异地恋能成吗，坚持总会有收获

yidilianshiyichangzhangpao，jianchihuoxujiuhuiyoushouhuo

一、八年的坚持，终于结果

 shiyichuchun，qingchendefenghebangwandeyuhaiyouxieyuehaoledeyisisiliangyi，shenbiandeguniangxiaoqinhetaxinaidenanrenchenxianshengyejijiangyinglairenshengzhongzuitianmideshike。zheiduanrizitadexinqingyizhihenhao，qiseyeshicongweiyouguodehongrun，jicidaizhetadeweihunfuchengshuangduidechuxianzaiwomendegezhongjuhuishang。renqunzhongtahetaliangshouxiangqianjinxiantianmi，zuoxishanggaoxingshipangruowurendejiangtoukaozaiyiqibicishenshenyiwei。nongdeaiyi，zhenzhenshixianshasilezhouzaoyiqundanshendenannvpengyou，lianwozheigehunyinshiniandenvrenyebeiganrandeyitahutu。

 tingxiaoqinshuotahetadehunshazhaoyijingpaihaoguadaolexinfangzidechuangtou，hunlidangtiandezhuhunshayijingcongsuzhouxuangouwanbi，hunyanyongdejiudiantuotuoyudinghao，shuangfangqinqipengyouyeyijingyaoqingdaowei。hunlishangdesiyizhengzaixiangyongsheigenghaoyidian，dangtianshoupenghuayaoyongfensemeiguihaishihuangsemeigui,shuoshihuawomendouweixiaoqinzhongjiangyinglaidexingfuyouzhongdezhufu，binggantongshenshouzhetadexiyue。yinweiwomendoutaiqingchuzheifenxingfulaideyouduoburongyi。neishitayongzhengzhengbaniandeqingchuncaihuanlaixianzaidetianmishike，shipangrenwufagantongshenshoucengjingdetahetadejianxinhekuchu。youderenxinzhongyougeyiwen，yidiliangaifenma？danshikandaotamendejingli，youbawentiyanlejinqu。yidilianshengqianma？baniandezhangpao，keyixiangxiangxia，yigongyouduoshaozhangchepiao？nengshengqianma？yinweitamenzhijianyouai，zheixieqishisuanbuleshenme。buguowoxiangxinzaizhongtu，tamenyewenguoziji，yidiliannengchengma？zuihouhaibushijieguole.

 youguoyidilianjinglidepengyoudouzhidao，relianzhongderenfenkaibageyuedoushiyijiannanaodeshiqing，shichanghuimaochuyidiliangaifenmazheiyangdexiangfa，genghekuangshizhengzhengbanian。xiangyidiliannengchengma？yidilianshengqianma？zheixiexiangfakendingmeiyoushaoxiang。ertacongdaxuedaobiye，conggongzuodaojintian。cong20chutoudenianjidaosanshierli，yonglezhengzhengyigegudandeqingchun。yourenshuo7nianjiukeyihuandiaoyigerenquanshendexibao，wangdiaoyigexiangwangjideren，neimebanianjueduibushiyigexiaoshumu。tiannandibeizhilianruguobushibicidouyaojinyaguanjianshouchuxin，bushibicishenshenaizheduifang，duiaiyoujueduixinyangduding。kongpayezaoyixiaomodaijinleaiqingyuezouyueyuanlechuxinwohaihao，nini？keshiwomingmingyidianyebuhaobijingwohezhouxianshengcengjingfenkaiguoyigeyuejiujuedebaishifanzao。tazaitianjinbanshi，woyaoshangbandaihaizi，youshihanbuying，xiangniangoubuzhe。dengpaohuailewodezijihuan，taifengtiankuangfengbawodesandouchuipaole，woyezhinenglinzheyutangzheshuizhuizhesanpao。yidikuma？dangranku。danshiyidiliannengchengma？nengya，zuihoubushizhengminglema？

yigerenhuidaojiakanzhehaizikudesangzidouyale，erwanfanhaimeiyouzheluo，neiyikezhendeshengwukelianyiban。

