搭讪技巧？有哪些追女生的时候，学会合情合理“欲擒故纵”

 ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？zhuinvshengdeshihou，xuehuiheqingheli“yuqinguzong”，nengrangnigengrongyiliaodaomeizhi。liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaopengyou？benwenrenmenjiulaitaolunxiazheiyihuatitaolun。

1、欲擒故纵的重要性

 liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaopengyou？lianqingshigegongpingquanguocheng，nilaiwowang，zheiyiduanguanliannenggouwangshenxinjiankangdefangfaqufazhanqushi。jiaruyizhinanhaizizaijiji，buduandizainvhaishoushangzijintouruhenduodeshijian、qinggan、huaxuewuzhideng，zuihoutazishenxianruzaiqizhong，bunengziba，zuizhongjianghuihuibeifahaorenka，huoshilunluobeiyongtai。bingqie，zaizhongguozhonghuachuantongwenhuadebeijingtuxia，ruguonishigewanrenmixiaohuo，buranxiangrangmeizhiduinijiji，feichangshao。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

 yinci，zheiyishihounixuehuiyongxiexiaojiliang，zhengqueyindaomeizhigennihudongjiaoliu，jingchanggennihudongjiaoliuhou，huibuzhudongdiduijinilexiangmutouzi，zhujianduinizaochenghaogandu。

zheiyi“xiaojiliang”，wojuedejiushishuo——yuqinguzong。

danshibiaomingyidianer，zhaoshuniruheshiyongdouhao，qiantitiaojianshi，nikeyiyouyikezhenxinshiyidexin。

2、欲擒故纵的不正确姿态

 xuduodixiongchangchangfanzheileibuzhengque：lejiemouyimeizhihou，jiaweixinhaoyou，suihoumeiriliaolailiaoqu，jiuneiyiliangju，meiyoushenmejindu，huozhipaoniunenggouyong“yuqinguzong”，nijiumeilitale，yincijiaowangba meilimeizhi。

gangkaishimeizhihaifaleyiwen，zhihoujiumeishashengxiangle。

 xuduogemenzheiyishihoujiugangkaishishangnao，fengkuangjimeizhifaxiaoxi，fajue，youxieren，fajuebeishandiaole，youdefajuemeizhibiyiqiangenglengmole。

yuqinguzong，bingbushishineimeyongde。

3、欲擒故纵的基本要素

zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?yuqinguzongdejibenyaosushi：yanzangchongdong，youqianrushen。

dangmeizhiduinidouhaimeihendaxingquaihaodeshihou，nikeyixuehuiyanzangzishendechongdong，bubipuluguoduoyaoqiugan。

yiqingqingsongsongdezishi，qutiejinmeizhi，niyaoqiuduyaohemeizhiduiniyouhaoduzhengbi。

shuorenhuajiushishuo，nikeyiyijumeizhidefanying，pulushiduoshaoyaoqiudu。

 xuduonanhaizi，changchangpuluyaoqiu，yingshengshengjiushishuo1gediaosia，yidakou1gepiaoliangmeinv，haoxingganmiren，xionghenda，tuihaozhangzheileidehua，zheileihuajiubieshuolehaome?ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

 dajiayaolejie，zaizheiyidanshenhanchangkuangdeshidai，dajiabuyingdanglunluowei“nannaidiaosi”debuweishanga，xuduonvhai，yingduirulangruhudediaosi，jianguaibuguai，haiweichifangbei，naizhidichuyanfan。

 yexuxuehuiyanzangzishendechongdong，“jinyuxi”gaolengnanshen，nideyaoqiuganzhuyaobiaoxiandeyueruo，meizhiduinideqiuzhiyuhexingquaihaocaihuitishangqu。liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaopengyou？

naozilizhidianjizhemeizhidenanhaizi，yuebunenggaobiedanshen。

4、怎样雅致地欲擒故纵

创建舒适度

ziwotisheng，waizaihebenzhi，zheizhongwoyemeiquduotanle。

youyidianergengguanjian，shiniyaoxuehuihemeizhigaohaoguanxi，bingchuangjianqishushidu。

jianshaoyaoqiugan，huodemeizhidexinlai，nidegongjinenglimeineimaqiang，neimayihoudajiajiunengzaojiuchudaliangdeshijianhegailv。

lingwai，yeyouyiyunizhangwota，yegenglejienvren，duinieryan，jiushishuopaoniude1gexunlianma。

jishizuobulenvpengyou，niyizhizaitazheieryehuodehenvhaigoutongjiaoliudeduanlian。

yiner，jianshaoyaoqiugan，zaojiushushiquan，yongzheizhongpingjingdexintaiqugoutongjiaoliu。

学会分散化要求感

yaoqiugantaiqiangdenanhaizi，tongchangshenpangnvhaifeichangshao，dajianenggouguanchayixiaxia。

lejiegaofenshudiandenvhai，jiuhenbudelikechengbierendenanyou，zheileixintaizhuangtai，zennengliaodaomeizhini?

 womenjianyishi，dahuoerpingchangduogengezhonggeyangmeizhichupeng，genhaojigemeizhigoutongjiaoliu，bieyouyiqiexintaizhuangtaichengdan，nibieliaosaojiuxing，jiudanchunxingshuoshuohua，zaimingqueguanlianyiqian，zheileifangshi，nengxiezhunifensanhuayaoqiugan。

 ruguonixiangyaoshenhualaoguguanlian，nijiuzaicixiayijieduanduice，buhaodehua，youyigenvxingpengyoudoushimeiyoushenmewenti，zheisuanshi1gegaoduandaqinanhaiziheyixingpengyoujiaowangdeyazhizishi。

“youhaogandu”suanshiguzongdejiben，xiangyaodiaoshangta，qiantitiaojianshi，jinibixudeyouhuolia。

 yiyangshijinvhaichixu10geyelidaowananhaomeng，weiheyoudenanhaizinengrangmeizhidaozhui，youdenanhaizizhongzhihou，meizhisongyidakou，zongsuanbulaifanwole。nantichuxianzainaer?

 youhuoli。zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?qianmianyizhongnanhaizishinvhaiduitayouhaogandu，houmianyizhongnanhaizishinvhaiduitadichu。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？yiner，xiangyaoyongyuqinguzong，qiantitiaojianshi，meizhiduijinibixudehaogandu，zheiyifangfanengjinkuaicujindajiadeguanlianjindu。jiarunvhaiyuanbenjiutaoyanni，niruheyuqinguzongdoubuqizuoyong。yexuxiangrangnvhaixiaixihuanni，quhaohaoditigaozijideqiangzhishiyongjiazhiherouxingshiyongjiazhi。