如何让女生喜欢自己？要学会与女生聊天

 ruhe rangnvshengxihuanziji ?wojuedenvshenghenanshengdesiweifangshishibuyiyangde，nanhaizizhongshideshijieguo，ernvhaigengzhuzhongdeshijuede，jiaruzaixianliaoshinikeyishengchanzhizao1geshufuqieqingqingsongsongdexianliaoqifen，neima，nvhaixunsujiunenggouyuniliaoqilaiqilai，xunsudeyunigangkaishihudongjiaoliu。

 yeyouxuduoxiongdihuichuxianxianliaosidezhuangkuang，huanjuhuashuozaigennvhaixianliaoshi，neirongtongtongshimeiyouyingyangchengfendehuatitaolun。ruherangnvshengxihuanziji?liru：“zaima?” “shuilema?” “chiwanma?”“ganshani?”，niganjuezheileihuatitaolungengyouyiyima?

 nvhaihuiyouxiangzaiciyuniliaoxialaidechongdongma?yiqiyejiuzhengshi，yaoxiangtishengyumeizhigoutongjiaoliushidecanyuxing，jiuwubizaixianliaozhongzaojiu1gequweieryoushufudexianliaoqifen。renmenshuo“ganqingbingbushizhuiqiuwanmeilaide，shixiyinzhulaide”，hendui，henrenshengdadaoli，zuigaixiangxifenxideshi，shijidecengdiguanlianjiujingshiruhede：

盆友学起

lixianghuaqingkuang：wenzhongqusheng

keyongfangfa：shiduzanyang、suomentucao

1、适度赞扬

shuobaileheshizanyangyaohehuxialiehaoduogetedian：

① 实际

 dianxingxingdebuzhengqueshikualingyifanghenmei，tebieshizaishizhenduizheixiequeshihenmeideyixingpengyou。dianxingxingdeqiadangshishijikuayixingpengyoumianbuzhongdemouyidian，neiyangnenggouzaochengyixingpengyoudeliuyi。

②差别

jibatajiedingweizheichangsaishizhongdeyoushengzhe，liruxxxdapaimingxingchuanxiangtongdeyifukuzimeiyoutapiaoliang。

③稀缺

shidudewupinquanshishidangde，dangzanyangtaifeichangrongyihuodejiushiqutayuanlaideshijiyiyi。

④潜在性

 duokualingyifangdeyinxingshiyongjiazhidian，ru“youshanxin、shanjierenyi、dandu”，yiqijinkenengraokaiyinxingshiyongjiazhidezanyangru“bai、fu、mei、”

⑤双核掩藏

 juzuowei：“niyingdang…..、wodou……”jijuzanmeidehualibianfang2gezhuyu。shoujuzanyangyixingpengyou，dierquxiaozishendezhangban。tuozhanyixiaxia，youshiyixingpengyouhuixinxihenman，tingdadeyuangujiushishuozheijuhuaxinxineirongguoshaohennanjie，yincirenmenyaozaihuatitaolunxianjieduanqujinkenengdeyanmaixinxineirong。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?

2、梭门吐槽

①不必很怕推

huoshipengyouguanlian，jiubiehaipalingyifanghuifahuo，jishigaohuaileyejinjinshuojiju：“baoqian，wanxiaohuakaiyiguo”jiukefu。

②这些不可以推

 yixiejihuihuatitaolunyifabuqujiushishuosi，ta(ta)burongyirangnihuiladeshijian。dangnitui“taai”，jieguobierenqueshiai，tuibierenpingxiongmeizi，jieguobierenqueshipingxiongmeizi，zaitayanzhongzheijiubingbushituile，tashichaoxiao。huanjuhuashuoquexianbukeyitui，bijiaominganshehuidaodedianbukeyitui，shejiaomeitiyouhuolibukeyitui。

③tongxueguanxi，ladebukeyitaijin，qiahaotuodaobifabuquqianxingyidiudiujiuxing

3、歪曲

 shuobailedewaiqujiushishuo，lingyifangduinizuochuyixiegerenxingwei，nikeyilejiedaotadehanyi，suihouxiangtabiaoshuchubutongdehanyi。

举例说明：

nv：“nichifanlema?”

 tajianghuijinjinjianyidewenhaoyixiaxiani，yuanyirenshiyixiawoxianzaideqingkuang，keshinikeyiwaiqutadehanyi，jiubixujijutesefangfahuiying。

nan：“yi?ruhehuranneimeguanzhuwo，bingbushiyaoqingwoyongcanba?”

 dangnijinjinjianyidehuileju“chiwan”，neimazheiyihuatitaolunjiuxiangdangyuzaoyigaoyiduanluo。yongwaiqulaihuiying，jiushishuoyibianchulidiaozheiyiwuqudenanti，nvhaideshouweifanyinghaowuyiwenxiangnibiaoshushuo：

女：“哪儿，沒有”

suihou，ninengranhouzheihuazaicixiangxiashuo：

nan：“zheimoyangdehua，neimewoniyaohaikeyia，shima!”

