追女生时竭尽全力对她好为什么还是失败了？聊天小技巧有哪些

 xuduoxiaoshuaigedoushipengdaoneimezheizhongzhuangkuang：nixihuanyigenvsheng，yongjiejinquanliduitahao，taxihuannaxiejiujitayongshenme，yidianerkudoubuxutashou，suishidaiming，yizhirenweineiyangnvhaijiuhuixihuanshangni，jieguoqugennvshengbiaobai，shubuzhinvhaiyuanyilemeiyou?zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？nvhaicongrongdandingdehuilenijiju：henhaode，danshiwoliangyouwenti，huanshizuoputongpengyouba。 cikenanhaizixinlijiuhuifeichangtongku，lingwaiyexianggaobudong：weishaduitaneimehao，tahuanshineimejueqingdeduiwomen?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

 chuxianzheileinanti，jiaodadeyuangujiushinizhangwodejihuicuowu。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？xuduoxiongdiyebuqingxi，duinvhaihaoyaochuangjianzainiduitayouchongzuduodexiyinzhudezhuangkuangxia。yinci，zaiganggennvhaichupengdeneishihou，renmenhaiyaochengxiangaoshiyongjiazhi，xiangfangfaxiyinnvhaideyanguang，suihouzaichuangjianqishushidu。weiherenmenyaochuangjianqishushiduni?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

 zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?youyushushidunenggourangnvhaiganjuenihewohenshihe，naizhihuirangnvhaiduinizaochengyilaigan，zhenduizhuiqiunvsheng，youyijujingdiandehua：nixiangyao1genvhaiduiniaideyusiyuxian，neimajiudexianrangtayikaoni。ruguonigennvhaiyongyoushushidu，jiuyiweizhezhedajiachuangjianleqinggan，erzheileiqingganshitarenmeifatidaide，jiarunikeyibianchengtalejiedequanbuyixingpengyouzhong，jiyilishenkedenei1ge，neimanizaoyiqudechenggongleyidabanle。neimagaizenyangqiadanggennvhaichuangjianshushiduni?

一、找相同之处

1、zuixian，xuxianzhangwoxianghubicideshenghuo、penyou、gongzuozhong、jiazhong、xihao。

2、zhaoxundajiadexiangtongzhichu，jiulirugerenaihao、youmuyouleisideqinshenjingli、xianghudejiazhiquxiangzheixie 。

 3、zaiganglejiedao1genvhaideneishihou，renmendouhuiwentaneiyangdenanti：nijiazainali、niyeshiganshenmegongzuode、zuixihuannaxiedea，niduoshaoa?

 wojuedetashibuzhengquede，zaiyikaishideneishihou，renmenbuyingdangwenzheileijiaoweiyinsibaohudenanti，zheizhongnantiquanshirenmenzaiyunvxingchuangjianchongzuxiyinzhu，chuzaishushidushiqiyingdangwendeshi。

 neimayoudexiongdijiuhuiyoushuowoyaozhangwota，woyedebuduandewenta，zhaoxunrenmendexiangtongzhichu，keshiwoshuoduole，tayoudichuduiwomenyulaiyulengmo。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

dabufendeneishihou，bingbushibuyaowen，zhishiniwendejihuicuowu。

neimayoudexiongdijiuhuiwen，neimawogairuhegenganglejiedenvhaishuo?

 yaobaozhenggoutongjiaoliudanbuhudong，huanjuhuashuorutongpingshixianliao，duochengxiannidegaoshiyongjiazhi，erbubihuaizhemudiqiangzhizhaohuatiliaotian。

二、使用彼此的社交圈

xuduoneishihou，renmenzhikaozijidenengliangshijiaoweibuyijiuqudechenggongzhuishangnvhaide。

neimazairenmengennvhaichuangjianqishushidudeneishihou，renmennenggouyikaobicipenyoudenengliang。

 lirulingyifangdehaoguimizheixie，hewozuohaoguanlian，jiarutadehaoguimirentongleni，neimatadaziranjiuhuifeichangrongyiyerentongnini。

三、互动交流

dabufendenanhaizibingbushiburongyiwan，zhishibuqingchugairuhegennvhaihudongjiaoliu。

dangnizai1geshejiaomeitijuhuihuodongdeneishihou，renmenyaojilaobixuyaogendahuoeryikuaierhudongjiaoliuwanle。

zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？tashidiaozhengherongjinqifendeshidefangfadoushigengkuailajindajiaguanliandefangshi。

yinciqingjilao，jinkenengyunvxingwanmouxienengzaochenghudongjiaoliudeshoujiyouxihezhutihuodong。

四、创建起归属感

 renmenzaigennvhaichuangjianqishushidudeneishihou，yeyingdangrangnvhaiganjueniyeshinenggoujiezhude，dabufenqingganwentiquanshiyinweiguishuganbugouzaochengle。

dangtajuedezainipangbianhenyouguishugandeneishihou，wojuedeniliqudechenggonggaobiedanshenzhishengyibuzhiyaole。

yincishuo，wulunfashengleshenme，tanenggouhuang，nidoubukeyihuang。

nikeyijidaotazheizhongjuede：wulunchuleshashi，wodouhui。

jibiannimeifazuodao，haiyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuqu。

yinweinvrenwojuedezhuzhongdebingfeijieguo，zhishinidexintai!

yeyouyidianeryaoliuyi，shushidudoushiyaozhangchiyoudude，shushiduguodu，jiufeichangrongyidiaojinyouqingqu

 ershushiduguoshao，dajiadeguanlianyehuiyuelaiyuebulengbure，ruguonigaobaideneishihoujiuhuichuxiantajileniyizhanghaorenkadengzhuangkuang。

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？zheirutongtanhuokaorouxiangtong，huoguomeng，rouwaijiaolisheng;huoguorou，kaochengderouweitongjiaola。shushidudechuangjian，jiushishuoyaozhangwo1gedu。