如何维持异地恋，给他足够的安全感

yidilianhennan，youxuduorenxiangquweichi，quedaotoulaitulaowugong

一、异地恋应该怎么去维持

1、xianghulijie，xianghuxinren

 guanyuruhetanyidilianzheigehuatishang，wojuedediyigexiangdaodejiushixianghuxinren。wangwangchuxiandewentijiushiquefaanquangan，daozhiduifangduinishiqulexinren，zheijiushibunenggenghaodilijiedaoruhetanyidiliandeyigeyuanyin，youderenkenengjiushiyinweiyixiemaobingjiuhuidaozhifenshou，zuilipudemoguoyunibuhuiwoduanxin，wojiuhuaiyinizaihebierenzuoaile，zheijianzhishimeiyounaozidexiangfa，neimewomenyinggairuhequzhuiyidilianni？ruhequtanyidilianni？daanjiushixiangyaojianlixinrenhelijie，neijiushiyaoduolianxi，keyishipinhuozhetonghua，youshiqingxianheduifangshuoyixia，buyaorangduifangmangmudedengdai

2、自信心

 yidilianruhehongyeshiyigewenti。yidilianzhishaozijiyaoyouzheiyangdexinxin，ruguonizijidoubuyidingnengjianchixiaqu，neinimendeganqingzenmenengzhangjiuni，suiranyidilianhuiyouyixiexiaochaoxiaonaozheiyeshizhengchang，ruguonishinanfangneijiuduohonghongduifang，buyaoqujieshi，nvhaizizhishixiangzainizheilidedaoanwei，suoyiniyaoxuehuiyidilianruhehong？ruguoshinvfangneijiuduotiliangyixiananfangdeburongyi，doushiweileyihoudeshenghuo。

3、给对方制造惊喜

 lianggerenzaiyiqizhangshijiandexiangchu，zuipajiushipingpingdandan，wuliao，meiyoushenghuoqingqu，buyaotaiduodequxiangruhezhuiyidilian，ruhetanyidilian，zheiyanghuirangnixintaizengjiafudan。yidilianzuipadejiushizheixiele，zhangshijiandebuzaiyiqi，huirangduifangjuedeguduheshiluo，zheigeshihoukeyiouerjiduifangzhizaoyixiejingxi，biruqukanduifang，huozheshijierizhong，jiusuangongzuomang，yejiduifangsonggeliwujiyoujiguoqu。zheiyangjiushiyigeyidilianruhehongdejiaoxue

4、自控能力

 yidilianyinweizhangshijiandebuzaiyiqi，shenbianziranhuichuxianyixieduizijiyouhaoganhuozheshiduizijiyouyouhuodeyixiechuxian，zheigeshihoujiushinidezikongnenglixianshideshihoule，jirannixiangzijidelianrenguorizi，neijiuyaohezheixierenshuoqingchu，buyaoquzuoneixieyinweikongxujimoermanzushenglixuqiuderen，zheiduinihenidelianrendoushibufuzerendexingwei，yaozhenxindaita，jujueyiqieyouhuo，niyaozhidaoxiangyaojianchiyidilianbingburongyi。bicidouhuishifendekunnan。jiranxuanzelejianchi，weihebuhaohaodijianchixiaqu？

zaizheiyezhenxindezhuyuanneixieyidiliandepengyou，xiwangnimenxianzaideyidi，zhishiweilexiacigenghaodezhongfeng。