拉近关系的话题：快速拉近双方关系的36个问题

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拉近关系的话题

１、兴趣爱好

 xiaijiyoupiao、gechang，huozhewudao？xiaijianshenyundongma？xiaitingshenmeyinle？zheizhongnantibudebuwen，yaoburannizenmezhidaotadegerenaihaoni。bingqietayeqidaizhanxianzishen，yijuduodedeshi，bufangyishini。

２、别说她前任

 diyiciyouhui，bubiwenjitadeqianren。neiyangdehuati，taruguobutidao，nibunengqinglvzhangzui。tahenyoukenenghaishenaizheta，yehenyoukenenghaichuyufenshouhoudetongchuzhong。diyicijianmiandeqingkuangxia，biejuedetanyitantayiwangdeqinglv，shudaota，kuanweita，jiunenghuodehaogandu，tongchanghuidebuchangshi。xiangtaohaota，jiubuyaorangtahuailianguoqu，liaoyiliaogaoxingdeshi。jilao，nidemudishihuodeta，bingbushilaijitacaleishuide。

３、喜爱的特色美食

 jiarudajiazaifandianhuoyedianyouhui，tanyitanfenbiexiaidemeiweikekouba，zheishiyigerangrenkaixindehuatitaolun。taoluntesemeishi，nibudannengzhangwotadekougan，xunzhaoxiangtongdian，bingqiecongcibubidanxinmeiyouhuatile。jiarutayoushanzhangjueji，xianhaobuchiyidikuayixia，ranhouwenta，“tingdewohaitangkoushuile，natianyaowoyibaokoufuba。”jishitalejienizaichuipengta，tayehenshiyong。jiaruniyeshiyouyishou，biewangjiyaoyuetapinweinidejiyi。

４、工作情况

 jiarunibiyehouhou，zaoyigongzuozhongleyiduanshijian，tanyitangongzuozhongshiyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolun。keshi，nixuyaocaozongzhudaoquan，bierangtabuduantaolaoyixierichangshenghuonaoxindelingsuishi，tahuiyueshuoyuebukaixin，niyeyuetingyueyanfan。danshi，dabufenrentanqigongzuozhong，jiusuanshizaikuzaowuwei，yeyaoshuodefeichanghao。zheimeishier，nizuishaonenggoulejietaweilaishiyigenvqiangren，huoshiyigehaodejiatingfunv。

５、兄妹

 diyicijianmiantandiannaxiehaoni？tanyitanbabamamaba，youdianerbudangzhichu，wanyitadebabamamaliangdifenjuhuoliyi，huizaochengtadebuyue。yibandehuatitaolunbianshitanyitanxiongmei。liaoyiliaoxiongmei，nenggoujiashenlejie，huoyuexingyixiafenwei。bingqieniyaozhangwotadejiazhong，biaomingnixiaita，neiyangyefeichangrongyihuodetadexinlai。

６、风景名胜

 zhiqianlaiguonaxiefengjingmingsheng？zheigewentitahenshanyuhuiying，yebuhuiyounaxiejiebeixin。weilegenghaodirangtakaiqifangbianzhimen，nizaiqingtarangnijieshaoyixia，nizhixuzuoyigezhongchengdewenzhe，tahuixunsuduinizaochenghaogandu。zheishihouninengzaijijiyixie，wentahaixiangyaoqunaxiedifang，jiarutajiangmoumoumoudiquyizhixiangyaoqu，nizhuyaobiaoxiandejiyujiulaile。yingyongdijiangba，“yinweiwoyizhixiangyaoqunei。natiandajiayiqiqu，rangwomenyiqilaiwanchengmengba？”tahuihenkaixindijienanideyaoyue。shijishang，liaoqizheizhongzhihou，niduitadezhuanyezhishiqingkuang、gerenaihaoyelejielexuduo。

７、未来计划

 nengtanyitannizaigaoxiaoderichangshenghuoma？haixiangzaicinianshuma？tahenyoukenengduizheizhonghuatitaoluntebieganxingqu，datanertetantadexueyuanrichangshenghuo，youyisideshi，huodedegezhonggeyangshurongdeng。keshi，tayehenyoukenengfanyinglengmo，jinjinshuoxianjieduandegongzuozhongzhuanyebuduikou，suihouzhuanyihuati。danshi，wulunfashengnayizhongzhuangkuang，doujiniyigechuipengtadehaojihui。

８、身旁的朋友

 hetaliaoyiliaotadepenyouba。huoxunimeilejietamen，danzheimeishier。tahuihengaoxingtantadepenyou，tamenxiangchudeguanjiandian，pengmiandeshijian、dizhi。huoxuniyidianyemeishenmexingqu，danqianwanbuyaoyanfan，zheidanshinizhangwotadedahaojihui。xianghetazaicifazhanqushima？congzhangwotadepenyouxianzaikaishi。

９、传出邀约

 jiarutatandehenkaixin，kanzhenishiliangyanfangguang，lianggerendejianjuyulaiyujin，neimejiuyoujihuile。ninenghetatanyitanzhunbei，buzhibujuemingquetichuyaoyue，danshiqingbiejiyuqiucheng，neiyanghuihezheta。keshinianxin，jiarutahengaoxing，bianhuishanyuhenizaiyiqi，burongyisuibianhuijuenide。

１０、童年的理想化

 liaoyiliaotongniandelixianghuaba，zheishiyigehenyouqudewenti，heyixingliaotiande100gehuati,jiqingsongzizai，younengcujinganqing。danshi，qingbieqiangzhehuatoumeifang，yaorangtajianghua，tajiangdeyuekaixinniyejiuyueyoujihui。

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