女神有多少追求者，应如何规避“烂桃花"

zaiwomenkanlainvshenyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhe,meinvyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhe？

一、为什么女神却很少人追求

1、太懂得避嫌

 daxueyouyigeguimishigegongrendebanhua，yanzhiposiqiaomei，quebiqiaomeiduoyifennvrenwei，shaoyifenkeai。chushengyujingshangjiatingdeta，daqiwenhedexingge，gengshiyuanzaiyanzhizhishang。neimezheiyangdemeinvyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhe？zheiyangdenvshenyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhe？sidixia，tarenbuzhuhewobaoyuanshuo：“bushiwoyaoqiugao，ershiliangezhuiqiuzhedoumeiyouya！nishuo~ woyebusuantaicha，zenmejiumeirenzhuini？”woshuo：“neisheisheishei，neisheisheishei，kendingdoushixihuannide，nidemeilineimeda，bukenengbubeinixiyin，zhishitamenhaipa，haipabiaobailepengyoudouzuobule。”dangshiwoyeyizhiguijiudaozheigewentishang，zhidaogongzuohou，kandaoxuduoren，doubeiwuchuanweiqinglv。youbeilantaohuaqiongzhuibushede。shenzhihaiyoubeiwuchuanshidisanzhede。zaitamenkunaobuyideshihou，wozhongyuxiangmingbaileneigewenti，jiguimifaletiaoweixinshuo：“wozhongyuzhidaoniweishenmemeirenzhuile。yuyanzhiwuguan，ershinitaidongderuhebixian。”

 chushengyujingshangjiatingdeta，shoufuqinyanchuanshenjiaoyingxiangpoda。duipengyouzongshixiaolianxiangying，laizhebuju。eryidanduifangxiangduitajinyibushenrulejieshi，tadeneixinjiuxiangguanshangdamenyiban，jiaranerzhi。nvshengyishengyouduoshaogezhuiqiuzhe？daanshihenduode。erxiangwoguimizheiyangshude，biranhuishigengduodezhuiqiuzhe，danchuxianzheiyangdexianzaiqueshizenmehuishini？buguanniruhewangqiantanxun，tazongnengyitatianmeidexiaorong，zaiyisiliangboqianjindehuashujiraoguoqu，tongshihaibuhuirangduifangjuedeganga。yitiaorongxubierenjinrudexianhelingyitiaobisuodexianjingweifenming。

二、如何规避烂桃花

 womenqianwanbuyaojuedezijizhangxiangyiban，nengliyiban。jiubuhuifashenglantaohua，“feiwen”dengshijian。zhiyaonidexingwei“yuegui”，jiukenengzhaolaidajiadeqihong。erbiqihonggengkepadeshi，nideanlianduixiangzhuniyu“feiwennanyou”bainianhaohe。neimetongchangweishenmehuiyouneimeduorenwennvshenyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhe，meinvyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhezheiyangdewentini？zheiguanhuyumeilidewenti。meinvyingruheguibizhuiqiu？

1、buzaishuyuqingrendejieri，huzengliwu

 woxiangbutong，weishenmehuiyourenzaiqingrenjie，520dengjieri，yuzijibuxiangfazhanweiduixiangdeyixinghuzengliwu。ruguoshiwanaimei，zijizuosideqingkuang，jiubuzuotaolunle。ruguoqueshishianlianduixiangdehua，dangranyeshikeyisongde。erruguoshiyixingpengyouguanxi，qingyidingyaojujue！henduorenjiushiweilepaganga，erwufamaichuzheiyibu，mianqiangshouxialiwu。fandaojiduifangyizhongcuojue，renwei……“yi，youxiwange！tameiyoujujuewoni。”yushijixuchengshengzhuiji。zuihouweizijizhaorelelantaohuaerkunaobuyi，langfeileshuangfangdeshijianyujingli。shenghuozhongyehao，aiqingyehao，wentijiuzaineili，buhuiyinweinidetaobierxiaoshi。mingzhishiyitiaocuowudedaolu，jiuyinggaixuehuijujue，jishizhisun。

2、buzengsongqingrenzhuanzengpin

 oufengshengri，huoshixuyaoganxieduifangshi，youxiewupin，zeshidaji。lirurushuo，qiaokeli，huadeng，renyankewei，tuomonenggoubarenyansi。kejianbixianzhizhongyao。

