恋爱的法则之男人对你冷漠你的这些行为

 lianaidefazeyounaxie？kanjianlianrenyuelaiyueyuan，keniqueshushouwuce，zheileiwuzhuganjianjiandifushilenidelixing，nipashijiantuodeyuezhang，tajiuliniyuezhang。neimelianaidesigejieduanyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideweidaodewenzhangba。

yincinigengxinjidequzhuizhu，ketabujinmeiweinitingliuyueleichi，fandaopaodegengzhangyuan....

 yinci wanhuiganqingshi，juebuyunxujigongjinli，yuejibuzhengqueyueduo，xintaiyuewufadedaocaozong，jieguojingchangshibururenyi，jinyouyongxinquganshou，caikeyiquebaozishendejiezouxing，jiaotashididewanhuiganqing。

neima，zenyangcainengrangzishenbiandemanyidianni?

一、自我反思時间

wanhuibingbushiyijianjigongzuo，zhejishichibushangxishidoufude。

yiner，fenshouhouyidingyaoweizijiyigeziwofansideshijian。

 qingganshangdebuzhengquehenanti，jinguanyishizhijianmeifajiuzheng，lianaidefazeyounaxie？danzuizhongyaodeshiyaobaochiqingxingdilejiedao，jinyouzishenlejielaidaonanti，caikeyibuduanzishenjiuzheng。

 zaizheiduanshijianli，nixuyaozhaodaodajiazhongjiancunzaidebuzu，jiqizishenzishendebugou，zhaodaofenshoudeguanjianyuangu，jinerjiuzhengzishen，xintaidiaozheng，zhongxinqihang。

二、重构時间

 wanhuiganqingkendingshiyichangbenshenzhonggouyuxinliboyidegongjianzhan，zheiyiquanguochengyidingshizhiyongshuangquan、youzhangyouchide，bingfeiyiweidezishenpulu，jiuchanbuqingchixu。

 yinci ，jibian nizaixinji，haiyaogaozhizishen，yaoxiangwanhuita，yidingyaorangzishenzuohaozhunbei，yijijizhong，buranzheiyiqiedouhaowujiazhi。

 lianaideweidaoyoushenme？zaiziwofansiyihou，jiuxuyaozishenzhonggoule，jianyieryan，bianshiyaochuangjianyigequanxinshengjidezishen，dachenjiupinpaixingxiangchanshengdehuaiyinxiang。

tupoziji，shitayanqianyiliang，zaiduxiyinzhuta，shitazaicijieshouyigequanxindeni。

ninengcongwaiguansheji、xingqing、gongzuonenglidengcengmianlaiduizishengengxingaizao，shitaduinilingyanxiangkan。

三、节奏感把控

 yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，bulizhitaitianzhen、quyueqiuraodengkuanrongdadushizuibukequde，youyunvshizaiwanhuiganqingshizuibihuidebianshibaolu，neiyangdekuanrongdadujibian wanhuileganqing，yeshibianyiyipode。

 yinci dajiashuo，zaiwanhuizhongyidingyaorangzishenbiandemanyidian，jinyoubiandemanyidiancaikeyishikeweichizishi，rangjiezouganzhangwozaizishendeshoushang。

 ninengxianhelingyifangcongyibanpengyouxueqi，yihouzaiqiaoranwushengdexianglingyifangzhanxiannidegenggai，dongxiangtashifangchulainidefengcai，dadaoercixiyin，neiyangdejiezouganyongbushangduozhangshijian，nanshengdangranhuihuishoujijiwanhuini。

 lianaidesigejieduanfenbieshishenme？wanhuicongbushiquyueshei，zhishigengxingaizao、xiyinzhu、congtoukaishideyigequanguocheng，zheiyiquanguochengshijibudaode，jinyou“man”caikeyibawowanhuizhudaoquan，nixuehaolemeiyou?