恋爱婚姻之重掌爱情主动权

 zaifenshouyihou，suoyourendouqidaikeyiyonggaoaozidaquwanliu，kezhenshizhixingqilai，quefajuemeiyouzheimejiandan。neimelianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaihunyinjiatingdewenzhangba。

 yingduiwangrideqinglv，dangjiandaotadelengdanshi，yehuiqingbuzijindedixiatou，kejibian niditouzhiqian，jiusuanniyizaichengrencuowu，zongrannichixujianmo，tayezongshiyuelaiyuegengweilengdan。

 kanjianganqingdezhudaoquan，yidiandiancongnishoushangwailiu，danjibian niwanbanqinfen，yiranbuleyiqiegongxiaoshi，nichukaijinpoganyiwai，quezhishengyufalideshiluogan。

nandaoshuoyiqiedouwufamibulemeiyou?nandaoshuojiuyanbabadekanjianganqing，congzishenzhifengjianzhongzouyuanma?

 jianxinjibian niyizaixinhan，danyebuyuanyijienaneiyangdeshiji。neimayaozenyangcaikeyimaixiangqiadangdewanliulumian，yunzhuanqiankun，rangqiannanyouyunihehaoruchuni?

一、探索真因

fenshouyihou，juedaduoshunvshidoushihuishenxianneiyangdeqingkuang：pianzhi，jiqipianzhi。

 ziran，zheiyiqiedeyuangudouyuanyuyutamingquetichufenshouguoduguoduan，jininanyishanbi，naizhicongtazuizhonghaijiangchuleyixieshangxindehua，jiniwufajiena。

 neimeniyingdangqingxi，rujintachangshuodehetasuozuode，yeshizaibulizhixia，shuochudeweibeiliangxinhua，zhongjiutadezhenzhengmudishixiangfenshou，jiarutabubahuashuodehenyidian，niyouzenmekenengsilexinni?

yinci，zheijiurangnidewanliuchanshengleyixiangjiannan：nibingbuqingchutamingquetichufenshoudezhenshiyuangu。

 zheijiuxiangyaonitansuozhenyin，xunzhaodajiazhongjianjiujingchuxianleshenmewenti，zhongjiurujinchukaichuliyagennantiyiwai，yaoburanniganshenme，wulunnizaishuoshenme，douzongshizaochengtadepaichi。

 danjiaruninengjizhidichulidajiazhongjiandenanti，huoshilinshimeifachuli，dannikeyixunzhaoyiqienantidegenbenyuanyin，bingjijizhudongdexiangdaochulifangfancuoshi，yiyangnenggoushitaxiangdiyibufenduinidedichuxintai。

二、使他见到你的改变

 chukaichulidajiazhongjiandenanti，nigengyaogaoqingchuyigedadaoli：tawangwangnenggoujueqingdegennimingquetichufenshou，yequjueyuniderenqizhizaoyimeifazhichengdiandajiadeganqing。

 shide，guoqudenihenxiyinzhuta，jiushinideshenshangsuoshifangchuqudefengcaixiangbei，keshimuqian，nimeiyouyiqiegaibian，naizhiyijingdaotui，ertadejianshikuankuole，tadeguidingyetigaole，dajiazhongjianyibuduideng，yidanchuxianshidiao，niduitadeyouhuolimeineimabianda。

 lianaihunyinjiating，yinci ，zaidangtamingquetichufenshouyihou，niyidingyaoyishidao，budandajiazhongjianshicunzaidewenti，danni，yiyangbixuyouyidingdegaibian。

 congjintiankaishi，qinfentishengziwo，zhonggouzishen，zhongsufengcai，jinyouruguoniyuelaiyuebuyiyang，bingshitajiandaonidegaibian，jingyayunidegaibian，duinidegaibiansuoxiyinzhu，dajiacaiyoujinyibufazhanqushidehenyoukeneng。

三、提高感情浓度值

 dangtajiandaonidegaibian，tadexintaiyewanquanhuanjiechulai，dajiazhongjianjiuhuiyouzaiyicichupengdejiyu，danwojuedeyiweizhenidewanliuzaoyiqudechenggong。

xingbailizhebanjiushi，xuduo nvshizaizheiliyibuyongbuduifangfa，zoubuduilu，zaocheng wanliuzaidujiangchibuxia。

 bixutebiezhuyideshi，dajiazhongjiandouhaimeidaoguanlianqinmijiechudeneiyibu，bicizhijianzhishishiqingkuanghuanjielebale，jiaruzaicike，niyejiubawanliudeyaoqiu，sunrenlijidepuluchuqu，yezongshirangdajiadeguanlianfanhuizuichufenshoudeneiyichanei，shitaduiniyouyicizhangchupaichi。

nixuyaozuodeshi，buliuhenjidebiaoshunidewanliu，jibian niyixieannaibuzhu，danhaiyaolinshijiangyiqiefangzaixinshang。

 lianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni？zaijiaowangzhong，rangzishenzaiyicibawozhudaoquan，rangdajiadeganqingnongduzhizhujiantigao，shitazaiyicishenxiannidexindangzhong，ruguonideqiannanyoudexinliwanquanbeinideyipinyixiaosuoxiyinzhu，dangtadexintaibeinisuohexin，zheicaijiushinimingquetichuwanliudezuijiashijian。