 jiarutatongyile，neimagongxigongxi，buxiaoxinjiuyuelaidaomeizhi。jiaruniyutadeguanlianyoubixudefazhan，erqieyoubixudeqinqipengyouguanlian，neimenidehuatitaolunnenggouzaidandadeshencengciyidianer。

举例说明：

meizhiyibuxiaoxinyudaoleni，nibubixiuse，zhishishuo：

nan：“bubiluanmoe，wonenghanfeilide，danshi，kanzainineimetaorenxihuandefenshang，jiusuanle，zhiyouyihuie。”

meizhixiangyaonijitadi1gewupin，ninengshuo：

jinguanshiliyoudianernanyizhixin，danshidejiushishuozheileishijixiaoguo。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?

lixianghuaqingkuang：guanlianxingrenke。

keyongfangfa：shendu1huatitaolungongmingdian，quedianhelixing，qianzaixingshiyongjiazhizhanxian

1、shendu1huatitaolungongmingdian

2、缺点合理性

1、jiarunvhaidoutaoyannaxiehuaxuewuzhile，neimewopinboyoumeiyoushenmeshijiyiyini?

2、bingbushinixingzicha，shineiqunrenqingshangzhishangtaidi。

3、bingbushinijiaozong，shitamenmeixixin。

4、bushinidecuoshitamendoubudui。

3、qianzaixingshiyongjiazhizhanxian

①shenmeshiqianzaixingshiyongjiazhi?

yizhiliqiang、yongyudandang、youshanxin、youzhili、youqingshangzhishang、yongxin、congshideyishizhuxing、jijizhudongdeshenghuoguanniandeng。

②展现方法。

genjusuoshihuoyishizhuxingqingkuangdefangfalairangtazishenxiaojiefajue,qiewulijiduitashuo“woshiyoushanxinyongyudandangdenansheng

③错误观念。

 cuobayinxingshiyongjiazhizhanxianchulai,ru“xinshuigao、qicheyaochifangdaocanzhuozuixianzhudediqu”。zhengtishilishizhebuzhude,youyizhanxianshizaibitashuodongzishenbingbushiyouyuzheizhongtiaoxuanjienani,yibanlaishuo,tamenmeifashuodongzishen。

④优点区共享资源。

 meigerendouyouzishendeliangdian,lirubuzhi、yueduwenzhangliang、qingshangzhishang、sheyingshuipingzheixie。genjuduitaxiangduixingyingdeshenmeiguan、lejie、guandianjiyugaokuanbiderenke,yincitazairenmenzheieryougexubaodeshiyongjiazhidian,erzaitarenneibianmeiyou。

 buhuiliaotian，yizhibeinvxinghuijuededixiong，keshixiajuexinyaoxuexipeixunxianliaodedixiong，jiqiyuanyizujiteshunvxing、wanliusangshideqinggandedixiong，gankuaijiashanglaoshishoujiweixin，dianjiweixin#shoujiweixin#yulaoshikaizhan1dui1zixun，jiangnideqinggankunhuogaozhilaoshi，laoshihuibangnipouxiniyunvshengdenanti，duinishuotongguolv。

解决磨练

 meizhiyizhimeiyouanquangan，yincitayongdaogeshigeyangdefangfalaimoliannanhaizi，suihoufenbianchuzheiyinanhaizishibushizuigaijiezhu。youxuduodenanhaizidouhenyanjuannvhaidezheizhongzuofa，youyutamenganjue，nvhaimolianzishenjiushishuoduizishendebuxinlai。wojuedezuoweinanren，woyeyingdanghuodayidianer，xuehaoconglingyigeshijiaoshanglaikannanti。

 jiarumeizhibuzaiyizishen，buzaiyini，buguanzhuzishen，youweishenmehuihuaneimeduoqiliqumoliannilei?dangpengdaonvhaimoliannishi，niyingdanggaoxingcaidui，youyutaxintengni，duijinixingquaihao，yinci，nikeyibawozhuzheizhongjiyuxiangnvhaizhanxianzishen。

举例说明：

henvhaiyouhui，tachangchangwandao，zheijianghuidoushi1gemolian。

不正确回应：

nan：“niruhewandaole，wosuanshilenihaozhangshijian!”

 jinguanzheiyihuiyingbiaoshuchulenixinlidezhenzhengniantou，keshiniquemeiyouzhaoliaodaonvhaidexintai，zhishijiangquanbudebuzhengquedouzongzhilaidaonvhaideshoushang，tashi1gechaojizhinanshuaigedezhuyaobiaoxian。zheishihou，renmenyaoqiadangdejiejue，erqiezaijiejuedeyiqizhanxianchuzishendeqingshanggao。

再举例说明：

nvhaipengdaolemouxiexiaonanti，suihouxiangniqiujiao。

不正确回应：

 nan：“zheinantitaijianyile，zheihaiyaowojiang!”wojuedezhenduinvhaieryan，jiejuekunnanbingbushizhongyao，zhongyaodeshi，meizhiyuanyijiandaoniduitadexintai，jiaruzheileixiaonantidoubukeyihaohaodidexixinjitajieshi，gengbieshuozhihoule，wulunshipengdaoxiaonantihuanshiwen