爱是个什么东西?在未断联情况下你该如何挽回男朋友？

 aishishenmeni?“jiaoshi，wohenanyoufenshouyihou，tameiyoujiaruheimingdanwo，keshidoubujijigenwolianluo，youshihuichuxianxianliaokeshiyeshifenlengmo，zheileizhuangkuangnengwanliuma?”neimeaishigeshenmedongxini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmedewenzhangba。

neiyangdezhuangkuangzaiwoshoudaodezixunheanlilibian，shishifenduode，bingqiewanliudetongguolvyehengao。

youyuzishendajia2geshijishangshichuyuyigebijiaohaoshijicaozuodeqingkuangxia。nixuyaoliuyide，bianshizenyangbakonghaoguanjiandian。

bujiaruheimingdandezhuangkuang，nenggoushuochenglizhixingquanbufenshouqingjingzhong，zuihaoshidezhengzhaole。

 youyu，jinguantagennishifenningjingdeshuolefenshou，banlilezishendewupin，danzuishao，hailiuyouleyigebicizhijiannenggougoutongjiaoliudefangshi。

zhenduiwanliueryan，goutongjiaoliushijiqiguanjiande。yinci ，bujiaruheimingdan，kendingjiushinijiaoda dejiyu。

danzhongyaojiuqujueyu，nidechulilengmodenanti。

而这类冷漠，能够从2个方面来表述。

01.希望你搞清楚他的要求。

 jiading，yigerengennifenshoule，fenshouyihoubingbuhuijiaruheimingdannidelianxidianhua，zheijiubiaomingtashijishangzaoyizairangniliuzaicilianluodejiyule。

bingqie，feichangdashuipingshangeryan，tashilejienihaowuyiwenhuizailianluota，caihuirangniliuneiyangyigejiyu。

jiufangfomingzhidaonishenyehuitoupaodaotamenjiaqu，tahaipianyaomeiyoubidian，shiyigedadaoli。

但他依然较为冷漠。

 aishishenmeni?shiyouyuyixiexiguanyangchenghuoshixiangchumoshizailingyifanglaikan，shibukeyijienade。tahenyoukenengzaijiaowangdeqingkuangxiajiuzaoyishucimingquetichule，keshi，niyiranmeiyouzuochugenggai，tayeyinerermingquetichufenshou。

ercishi，tayijingdenghounilaigaoqingchuta。

02.迫使自身学会放下你。

zheileiqingkuangxia，tajiuzaoyizaichuansongchuyigejiaoweifengxiandeshujuxinhaole——“woyaorangzishenwanquanwangjini。”

 huanjuhuashuo，taganjuezishenzaizheiliduanqingganzhong，zaoyijiguonixuduo jiyule，keshidajialiangrenhuanshizaiyigeshifenbutaihaodeyuanyoufangshizhongjiaowang。

nantimeiyoubanfachuli，bingqiezaichixufanfubutaihaodeganshou，zheileiqingkuangxia，tahaowuyiwenhuizaochengpijuangan。

 dangyigerenyouyupijuanganfangqinideqingkuangxia，tashijishangxinlizaoyiburongyixiangyibanfenshouneiban，youhenduodanxinhebuduandetihuihexintaile。

 jiaru，zaineiyangdeqingkuangzhong，tadouhaimeijiaruheimingdanni，neimejiudaibiaozhe，taqueshizaoyizaikaolvdaoyaojiangnichedicongzishendeshengmingzhongmochule。

 erwangwangdouhaimeijiaruheimingdan，yeshiyouyutayiranzaizuozuizhongdekaolvdao，keshi，yidankaolvdaoqingxile，yejiudaibiaozhenizaoyimeiyoujiyule。

那麼，假如你如今已经历经沒有被拉黑，都没有获得积极主动回应的情况，你该做些哪些让他和好如初呢?

01.提高本身使用价值。

weiheyishuowanliu，jiuyidinghuishejidaogerenjiazhitigaoni?

 youyu，dangyigerendeziwojiazhiganjiaoqiangdeqingkuangxia，renyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuwanshanziwodechongdong，zhuyaobiaoxianchuxiangshangxiangshandetianxing;

 dangyigerenduizishendedianpingjidishi，tadexinhaoxiangshijiacengbolizuode，yipengjiusui，shifenzaihutarendedianping，nanyiyuxingqingbuyiyangderenjiaowang，changchangyouyuyixiesuoshizaochengfeichangdadefumianqingxu，zuizhongzaocheng wanliubuchenggong。

yinci ，tishengziwoshiyongjiazhishiwanliudejibenliucheng。

02.埋下伏笔交错点。

zhaoxunjiaocuodiandemudi，bianshirangniliangzhongjianzaochengdaliangdehudongjiaoliu，peiyangtaduinideyilaixing。

liru，dajiayiqianyiqiyangguoxiaochongwu，neimazheiyixiaochongwujiukeyibianchengshixiadajialiangrenzuihaoshidejiaocuodian。

jieyouxiaochongwuyinqidehuatitaolun，burongyizaochenglingyifangdejingti，yebuhuiyoutaixianzhudezhenduixing。

 aishigeshenmedongxi?zuizhongyaodeshi，tashidajiayiqianxianghuxianghuzaijianchibuxiedeyijianshi，huihenrongyijiqilingyifangdehaogandu。