异地恋没话题了怎么办，这里有话题

 yidilianmeihuatilezenmeban？womenshenbiandouyouyidilian，yidilianheputongqinglvbuyiyang，tamenbunengmeitianjianmian，bunengyongbao，tamenzhinengkaoshoujilaiweichiganqing。

1.以关心为主题

guanxinshiguanxinrendewenhoudengdeng。biru：nixianzaishentihaolemeiyou；nidegongzuojinzhanruhedengdeng。

 womendaduoshurenhenshaoshiyongzheigezhutici。yibanlaishuo，zhiyouzhuchiren.wenxueaihaozhehuoxihuantaolunyanjiuderenjingchangshiyongta。yinweitahenshaobeishiyong，womenzhizhidaohelijieta。

3.尽量让日常琐事变得有趣

 “chileshenme”“zuoleshenme”jihumeiyiduiyidilianfuqidouwufahuibiderichanghuati，yilianggeyuehaisuanguanxintitie，shijianjiulezhenshixiaomoyizhi。

 “pingdanshizhen”zheidoushiziwoanweidehushuobadao——pingdanbushizhende，pingdanzhendehenwuliao。wodejingyanshi，dangshiqingbenshenmeiyoulequshi，nibufangkuozhannidexiangfa，zhaodaoyixielequ。liru，diyizhangtupiantidaolekaojipaifan。zheibenlaishiwufanhoudebaoyuan。

4.现在，过去和未来

 birutongxuejuhui，duonianmeijiandelaopengyoulaotongxue，womenkeyiliaoliaoguoqunanwangdeshiqing.guoquyouqudeshiqing。niyekeyitanlunduifanghuonimuqiandezhiyefazhan，niyekeyitanlunnidemengxiangheweilaidejihuadengdeng。

 yidilianmeihuatilezenmeban？henduorenxihuantanlunmengzheigeguanjianci。henduoxuesheng.henduogeshou.henduoyanyuan.xuduoshangjinderendengdouxihuantanlunmengxiangzheigehuati。liru，zhouxingchidedianying《shaolinzuqiu》shuo：“ruguorenmenmeiyoumengxiang，xianyuhexianyuyoushenmequbie？”；xuduogeshoudegequyeshiweimengerxiede。

5.学业.专业和事业

 genjuduixianghenizijideqingkuangzaizheilixunzhaohuati（liru：tanlunduifanghuonizijidexuexiaoshenghuo，huozhetanlunyiqianzaixuexiaonanwangdeshiqing；tanlunbicihuonizijidezhuanye。

 xuduorentanluntamenshanzhangdezhuanye。tamenkeyitanlunteshutouzi；tanlunnidezhiyegushi.zhiyeshengya。yigechenggongderen，yigechenggongdeshiyeshiyigefeichangyougushideren，dangtanlunchenggongzhiqiandeqiqiluoluoshifeichangyoupinweide，feichangyouyiyide，feichanggandong。

6.培养共同兴趣

 fenkailianggedifang，hennanweichigongtongdewulixingqu，danhaiyouhenduoshiqingyaozuo，zheihuirangnidejiaoliufengfuduocai。wopaozhuanyinyuxia:dianying，yinle，meishi，shouzang。

7.多表扬对方

yidilianmeihuatilezenmeban？qishixiezheigedaandechuzhongshiweiledouwodenanpengyoukaixin，yinweiwoshuocuojieguo。