恋爱的法则之如何给伴侣制造危机感?

 lianaidefazeyounaxie？dajiayouhenduoxueshenglaibaokaodeqingkuangxia，dabufengenaimeiduixianghuoshishinanpengyoudeguanlian，douzaoyichediliekai，youyixienaizhijinglilebuduanjiaruheimingdanfuhexingzaijiaruheimingdandequanguocheng。neimelianaidesigejieduanyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideweidaodewenzhangba。

 bufukuadeshuo，xuduo nvhaizaichuliganqingnantideqingkuangxia，jingchangbeixintaisuomihuo，congerzuochuleijiadebulangyundong，zuihouzaocheng ganqingebian。

yibanpengdaozheileizhuangkuang，dajiadoushihuitiyixuesheng，xianfenshou。

 meiyoujingliguofenshouderenhenyoukenengburongyilejie，ruguonijiandaozishenaideren，tadelianxidianhuajiuzainideshoujitongxunlu，tadeshoujiweixinjiuzainidejinqishoujilianxirenli，nikaiqiweixinpengyouquanjiunengjiandaotadedongtaixing，keshiniquebukeyijitamentongdianhua，bukeyifaweixin，bukeyijitamendepengyouquanhuifunaizhiguanzhudeqingkuangxia，neileijuedequeshishifennanao。

 youqishihenduoxueshengdoushiyouguo，xintaishangqudeqingkuangxia，yibuxiaoxinbianhuipogong，lianaidefazeyounaxie？keyishuofenshou，shiyijianbiduanshifayeyaonandeshier。

 jiranzheiyang，dajiaweihehaiyidingyaorangdahuoerfenshouni?shiweilegenghaodiranglingyifangganshou“shiqucaizhidaoaixi”detongchuma?

自然并不是。

yongyouzheileijianjiedenvhai，jingchanghuiganjue，yaoshiyijijifenshou，lingyifangbianhuilaiqiuraohao。danshiji，quetongchangbujuezheiban。

隐匿性分手

 keyibei“fenshou”cijixingdaoqiuraohaodenanshi，yibanjinjinyinnixingfenshou，huanjuhuashuo，lingyifanggenbenjiumeiyouxiangfenshou，yinci pengdaozheileizhuangkuang，ziranhuigankuaihuijiaqiufuhexingle。

病理性分手

 lianaideweidaoyoushenme？erbinglixingfenshou，bianshizheixiezaoyibeizhangqixingdezhengzhi、heguoduosuoyaoqingxujiazhigaodaobenkuidenanhaizi，fenshouzongshirangtamenjuedeqingqingsongsong，youyizhongyuguihaiyangdesuiyi，tamen，shiburongyijijihuijiaqiufuhexingde。

jiranzheiyang，fenshoudeshijiyiyidaodishishenmeni?

fenshouzishenjinjinfangshi，zuihoumudishizhonggoupinpaixingxiang

 shijishang，yiduanqinggandebenghuaisan，bidingsuizhezhepinpaixingxiangdefensui，rutongshangyipianwenzhanglibiantijiguode，liangrenquanshihoutaiguanliqingkuang，yidingshichouechongzhechoue，yaoxiangfujianqinggan，meifaraokaideyigeliucheng，bianshizhonggouzishendexingxiangqizhi。

 ermingquetichu“nijujichulilun”deyingguozhuanjiaxuezhegefumanzaoyishuoguo，yaoquebaoyingzaoyigelixianghuazhengtixingxiang，yigeguanjiandefangshibianshi“shenmihuayanchu，yejiushiyutarenweichiyidingjianju，jinershibierenduiqizaochengyizhongzunchongxinlizhuangtai。”

yinci ，fenshouzishenjinjinfangshi，zuihoudemudi，bianshizhonggounidepinpaixingxiang。

 lianaidesigejieduanfenbieshishenme？jinyouruguonizailingyifangxinzhongzhongdepinpaixingxiangniuqule，tafajuenizaoyibingbushiyiwangdeneirenle，kandaolegennizaiyiqiyihouyougangkaishimeihaoshenghuohexinqinggandeqidaile，qinggan，caikeyibeizaicichuangjian。