心理学：迅速拉近关系的话题

 yuanzhuolilunbianshidaishangmingxianganqingdexiaodongwu，yeshiyoumingxiandeqingganxuqiu。heyixingliaotiande100gehuati,dajiahuidangrandimaiyuan，huibuzhidaobuzijuedihetarengongxiangqingxu，lajinguanxidehuatiqidailingyifangtingjiandajiaxinlideyaoqiukeyiyouyidingdehuifu。

 ruguonibaozhengdakaixinfeigongxianghuatitaolundeqingkuangxia，shibushixiangguozheiyihuatitaolunshibushiheshigoutongjiaoliu，shibushinengranglingyifangyinqigongming？womenzhidaoxintaishinenggouganqide，danjiarulingyifangbujienanideganqingshujuxinhao，nigongxiangdezaihaoyeshibaifei，naizhitutianlingyifangdichu。

拉近关系的话题

（１）美好的时光

hepenyouganglejiemeiduojiudeqingkuangxia，yiqizhuiyijingliguodemeihaoshiguang，zheiyouliyutuijinhesuzaobicideqinggan。

dajiadiyicilejieshishenmeshihou？dajiayitonglejieleshenmehaowaneryouxiuderen？shoukedeqingkuangxiasheidejiaoshigengyange？

 tongnianjiyifeichangdayibufenbianshi“jinridezishen”，tongnianjiyixiangduixingyufanzadechengrenshijieeryanshidanchunxingde，tantaoershigengnengchupengzhenzhengde“zhenshiziwo”。

（２）个人爱好（超级偶像、大牌明星、歌曲～影片、特色美食、手机游戏等）

 gerenaihaofeichangrongyidedaoguishugan，jibiannizaimoucengmiangangxiashou，lingyifangshiyuelifengfudedashen，jinyoulingyifangbingbushigenanjiaowang、buhuiliaotian、luanshuo、luanmazanghuaderen，tadoushihuixiangyaoyunigongxiangtazhidaodeshiqing。

（３）个人秘密

meiyigerendoushiyouzishendemimi，youchuqiudeshi，kaixindeyijianshi，shangxindeshi；youxihuanderenle，taoyanderen……

 jibianshibutaishuderen，genjuliaofenbiedechengzhanglicheng，haikeyihelideranglingyifangxuehuifangxiaxinfang。genjushushuozishenlijingdexiaogushi，ranglingyifangcongzheizhongxiaogushilizhangwonishishenmeyangderen。yitongdepenyou

penyouyoushishiyihaoyoufazhanqushierchengde。

 heyixingliaotiande100gehuati,jiaruzheigerenquanshidajialejiede，bayitongdepenyouzuoweixianliaosucaitupian，nenggoulajinxianghuzhijiandejianju。