如何让女生喜欢自己？闲聊很重要

 ruhe rangnvshengxihuanziji ?buqingchunifajuemeiyou，zhiqianzhuiqiunvsheng，songxielipin，qingkechifan，zhenxinshiyikandaita，dagailejiukeyitazhuidaoshou。danshirujinzheiyishidai，nvhaibenzhichishaozheiyizhengtao，neixianzaidenvren，jiujingyaoruhezuonenggouzhuishangni?ruherangnvshengxihuanziji?(manmankan）

 danshirujinzheiyishidai，nvhaibenzhichishaozheiyizhengtao，songli+guanzhubingburongyirang1genvhaigendingni，nvshenghenanshengzhongjiandelianluodaduoshuneishihouzhiyoupingzheshoujiliaotian，yihounenggoushenhuakaolvdaoyaoqing、shengjiguanlianzheixie。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?

meirihetaxianliao，tayizhihuiyinglengmo;

zongsuanliaohaimouxie，quechangchangshuocuohuagaliao;

zhaobuzhegongtongyuyan，buzhidaogaizenyangzhangkoushuoshouju...

 shangbianzheizhongnantishibushinichangchangpengdao?wojuede，tashishixiajuedaduoshunanhaizidekunhuo：zhaodaoxinaidenvhai，quebei“xianliao”zheiyikanerbanzhule。

 danshijiarubiedenanhaizibuhuiliaotian，erweiyounizhangwonvhaisixu，woyenengyirufanzhangjibai80%deqingdi，gengyoujianghuizhuiqiuwanmeidaozishendedongxinnvhai。

 yinci，huixianliaojiukanqilaizhiguanzhongyao。jinrixilangejiulaigendajiashuo，xianliaozhongyoushenmeniliuyibushangdejinqu，duiyuzheizhongjinquzenyangtishengliaotiandejiqiao，xunsurangmeizhimishangyunixianliao。

renmenxianlaiyikuaierpouxixiajinqixilangedexueshengfaguolaidexianliaojieping：

 zaizheixiehuihuazhong，nanhaizizaiqinfenzhaoxungongtongyuyan，erqieqidaigenjuzanyangnvhailajinliangrenxianghuguanxi，wukefeiyilizudianshiduide，danshiqueshiqunvhaidefankuidiaojie。

它是为何?

xixinhuiyixia，niyizhizaixianliaoshishifouhuiyouneiyangdeqingkuang~

1、shizhongduinvhaibiwen：

 xianliaoshibuguanbugunvhaidexintai，shizhongtichuwentidenanhaizibujiqishu，meiduanyouwendudexianliaozuibihuizhangqixingchuzaizheizhong“jietidefangshi”，huilingrenjuededichen、wuqu。zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie?

xianghulijie，tangruoniyeshinvhai，zheixianliaoniyeyouxingquaihaohuiyingma?

 “xiaojiejie”，“niyeshimeilide”，“haokanderenshoujishangliquanshizipaizhao”，zheileihuadeyirang1geyunibulejiedenvhaiyanfan100bianle。

nvhaidouxiaitinghuayanqiaoyumeiyoucuo，keshineiyangkuatabumianhuiyetaiqianbole，huizhaonvhaifane~

duiyushangbianzhei2gepubiandezhuangkuang，xilangejianggezigaozhidahuoeryingdangruhechuli!

fangfayi、zhanxian yijianfankuixianliaofa

 huoxuniqueshimeiyouhuatitaolunhaoliao，danyebubishizhongbiwen，zainiyaoduitayouyidingdezhangwodeneishihou，nenggoutichuwentiyidaojiju，jiexiaqujiuxiangyaoni“zhanxian+yijianfankui”。

不正确示范性：

恰当示范性：

huanjuhuashuoyibushizhongbiwen，yaoduinvhaizhanxianzishen，erqieduitashuodehuayouyijianfankui。

 jiarujiniyiqielianqingganqingdenanti、xuexipeixunqiadangdexianliaofangshi 、zhuishangxiaidenvsheng。nenggoujiashangwodeweixin()wonengduinideyiqieqingganwentikaizhandayijiehuo，bingjiyunixingdetongdejianyi。

方法二、叙述闲聊法

zaixianliaozhongguoduoquyueta，shibukeyidiaozhuannvhaixintaide，nibixubawo“xushuxingxianliao”defangshi 。

 shenmejiao“xushuxingxianliao”?jianyieryanjiushishuokaizhanguanjiandianhuaxushu，rangyujugengweixuxurushengshiji，keguanshangnvhaixinli。

xilangezheilijidahuoerjulishuoming，dahuoerbizhaozhehaohaodilinglve：

一般闲聊：

叙述型闲聊：

 wojuede“xushuxianliaofa”feichangjiandan，yaoshizaixiangtazhuandaxinxineirongdeneishihou，duoxushuyixiaxiaguanjiandian，lirushijian+dizhi+yijianshi，jiunenggoujiazhongtaduinideyinxiang，tuidongtadexintai。

 xilangelejiedahuoergangkaishibianhualiaotianfangshihuiyixiejiannan，danyiqiandefangshi cuowu，nvhaiduinimeiyouxingquaihao，nidezhenxinshiyizaitalaikanshigechengdan，zaiqinfendoumeiyouyong。

 zheier，xilangetishidahuoeryiduanhua，lianqinghelidejindaoshikaobeitarenqudechenggongdegongzuojingyanhefangshi ，erbingbushizishenqushizhezhuangdebiantilinshang，zuizhongshijianshechilangfeile，xinleile，qianyongle，douhaimeijieguo!

 youguandaliangruheliaotian，zenyangdazaochuzishenbianchengmeilinanren，qinglijishoujiweixinsiliaowo，renmen1dui1duinishuoruhezuo。haikeyixuexipeixunwoweixinfapengyouquanmeirituisongdeliaotiandejiqiao，tishengnidexianliaoshuizhun。

 tanduojiaobulan!jinrijiulinshijidahuoergongxiangzheizhongfangfa，keshi，woxianzaiyingdangzhidao，xianliaoshibixuxuexipeixunde，rujin，qingfazifeifudequsisuo，suihouyongxingdonggaozhixilange，niyuanyixuexipeixunzheiyixianliaozhuanyejinengma?

 lianqingshinenggouxuexipeixunde，xianliaodoushinenggouxuexipeixunde，bumingbaihaiyaoxue，burongyihaiyaowen，buguanxueshenmejishuzhuanye，kuaidefangshi jiushishuogenyuelifengfudejishuzhuanyeneixingrenxuexipeixun，yinci，buhuiliaotian，keshi，zaoyixiajuexinyuanyixuexipeixunxianliaodedixiong，huoshiyuanyiwanhuiganqing，zujixiaidenvhaidedixiong，lijihuodewodeweixin，dianyixialijijixilangefasanzi——woxiangxue!