如何维持异地恋,让她不再缺乏安全感

 yidilianzenmebanni？yidilianzenyangweichi，zheiyeshiyoubanfade，jiushijitazugoudeanquangan，nvshengzaiyidiliandeganqingzhongshichuyuxiangduiquefaanquangandeyifang。

一、异地恋到底要怎么谈？

1、相互信任。

 jiangzhenzheidianzhendehennanzuodao，yinweiyidiliandeganqingcuiruodebutaixianghua，yitiaopengyouquan，yizhangheying，shenzhiyigedianzan，yijushaoweibuduijingdehuayu，dounengyinfacaijihehuaiyi，huoxubuhuidangchangshuopo，danshiyuejileiyueduodehua，chizaohuilaigedabaofade，bushibaozherendingduifangdexintaibuyaoqingyiyidilian，fanzhinijiranrendingleduifangweishenmebuyuanyixinrentani。haixiangshuoyigeshier，ruguoniyourendingduifang，danglantaohuashangmendangduanzeduan，yidilianjianzhitairongyiyouaimeiduixiang。chizheguolidekanzhewanlide，zheiduishuangfangbugongping，jiaotaliangtiaochuanbushibuhuifan，ershichizaofan，dangranyekenengshi“liangrenyidi，sirenkaixin”degangajumian，zheidefenrenle。

2、关于安全感。

 nvshengzaiyidiliandeganqingzhongshichuyuxiangduiquefaanquangandeyifang，tebierongyixiangtaiduoxiangtaiduoxiangtaiduoxiangtaiduoxiangtaiduoxiangtaiduo！！eranquanganbujinshiyichaoyixijiunengjianliqilai，buguanshiyididuoyuan，haishiyuedingshijianjianmian，biruliangzhou，yigeyue，sangeyue，zijiyiqingkuangerding，danglianggerenjianmianle，yidilianzhongde80%wentishikeyijiejuede，shenzhibufucunzai。buguanzaimangwojuedehuigexinxideshijianhaishijidechulaide，lianggerenyaoxuehuifenxiangrichang，xuexi、shenghuo、gongzuodangzhongdefannaogenxiyue，jibianshiyidiyerangduifangyouyizhongguanyunirenshengdecanyugan。woningyuannideanquangandaibiaozhe“jiusuantalikai，woyehaishinengzhaoguhaoziji”，erbushi“tabaozhengleyidingbuhuilikaiwo”，dongma？anquanganbujinshiduifangjide，yeshizijijizijide。duile，nvshengzijibuyaozuo，buyaoqufanjiuzhang，buyaoguyizhaocha。

3、独立的生活。

 buyaoyimenxinsipudaoduifangshenshang，yaoyouzijideshenghuo，xihuandangangqinjiuquxuea，xihuankanshujiuqukana，xihuangeyoutangjiutanga，rangzijishaoweimangyidian，tishengzijidetongshikaikuoyanjie，zheiyangnimenhuatiyehuiyuelaiyuexinxian，nizhenggerenjitaganjueshidulierxinxiande，zhenxinjujuemeitiandanchunde“zaocanchishenmele，wucanchishenmele，wancanchishenmele”zheizhonghuati，nizijidoubuxiangtinghaoma，bazijishoushidepiaopiaoliangliangde，meicijianmiandoujitayanqianyiliangdeganjue，renyizixin，anquanganyeduole。ruguoniyidiliandetongshijinglizhetaixiansanderensheng，dangduifangzaimangnizhendejiushimeitianjimokongxuleng，woyougenvxingpengyougentananpengyoubaoyuan“nibuyaoyitiandaowanzhixiangzhezhuanqian，peipeiwoa”，ranerxianshiqingkuangshinanshengzhiyaotachumendoushijielaisongqude，zhoumodaitachifan，chuchayehuidaixiaoliwu，ertani，meishangban，suoyibierenzhengchangshangbanshijianzaitakanlaidouhaomang，ertaxianzhejiuhenrongyixiangzhaochachaojia……yimangyixian，rongyichaojia，liangmangrongyidan，liangxianmeiweilai，hahahahahahahahatangelianaiyetainanleba，danmangyeshihaoshi，lianggerenweiyigegongtongdeweilaidapin，zheizhongqingxidemubiaosuanshiyidiliandefangxiangba。

4、学会沟通

 bulengzhan。lengzhanchulezhemoshuangfang，nixiabuletaiwoyexiabuletaizhihouhaoxiangyemeishenmeyongle，lengzhanduiyuyidilianjianzhikanchengyuanzidanhuanxing。nvshengyibanxingziaoyidian，xiangdengnanshengdaoqian，honghongta，nanshengyeyibandouhuizheimezuo，danshizhangciyiwang，nibuleitadouleile。dengtameixinsihongni，niyelabuxialianzhaota，yilaierquganqingyejiudanleduibudui！jiusuanzaiqitoushang，jizhubuyaotuoheibuyaoshanchu，liutiaohouludengtadaoqianyehaoa！qianbaizhongchaojiafangshi，lengzhanshizuimoganqingdeyizhong，chuxianlewenti，lianggerenjiuyaoyiqitaolunzenmejiejue，fouzejibianshilengzhanjiedongyezhishizanshide，xiahuizheigewentihaihuibengdachulai。