3、jinliangbimianyuyixingdandukandianying，guangjie

 nikeyiheguimimenqukandianyingguangjie，niyekeyiduziqukandianyingguangjie。danshiyidingyaojinliangbimianheyixingpengyoudandukandianying，guangjie。huiyouhenduorenwenneigenvshenghuiyouduoshaozhuiqiuzheni？neigemeinvyouduoshaozhuiqiuzheni。dangyixingsiyuenideshihou，nizhendexiangmingbailezheibeihousuochengzaideshimingma？

4、buzaiwanshangyinweiwuliaoertaorao

 baitianzenmexianliaodoumeiyouguanxi，eryidaolewanshang，tebieshishenyedeshihou，ruguodadianhuajiduifangshuo“wohenwuliaoni。” “shuibuzhe，lailiaoliaoba。” qishijiuyijingyouxieyuegui。chaochuleyixingpengyoudefanweile。zheiwuyishizaifasheyigecuowudexinhaodan，xiangduifangbiaoshi，wojuedewomenkeyijinyibufazhan。

5、buyaoteyimeitianjisheifawanan

 tingguoyigetesudeduanzi，shuoshiwanan（wanan），daibiao「woaini，aini」。meitianshuiqiandouyaoheaiderendaojuwanan，sihuchenglerelianzhongxiaoqinglvmen，buchengwendeguiju。

 eryouyouduoshaorelianzhongdenvsheng，cengweiduixiangyinweidayouxierwangjishuoyijuwanan，duixiangyizhiwenweishenmemeiyougenwoshuowanan，shibushibuaiwole？buxihuandeanlianduixiangfade，yejiubieshahuhudeteyihuileba。nuannannuannv，kebushineimehaodangde。

6、buxiangyixingpengyouguofensajiao

 nvrentianshenghuisajiao，nanrentianshengyouqishijingshen。sajiaojiuxiangshiaiqingzhongdechengrenyongpin，ouershiyongkeyidiaoqing，duozeshangshen。duinanyoudoushiruci，genghekuangshiqitaren，bufenchanghe，bufenrenwudesajiao。youshihoubudanbuhuirangniyouqiubide。jirenyizhongcuowudeganjue

7、buzaipengyouquansuiyifayixinghezhao

 pengyouquanshiyigegongkaichanghe，pochuyuyixingdedanduhezhao，zongshiyinrenxiaxiangde，shenzhihuirangrenjuedeshixiuenaidexingwei。ruguoshiweilejiniandehua，zijibaocunzaishoujilijiuhao。meibiyaoteyifapengyouquan。

8、记得说谢谢

 dangniyuyixingdeguanxiyijingdaolebuyongshuoxiexiededibu。qishiyeshizaianshiduifang，womendeguanxi，yijingdaolebufenbicidedibu。huikannishenbianneixiekansiduisheidouwenroutitie，quezenmedouwufazoujinduifangneixinderen，buzhengshirucima？ tamenzongshiyilixiangdai。

9、buzaisiliaodeqingkuangxiahutanqingshi

 ruguoduiduifangwuyi，qianwanbuyaosixiatanluqingshi，tebieshibuyaosixiashenyetanluqingshi。yinweiyewan，renzongshirongyishanggande。erzaizheizhong“tianshidilirenhe”deqingkuangxia，huxiangqingsu，jiuxiangshihaoburongyijieqiaodeshangba，youyaozhongxinbakaikouzijiduifangkan，ranhouhuxiangtianshi，anfu。zheihuirangwomenchanshengyizhongcuojue，cuojuedeyiweiwomenyuanlairucixiangsi，cuojuedeyiwei，womentongbingxianglian，cuojuedeyiwei，nidongwo。zheizhongqingganshangdegongming，huirangnihushiniliangkenenggenbenbuqihedesanguan。napazheixiedoumeiyouchonghunnidetounao。nimendeguanxi，qishiyeyijingbianchenglepengyouyishang，lianrenweiman。yinwei，womendouhuxiangzhidaoleduifangshenzangzaineixindejiyi。womenliaimeihenjin，keshiliaiqing，sihuyouhaoyuan。duixiangzhisuoyinanzhao，shiyinweitazaiwozheiliyongyoutaiduodetequan。wobuxuyaoaimei，laitianbuwoneixindekongxu。yebuxuyaozhuiqiuzhelaizhangxianwodemeilisuoweimeibiyaozaixunwenneixieneigenvshengyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhe，neigemeinvyouduoshaozhuiqiuzhezheiyangdewentile。

 woxiangxinwoguozheshenmeyangdeshenghuo，jiuhuiyoushenmeyangderenlaiaiwo。woyeqidaiyouyitianwomenzharanxiangfeng，wonengduitashuo：“hai，pengyou，weizhiyizhijiniliuzheni。”