异地恋没有话题聊天，异地恋没话题了怎么办

 yidilianmeihuatilezenmeban？aiqingshenghuozhongzuinan，zuikaoyanrendebushiyidilian。meiyoujingliguoyidilianderen，wufatihuidaoyidiliandejianxin。yidilianshineizhonggezhepingmushuoainideren，shineizhongmeitiandouxiangnidaojizhideren。

 shineizhongyinweiyijuhuahuoyiduanhuaergandaoshiluoderen。wobuzhidaoweishenme，shineizhongyuanliqianshanwanshuideren，zhishiweileyujianta，zhishengxiachihe，zhishiweilezangourenminbiyiqiwan。

 dangran，laozhangyechuyuyidilian，yijingyinianbanle。zaizheiduanshijianli，womenchaoleyijia，youfenqi，meishenmekeshuode，shenzhifenshoule。

 danxianzaiwomendinghunle，womentongyijinnianhuiqu，xuanzejiehundejihui。haoba，biezaihushuobadaole。ruguomeiyouzhangtulianaidehuati，wogaizenmeban。

要确定沟通的原则

 ganqingshikeyitande，yidiliandangrangengxuyaotan。yinweibuzaiyiqi，zhuyaotongguoshoujiheweixindaziliaotian.shengyindeng。，kanbudaobiaoqing，huozhetingbudaoyuqi。

 zheishi，wocongzilixingjianfaxianlecuowudeqingxu。birutaxihuanzairichangliaotianzhongbiaodazijideganshou，zheiciliaotianjihumeiyoubiaodazijideganshouhenleng，takenenghuishengqi。

 zaizheigeshihou，womenyinggaidadianhuaxunwenjutiyuanyin，womenshifoushengqi，huozhewomenzainalibeiqifu。zheixieshijibenyuanze。ruguonizaigoutongshangyoufenqihuobushunli，niyinggaidadianhuajiejue。

 huanjuhuashuo，ruguonizaibutongdedifangshengqi，niyinggaibaochilengzhan。nanhaizhudongdaoqian。nikeyiyouyigelengjingqi，dannibunengyizhibaochichenmo。

适当降低沟通频率

wulunshenmeyangdeganjue，zhangshijianxiangchu，zhangshijiangoutongdouhuichanshengwuliao，huiyouyiduanlengqi，wuliaoqi。

 zuihaodeqingganzhuangtaishijibiciliuxiazugoudekongjian，zugoudeziyou。dangbutongdedifang，meiyoubiyaomeitianjiaoliu，yitiandehuatimeiyougaibian，meiyouxinxianbian，meiyouxinxiangan，ganjuebunengbianqing？

 dangran，goutongdepinlvyeyinggaitiqianqueding。ruguonibumeiliangtianjiaoliuyici，huozhedangnihenmangdeshihou，tiqiandagezhaohu，rangnixiaciyoukongdeshihoujiaoliu。zaiqingganshenghuozhong，goutongdezhiliangdayugoutongdecishu。

 yiqian，dangwohewodebanlvzaibutongdedifangshi，womeitianjiaoliuyici。guolehenzhangyiduanshijian，jiumeiyouhuatile，huozhehuatimeiyouxinxiangan，wodeganqingyehuitunse。

 goutongdemudeshizengjiaqingxu，erbushijiqihuibaorichangzhanghu。meicigoutongdoushiweilerangduifanggengkuaile，erbushijiandandijiaozuoye。

沟通时要做好充分的准备

 goutong，tebieshibutongdifangdegoutong，yingzaimeicigoutongqianzuohaochongfenzhunbei。yifangmian，shijianyinggaizhunbeihao，lianggerendeshijianyinggaitongbu，yinggaiyoukongxianshijianjiaoliu。

 zheibushiyijianzhongyaodeshiqing，buyaozaigouwuhuogongzuozhongjiaoliu，duifangkenenghenmang，bunengjishihuifunidexinxi，huohuifuxinxibufangbian，congmanghuifu，chanshenglijiepiancha，huidaozhimaodun。

 lingyifangmian，zaijiaoliushi，niyinggaizhunbeihaoxiangyingdehuati。zheigehuatideneirongkeyishinizhouweizuijinfashengdeshiqing，gongzuo.dangnizaixuexizhongyudaoyouqudegushishi，nihuigandaoganga。

 zhutineirongkeyishiremendeshehuihuoyulehuodong，ruxinshangshidedianying、xinderementoutiaoxinwen、mingxingbaguadeng；womenhaiyinggaijiaoliuxiacihuiyideshijian、didian、weilaiguihuadeng。

