恋爱婚姻之前任也不愿复合90%因为这3点

 qiannanyouyaoxiangyunibianchengpenyou，guanjianshiyouyutamenyaoxianghuanjiezishendexinlifudan。neimelianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaihunyinjiatingdewenzhangba。

 danyoushi，lingyifangxiangyaoyunidangpenyoubingbingbushiyijianhaoshi，zheibiaomingtazaoyinenggouhencongrongdeyingduini，nenggoulixingdekezhizijiduinideqinggan。

dajiadeguanlianzaoyizhujianwending，xianjieduandeqingkuangshitajuedeshushi，erqiebuyuangaibian。

jiexiaqujiushuoyishuo，weihedajiahuimaixiangneiyangdeqingkuang。

第一，大家中间的难题沒有处理

lingyifangguoduanfenshoudeshenhou，huoxugengshiyouyuduiniyiqianzaiqingganlidezhuyaobiaoxiantaixinhanle。

 fenshouyiqian，tayidingjinglizhengtuo，qingxubodongdeqingkuangxia，dannidezhuyaobiaoxianshitakanbujianjianchidaodideshijiyiyi，yinci tafangqile。

 lianaihunyinjiating，jiranxianghelingyifangfuhexing，jiuxuyaozaiwanliuyiqianhaohaodixiangyixiangzishenhelingyifangdenanti，dajiashibushinengchuli。

chulidefangshiyidingshilingyifangnengjiandaode，bukeyijinjinquebaohefuwuchengnuo。

第二，你的节奏感比另一方慢

qinglvzhijianjiaowangshi，jiezouganbuduidengyeshigefeichangdadenanti。

 fenshouhouyeshiyiyangde，zirantaxianmingquetichufenshou，huoxuzaoyiweizijidaguoyimiao，yinci duanzanxingdejiezouganbuduidengyeshinenggoulejiede。

ruguonigentamanbujianglideqingkuangxia，tazaoyigangkaishijingxiaxinsisuodajiazhongjiandenantile。

 zhengyouyu“yimiao”dezuoyong，tazaifenshouhouzhuyaobiaoxiandemeineimananguo，kanqilaiyemeiyoushenmexintai，danniquebushizheiyangde。

 niyizhizaiduanqineineitilehenshucifuhexing，dannideqingkuanghencha，chedimeiyougaohaofuhexingdetiqianzhunbei，tahenlixingdelejienimeiyouzhunbeihao，yekanbujianfuhexingyihoudegaibian，yinci tatiaoxuanzaiciyunidangpenyou。

第三，关联过度处于被动

 genjuzhishangzhuangkuang，xianjieduannideqingkuanghenchuyubeidong，yinci nizhiyoubeilingyifangdaizhuzou，taxianghenizuopengyou，niweilegenghaodiwanliuta，zhushiyanzheta，yinci zhiyoutongyilingyifang，buranjiulianpenyoudoumeiyouzuo。

jiaruniyaodedao zhudaoquan，jiuwubijingenlingyifangdejiezougan，naizhichaoguolingyifang。

zuishaoyaoquebaohelingyifangchuyuyigeduidengdeqingkuang，neiyanghuishitayizhixiangyaoyunixianliao。

 zaiwanliuyiqian，xianhelingyifangdangpenyou，nenggoushitaxuehuifangxiaduinidetifang，zhongjiuxianghushilingyifangshuxideren，xianliaoyehuishihenyukuaide。

 lianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni？keshijiarulingyifangdexintaijinjinxiangheniyizhizuopengyou，neimenijiuxuyaosikaoyixiashinagejieduanchulenanti。