui、dadianhuabujie，zhenggerendouxiangshibeichoushijianle;

　　niyekaishizhiyiziji：“shibushiwotaichajingle?tashifouzaojiuxianglikai?”

　　——buyaohuang!jintianzanmenjiusidiao“hunyinposui”deyanzang，bayibazheixiezangdaofenqizhongde“fuhexingdenglumima”——zhixuzhaoduifangfa，90%dehunyinshenghuodoukeyijiuguolai!(wenmoyou“juedifengsheng”deshijicaozuoliucheng，kanlemashangkeyong!)

　　yi、hunyinshenghuokuaibengpanle?xianrenqingzhei3ge“zhimingxingshiqing”!

　　shiqing1：“liyi”bingbushitufade，fanershi“yumouyijiu”

　　xuduolihunhoushi，laoshuo“xiangbudaotahuiruci”“turanjiantichulihunle”——danshishishi：tazaojiuxianglikai，zhishizijiyizhimeifaxian!

　　举例说明：

　　tayinianqiankaishipinfanjiabanjiadian、daojiayulaiyuwan、duizijideyulaiyulengmo，danshiniganjue“tajinjintaileile”;

　　tasangeyueqianzhujianhuijueqinmiwujian、fenfangshui、lianzhengchaoyelandechao，danshiniganjue“tajinjinxinqingyumen”;

　　tayigeyueqianzhujianzhenglixingli、zhaolvshizixun、yinnicaichan，danshiniganjue“tajinjinfapiqi”——zhizhitaxuanbutichulihun，nicaihuihuangrandawu!

　　yinci，hunyinshenghuokuaibengshi，buyaowen“weihe”，xianwen“heshikaishide”!

　　(qiaozhongdian：fuqiganqingpolieqian，qimayou3-6geyuede“yujingxinxiqi”，zhishizijihushile!)

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiwodegongzhonghao~liexinrenlaoli，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　shiqing2：“liyi”bingbushitayigerendecuo，fanershi“liangrendoushengbingle”

　　xuduofuqilihunhou，zonghuxiangmaiyuan：“quanshitazijidecuo!”“tayagenbuaiwo!”——danshishishi：hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing，liyidoushi2gerendezeren!

　　举例说明：

　　tamaiyuanni“buzhejia”，danshinijiabanjiadianjiushiweileduoyangjiahukou;

　　nikanbushangta“butitie”，dantazhufanshiweilerangdajiachihao;

　　tarenweini“jiatinglengbaoli”，danshiniganjueta“manbujiangli”——nimendouzaiyong“zijidefangshi”xihuanduifang，danshiduifangyagenganjuebudao!

　　yinci，hunyinshenghuokuaibengshi，xianbiejizhe“tuixiezeren”，xiankanyixiazishennaer“shengbingle”!

　　(qiaozhongdian：fuqiganqingpolieshi，90%derenzhifaxianduifangzijidecuo，genbenkanbudaozishendewenti!)

　　shiqing3：“liyi”bushizhongdian，fanershi“congtoukaishidehaojihui”

　　xuduofuqilihunhou，laoshuo“zheiyishengwanhou”“zaiyebunengdonglexin”——danshishishi：liyijinjinhunyinshenghuode“dazhuanzhe”，bingbushirenshengzhongde“zhongdian”!

　　举例说明：

　　youxierenlihunzhihou，xiaochensannian、shijiuduqian、bianweihunchidengsi;

　　youxierenlihunzhihou，yundongjianshenxuexipeixun、qudechenggong、pengdaozuiheshideren;

　　——qubiejiushi：qianmianyizhongbaliyidang“buchenggong”，houmianyizhongbaliyidang“zaisheng”!

　　yinci，hunyinshenghuokuaibengshi，buyaowen“shifouhainengwanliu”，xianwen“wokebukeyicongtoukaishi”!

　　(qiaozhongdian：fuqiganqingpolieshi，zuikongbudebingbushiliyi，ershishiqu“congtoukaishi”deqipo!)

　　er、zenmewanhuiposuidehunyin?3zhaonizhuan“fuhexingdenglumima”!

　　jiliang1：“lengqueqi”bi“jiuchanbuqingqi”gengweizhongyao!

　　典型性不正确：

　　tatichulihunhou，nikuzheqiutabuyaozou、guixialaizhiqian、fa100tiaoxinxi、da50dianhua——jieluntabanilahei、banchuqu、naizhisusonglihun!

　　weihe?youyuni“jiuchanbuqing”demoyang，rangtagengtaoyanni!

　　正确的做法：

　　mashangshoushou，biejiuchan!jitafayitiaoxiaoxi：“womingbainirujinhaofanwo，wokeyijinishineikongjianlizhi，dengnizhunbeihaolegenwoshuo。”(yong“lizhi”qudai“jiuchanbuqing”)

　　xiaotui7-15tian，bielianxi!qineizhuanzhuyuziji，liruyundongjianshen、xuexipeixun、hepengyoujuhui——rangtaganjue“nituranfashengbianhua”，fandaohuihaoqixinnidongtaixing!

　　7tianzhihou，yong“feibaoligoutong”ceshi，liru：“woqianjitianfansilexuduo，yeyingxianglexuduo，nengliaoliaoma?”(yong“zhenxinshiyi”qudai“poshi”)

　　jibenyuanli：aiqingshi“xiyinzhu”de，bingbushi“qiu”de。niyueshilizhi，tayuehuang;niyueshijiuchanbuqing，tayuetao!

　　jiliang2：“wagenbenyuanyin”bi“zhiqian”gengweizhongyao!

　　fenkaihouzenmewanhuizheiduanhunyindianxingxingbuzhengque：

　　tatichulihunhou，nihuishuo“duibuqi”“zaijiwoyicijihui”“woganbaozhenggai”——jieluntamani“xuqingjiayi”“wanquanbudongwo”!

　　weihe?youyuni“zhiqian”demoyang，jiuxiangzaifuyanleshita!

　　正确的做法：

　　xian“zijiuzicha”zai“tacha”，liruwenyixiaziji：

　　“wozhangqixinghushitadexuqiulema?”(lirutaxuyaorenpei，erniquezongjiabanjiadian)

　　“wozongshiyong‘zijidefangshi’aitama?”(birushuoniganjuesonglishixihuan，taquerenweipeibanai)

　　“wojitazaihunyinzhong‘gudan’lemeiyou?”(lirutaxianggoutongjiaoliu，erniquezongkanshouji)

　　youwenta：“dajiajuededajiahunyinshenghuozuidadewentijiushinaxie?”(yong“lingting”qudai“bianbo”)