爱情36计：这样和前任聊天再绝情的ta也对你重燃激情

 aiqingsanyuanlilunshishenmeni？zongsuanhezishenaiderentanshangtiantiandelianai，jieguobujiu，lingyifanghenijuede，womenbuheshi，huanshizuopengyouba，zuizhongyaodejiushinijuedezishenfangfomeiyoufancuoshenmeya，doumeiyounaerzuodebuduiya。neimeaiqing36jiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingsanshiliujidewenzhangba。

 niyaowanhui，keshilingyifangduiniaidabuli，nimeirichatianqiyubao，bianshiweilegenghaodigenlingyifangshuo1juhua，danshilingyifangrangnidedoushifuyanleshi。nineixinjiufangfoyouyigenci，jinyibuzuobudao，tuiyibubushede。

 cike，qiadangdekaiqiliaotianhuati，nenggoutuidongniyuqiannanyouzhongjiandeguanlian，yekeyifeichanghaodehuanjiedajiazhongjiandeqingxu，naizhinenggoufuhexingqudechenggong。

xiabiandajiajiueryanyixia，heqiannanyouxianliaodelianggefangfa，shitaganjuezaiyicishenshenaishangni。

恰当的聊天话题一：认可另一方的念头

aiqingsanshiliuji,dangjinrengennishuo：“womenbuheshi，huanshizuopengyouba”。

 nidiyifanyingshitichuzhiyita，dajianaerbushihele，suihouzhaoyiduiyuanyin，aiqingsanyuanlilunshishenmeni？liruworenweidajiaxingquaihaotouyuan，douxiaikandianshiju，xiaiqulvyou，xiaiwanyouxi，worenweidajiahenshihe。

 cikedajialiangrenjiulizaileduili，zaochengdedikangqingxu，tahuizhaodaliangdeyuanyin，laizhengshidajiabushihe，zheishiniyaoxiangdema?

 ninengneimeshuo，duiya，nijuededemeiyoucuo，henyoukenengwoliniyaoxiangdeyeyouyixiechabie，yaoburandajiayebuhuilaidaojinrizheiyimoyang。

xianrenkelingyifangdeniantou，shitaxuehuifangxiafangbeixinlizhuangtai，suihouzaikaizhanxiayibudezishi。

恰当的聊天话题二：在闲聊中嵌入情绪

xianliaozuishizhideshi：qingxugoutongjiaoliu，keyizaigoutongjiaoliuzhongchuangjianxianghudeqingxuqifu。

什么叫情绪起伏呢?

 yingyuanlidianyingpiaofangmaidehaodeyidingshizheixiejuqingbodong，kourenxinxiandeyingpian，bansuizhegushiqingjiefazhanqushinideqingxuyehuigensuigaoaiqijiang，zheijiushijifaqingxudebiaodaxiaoguo。

 shexiangyixia，youyigerenjinigaoxing、jinimishi、jinishangxin、jinijidong，yidannijindaozheileiqingkuang...ninengfajue，zheijiuhechuduixiangyimoyiyang。

ruguonijiqiannanyouneiyangdetihui，tahuiganjuezishenzaiciaishangleni。

jugejianyideshili，ruguonishigenvhai，henanhaiziliaodelol，ninengxueyiduanqinsexiannvdeyuyanjitamen。

“weiyouninengtingdaowodeshengyinzhaohuanshi!”

 ruguonishigenanhaizi，henvshengliaotengxunwangzherongyao，ninengxueyiduanlubanqihao。“jianyanlezhengduimiandezhili，heihei，laikanmeifachongfenfahuisuoyouzhengtishilila!”

aiqing36ji,neiyangancuocuojifaqilingyifangdeqingxu，tajiutaobudongnideshouxinle。