 youqishiyudaohaizibanyefashao，yigerenbanyebaozhehaizi，zhanzaimalubian，yishouhaiziyishoulanzheguowangdeshihuojihuoliao。zuoershifenzhongche，paiyigexiaoshiduiwu，dengdaojihaizikanbing，nayigeyishengdeshurenhaiyaochayijiao，zhongyukeyikandaole，yishengshuashuadashouyihui，liaocaoliangxingzi。yifenzhongbudaojiudafaninanaquguashui。neiyikewoshizhendeyexiangkule。xiangzhezhouxianshengzaishenbiangaiyouduohao。yigeyueshangqieruci，hekuangxianglianderenzhangdabaniandejianao。suoyitebiedongxiaoqindeburongyi，ruobushishenshenaizhezhendeyaofenfenzhongmaniangde。bijingneizhongxianggeqianlixiangjianjianbudaodesinianzhikubushiyigerenjianjiandandanqingqingsongsongjiukeyitingguolaide。bijingyichangdayuqingpenerxiadeshihou，nishiduomekewangtahuichuxianzainishenbiantoudingyusanweinizhefengdangyu。duoshaociwuyemenghuileishuishilezhenxindeshihou，neixindecuiruojiuhuixiesidilidezizhang，erniyeshixiangqianlizhiwaidetanenggouzhixiaopeizaishenbiande。duoshaorenxiangyaoaiderendeyigeyongbao，keshiduoshaorenquezhinengkaohuiweizheshangyicijianmianshidewencunlailiaoweineiyikekegudandexin。keshiniyouxuanzeyiwufangudejiantinglexialai，weileaiqing，weilemengxiangdexiyi，weileyouyitianzhizizhishouyuzixielao。zheishihoudetamenyibuzaiyongquxiangyidiliannengchengma，yidiliangaifenmazheiyangdewentile，bijingtamenjianchileneimejiu。

二、甘愿孤独，甘愿牺牲。

 aiyigerenyexuchuleaiqingbenshengengshiyizhongduiaidejianchi，huoxuzhiyoujingliguomonandeaiqingzoudaozuihoudeshihoucaihuimizuzhengui。huoxuzaineigudandeqingchunli，dengdaidechouchangzhong，cainengbianchengdeziji。xiaoqinjiushi。neixieqinrenxinpidejianao，wurenketengxidejutong，suiranshixiaoqinpinlinbengkui，shengwukelian。danshizuihoutarengranxuanzelejianchi，rengranganyuanyongdiaozhenggeqingchun，huoxuneijiushiaiqing。shiniyicicizoubuxiaqulehaiyaozou，shinigeleqianshanwanshuidouhaiyaoaideqing。tongbingkuailezhe，shiyidilianliaiyigerenzhenshidemoyang。

 xiaoqinshixingyunde，yongtadehuashuoqingchunwuhui，guduwuhuizhongyudengdaolekeyixiangshoudezheiyitian。yidilian：shiyonggudandeqingchunhuanwuhuidebaitouyourenshuo：yidilianshiliangtiaoxiangwangdepinghengxian，xianggezhelianggexiangaidelianren。ranernibuzhidaojiujingheshizheiliangtiaoxiancainengxiangjiao，yinglaibaishoubuxiangli；yebuzhidaohuibuhuimouyitianzouzhezouzhejiufendaoyangbiaole，huoxuzaiyebujian。yourenshuo：yongyouguoyidilianjinglidelianrenshiyijianxingfudeshiqing，yinweinizhidaozaibutongdedifangyouyikexincengjingheniyiyangshizhongrenzhendijianchizhe，zhizhedishouhuzheneifenaiqing。

 hanhanshuo：yidilianbukepa，kepadeshimanmandebuzhizenmeganqingjiubuzaile。ruguobuzaileneiyoushenmeguanxini，womenzhongxinpeiyangba，zhidaobicizaiaishang，juebufangqi。aiyigerenyaonulixuehuijianchi，aiyigerenyaojingdeqishijianhekongjiandedengdai。suoyirujinhaizaiweiyidiliannengchengma，yidiliannengfenmazheixiewentideren，keyiwangdiaotamenle，renzhendeweineigerenqufuchu，jianchi，zhonghuiyoujieguo，zhongyouyitiandangnitaitouyangwangxingkongdeneiyike，buzaixuyaozhushitadefangxiang，yourenpeizainishenbian。zhongyouyitianniluguoxirangdejietou，kanzhebiedeqinglvchaojiabuzaixianmuzhuzubuqian。

 suiranxiangsiku，danyiranxuanzexiangsi；suiranmengjinghenduan，danyiranxinweibicixiangshou。suiranjuliyaoyuan，danshixinxinxiangxiyiqi。neixieshanmenghaishi，yuzixielaodeshiyan，zhongyourenyuanyijianshouzhe。

jinguanshitongdewufahuxideyidilian，yeyourenyuanyiyonggudandeqingchunquhuanwuhuidebaitou