爱是个什么东西?分手挽回，要注意这几点！

 aishishenmeni?wanliubingbushiyijianjianyideshier，wanliudequanguochengzhong，nidexinlizhuangtaizhuanbian，lingyifangdegerenxingwei，yeyouwanliudeguochengdoushihuiduinizaochengweihai，yaobaibudingniyaoxiangwanliudexinxin。neimazaiwanliudequanguochengzhong，yaoliuyibubibeinaxiefangmianweihaini?neimeaishigeshenmedongxini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmedewenzhangba。

确保心理状态

 daduoshujuecekaizhanwanliuderen，xinlizhuangtaiquanshishifenbuwendingde，shifendezheji，yaoxiangxunsujiandaoshijixiaoguo，henbunengjinrijuecewanliu，mingrijiunenghelingyifangpojingzhongyuan，shijishang，tashibutaikenengde。

 wanliubingbushiyitianliangtiandeshier，yebushiyijujijuhuadeshier，tashiyigequanguocheng，yinci yagenwangle。bingqieniyuefazheji，yuefahusiluanxiang，yuefeichangrongyishibai。wanliushijishangconglingyigeshijiaoeryan，jiurutongshiqinggandeyicizhibinghuifu，yihouchuangkouhaodaonayangshuiping，shifouhuifazuo，jiudekanwanliudequanguochengchebuwanquan。

 yinci ruguonijuecewanliudeqingkuangxia，jiuyidingyaofangzhengnidexinlizhuangtai，tizaoweizijidahaoyimiao。aishishenmeni?jiaruniqueshishifendejiaolvqingxu，meiyoubanfajianqingzishendeqingkuangninengrangzishenmangqilai，zhuanyizhuyili，fangzhixinfanyiluan。haikeyitiaoxuanweizijizhuanggexiaojia，chulaisansanxin，dujialvyouyixia，quanshihenfeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

另一方的心态

 wanliudequanguochengzhong，zuifeichangrongyilingrenqingxushikongdebianshi，nijuedezishenzaoyijiejinquanlizaiwanliu，naizhishibuguanbuguqingmiandequqiutade，keshilingyifangdexintaiyiranshifendejueran，naizhishidichuni，duinilengchaorefeng，zheiyixianzaishishihou，nifeichangrongyijuedenaonuhebumanyi，yaobaibudingwanliudexinxin。

 henduorenwanliubuchenggongyeshizaizheiliyidianshang，ganjuelingyifangzhuyaobiaoxiandezheibanwuqing，taneixinyidingzaoyibuaiwole，wohaizaizaiciwanliuyebuguoshizitaomeiqu，huanshijiuzheiyangba。jiarunineiyangxiang，neimejiubudui。

 youyuzainiwanliudeqingkuangxia，lingyifangdexintaishijubei“qizhaxing”de，jinguannirujinzhuyaobiaoxiandehenaita，yaoxiangwanliuzheiyiduanqinggan，keshizhongjiuyiqianniyizhizaizheiyiduanqingganzhongsunhailelingyifang，tayougulv，buxinrennishiyiqiezhengchangde。

 jiranjuecelewanliu，jiububitaiguodequzaihulingyifangdexintai，anzhaoqiadangdewanliuliuchengzou。yebubineimabijiaomingan，ganjuetabuhuinidexinxineirong，huijuenidetaojinhu，bianshiyibuaizhenidezhuyaobiaoxian。hebucongzhiqiangangkaishi，batazuoweixindemubiao，zaiaiyicijiuxing。

心烦意乱

 jinrijitamenfaxinxile，tahaozhangshijiancaihuiyinglewoyiju“wo”，tashifouyagenbuyuanhewofuhexinga?yaoyuetaqukandianying，talijijueranlewo，shifouwodewanliuyagenmeiyouxiwangle?tazaiweixinpengyouquanshaileburenshidenvshengtupian，tashifouxiaishangbierenle，wogaizenmezuo，hainengwanliume?benlaidajiazaoyihenhaola，weishayitifuhexing，tajiubugaoxingle，tadaodishiruhexiangde?

 meirixiangzheimeduonanti，wohaitinilei。lingyifangxiangganshenme，shijishangniyecaibushang，yaoburanyikaishijiuburongyifenshou，jirancaibushangdeshishier，weiheyaohunrizihelijingqucaini?nizhibixuzuozijideshierjiuhaole，xinfanyiluanbingmeiyoushenmehaochu。

给另一方施压

 fenshouhou，zuipubiandebianshijilingyifangshiya，yaobusipilailian，yaobuyouqiuyuqinpenghaoyou，gengjiduanhuadehaihuijixuxuanyongyisixiangbidefangfarangduifanhezishenfuhexing。huoshijinrijiangguodajiao，liangrenzuopengyou，mingriyouqujilingyifangfayixieshushuozhongchangheaiyideduanxiaoxi，ruguonichixudejilingyifangshiyadeqingkuangxia，wanliudehenyoukenengjiuyuexiao。

 aishigeshenmedongxi?yinci qianwanbiejilingyifangshiya，lianaiguanxiyinggaishiqingqingsongsongerqietianmanyukuaide，jiaruchongmanlegongzuoyali，neimalingyifangshinanyizaizijintourujinqude。