两个人要一起经历一些事情

 zaiyidilianzhong，shenghuoheqingganshibutongbude，qingganziranhennantongbu。zuiyouxiaodefangfashiyiqitiyanyixiedongxi，huozhezuoyixieyouyiyideshiqing，rangduifangjuedetamenzaiyiqi，zaiyiqi。nikeyiyuegeshijianyiqikandianshiju，ranhoutantanqingjie，fenxiangnideguandian。

 nikeyiyuyuekantongyishiqishangyingdedianying，xiedianyingpinglun，jiaoliuniduidianyingdekanfa。nikeyiyiqiduyibenshu，huozheshizhenazhengshudengdeng。

 nihetazaihenduoshihoudoushitongbude。tayenengshenshenganshoudaotamenzaiyiqidexingfu，zheiyangyifangjiubuhuitebiegudu，yifangjiubuhuitebiemangliu。.qinggan.qinggantongbu，suoyibicideaiyetongbu。

 yidilianmeihuatilezenmeban？shishishang，shenghuozhonghenduoyidiliandeqinglv，douhuiyudaomeiyouhuatiliaotiandeqingkuang，bizoudaozheili，yekankantamenmeiyouhuatiliaotiandeshihou，zaizuoshenme。

1.“dakaishipin，jingjingdikanzhe，huabunengshuo，danwoyaokanzheni，fangzhinihebierenyiqipao。”guanjianshifangzhipaobu。

 2.“zhijiefeiguoqujinjinbaozhu，gaosuta，wohenxiangnianta，shineizhongdadianhuayuyinshipin，doujiejuebuledecuoguo。”zheicaishizhenaia，haha。

 3.“gangcaiheyidiliandenanyoushipinjieshule，meishenmekeshuodejitachangge，jitadushu，ranhouyouhuayaoshuo。”changgeshigebucuodexuanze，guanjianshiniyaohuichangge。

 4.“fazijizipaia，fawanzhihoujiubuyonghetashuohuale，rangtayoukongjianxiangxiangyixia，ranhouwoxiangta，jiuhuizhudonglaizhaowoliaotiana！”zheizhongfangfahenhao，jitayizhangzijitiyandezhaopian，wandeshiqinggan。

 5.“fenxiangniganggangkandaodeyouquderenheshi，tanlunxiacijianmiandeshijianhedidian，zhongyaodeshixiangxinbicikeyijianchixiaqu，liaotianbuneimezhongyao。”zheishihelide。

 6.“lengjingjitian，jiduifangzugoudekongjian，liyongzheijitian，yeyaodiaozhengziji，nulitigaoziji。”lengjingjitian，tigaoziji，huxiangxiyin。

 7.“momodizuozijideshiqing。shishishang，dangniwuhuakeshuoshi，nibuxuyaoshuoshenmehuozhaoyigehuati。nixinliyouduifang。nikeyitongguodakaishengyinhuoshipinerbuliaotianlaiganshouduifang。”zhiyoujinglilenanwangdeaiqing，cainengshuochuyishangdeyanlun，shenyoutihui。

 8.“dangniaideshihou，nibuhuiwuhuakeshuo。jishinikanzheta，tayeshiyigefenhongsedepaopao。danshi，dangnibuaideshihou，jishinishuolehenduohua，mianduifuyanyehuiwuhuakeshuo，yinweiwojinglilesuoyoudeshiqing。”zhufuzheigexiaodidihuoxiaomeimei。

 9.“kanzhejiuhao，womennengganjuedaobicidecunzaiyijinghenhaole，dengdaoyouhuayaoshuo。”ganshoudaobicidecunzai，ganshoudaoaishihaode。

 10.yidilianmeihuatilezenmeban？“zhaodaoqitaxindehuati，chongshiziji，ranhourangtajixufaxianbutongdeziwo，huifuxinxiangan，qubutongdedifanglvxing，tiaozhanbutongdeshiqing。nanhaihenvhaiyinggaizheiyangzuo。baochixinxianshiyidiliandemijue。”baochixinxianshiyidiliandemijue，wojushouzancheng。