爱情36计：被击垮的感情如何正确挽回？

 aiqingsanyuanlilunshishenmeni？womenliangtanlesanniantanlianai，erlingyiwunian10yuejiedehun，2018nianqingkuangxiadewochuguile，shangnianshiyuefenwomenliangdexiaohaizichushishi，tachuguile。neimeaiqing36jiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingsanshiliujidewenzhangba。

 wobuyuanyiliyi，dantazongshuodajiasanguanbuhe，ganjuewohenzisizili。18nianwaiyudeshier，takuanronglewo，danshiqueyibuxinrenganwo，tazaiwocheli、shoujidouzhuanglejingzhundingwei。

 yinweiwaiyumubiaoyizhijiuchanbuqing，woyegentajianleyimianyaoxiangshuoqingxi，danshenmeshiqingyemeiyouchansheng。beitafajuehou，tahuanshicaiyiwogenwaiyumubiaoyounaxie。

 meiduojiutayechuguile，rujinyaogenwotiliyi，bingqiexintaihenguoduan，tashuodaotahenhenwo，buyuanzaigenwojixurichangshenghuole。

 wokeyijuededaotadewaiyumubiaohenzhangwota，xiangzhixinyiyanghendongta。keshixianzaiwoqueshizaoyihuiguole，genneirenchedibuzailianxi，wohenhouhuimoji，guaizijizenmehuineibanzuo。

 wohenxiangyaogentazaihuidaocongqian，woshebudegentazhongjiandeqinggan，yinweiwobushededajiadejiating，wozhenxiangnenghetazaicizouwanxiayibeizi。

 woyuanqugaibianxianzhuang，qidaichejiaoshikeyibangbangmang，wulunjieguozenyang，wojuedeqinfen，aiqingsanyuanlilunshishenmeni？woxuyaonindexiezhu。

答：

 ninhao，kandaolenidexushu，woduijibenqingkuangzaoyiyouyidingdezhangwo。congzhouqishijianshangeryan，dajiadeqingganshilijingzhangqichendingde，taruhunyinshenghuohouniquechuguile。

 yifangmiankenengshihunyinshenghuozhongpingfandeshenghuo，jiniyaoxiangzhuiqiuwanmeicijixingdejuede，waiyumubiaodechuxianfeichangdashuipingshangkaolvleniduibumingdehaoqixinhezhengfuyu。

 lingyifangmianyekenengshi，nihezhangfuzhongjiandeganqinghuoshenglixuexuqiumeiyouhuodekaolvzaocheng de，shijiyuangudajiahaibixugengjiashenruyibudezhangwohetaolun。

 niyizhizaiwaiyuhoubuyuanliyi，biaomingjiazhongzainixinlihuanshihenzhongyaode。keshinidelaogongshuodajia“sanguanbuhe”、“juedenizisizili”，neiyangdehua，shijishangbiaomingtaduinihuanshiyouqinggande。

 dangdajiatiaoxuanjindaoyiduanguanlian，bazijimingandeyimianzhanxianjilingyifangdeqingkuangxia，shiqidaikeyizailingyifangdeshenshanghuodelejieheshiyongde。

 dannidewaiyu，budanhulveletadeganqingxuqiu，yejiushiniduijiazhongbuchengdandezhuyaobiaoxian，zheihuishitajuedehentoule，duizheiyiduanqingganquefaanquangan，yinci caihuichuxianbuxinrennidegerenxingwei。

 aiqingsanshiliuji,dangliangrenmeiyoubanfagenjugoutongjiaoliuqujiejuemaodun，neimatajiuhuiyouhenyoukenenghuizaizheiliduanhunyinguanxiyiwaidebierendeshenshang，xunzhaozheileiganqingfuwei。

rutongnichangshuo“tadewaiyumubiaohenzhangwota，xiangzhixinyiyanghendongta”。

zhenduinidezhuangkuang，womingquetichuyixiajigefangmiantiyi：

 1、xianglingyifangzhenxinshiyidezhiqian，duanjuewanglai，dangairendemianzaisanxuguofuwuchengnuo，ranglingyifangjiandaozishendexingdonghegenggaidexinxin。

 2、jijihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，xianghuyichengxiangdaidetanyitan，biaomingweihezishenwaiyu，shifoulingyifangzaiqingganshangcuxindayilezishen，huanshizishenshiyishidereqingfancuowu?

xianghuqidaijiazhongkeyiruheweihubaoyangjianchidaodi?dajiashiruheduidaifuwuchengnuohemengpiande?

 3、zaicihuodelingyifangdexinrengan,jilingyifangchongzudeguishugan。lirugongchugaozhilingyifangzishendexingchenganpai，jijigaozhilingyifangzishendedenglumima，gaozhilingyifangzishenshibushiheqingrenyoulianxizheixie。

 4、ruguonidelaogongjinigenggaideqingkuangxia，jiusuanshiyigexiweidegenggai，nibixukuajiangta，jiyutajingshenshizhishangdelejieheshiyong。

aiqing36ji,zhuyuandajiajianglainengyouyigehaodejieguo。