什么才算爱？婚姻到最后，拼的是什么？

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 queshi，liangrenzaiyiqi，nenggouruoxianghuxianghuzhijianhuying，xianghuzhijianbangfu，hubanghuzhu，tashizuihaoshi、zuitiexindexiankuang。danshijizhongxuduo fufu，shenghuohuodebingbuhexie，jiatinglengbaoli，xinglengtan，waiyudezhuangkuangshubushengshu。

 hunyinshenghuojuanle，yanle，liangrenjiuburongyizaiyiqihaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，meiyougoutongjiaoliudehunyinshenghuo，xunsubianhuichunanti。qingganzhong，reqingdexiongxingheermengyiguo，chengnianleiyueshengyudebianshiliangzuxiangduixingdelengdan。

shenpangyouneiyangyigegushi。

 nvzhurenwengjiaoxiali(biming)，nianqingdeshihou，shilibacundeyizhihua，dengmenbaifangdingqinderencaipomenkan。doukounianhuadeta，xiaishangcunxideyigenanhai，nanhaizijiazhongbiaozhunyibanhua，babamamashuoxieshenmedoubuyuanyi，ketabuzaiyi，manzhebabamamagenlingyifangchuduixiang，weihunhuaiyun。

 zaineishihou，weichujiadenvhaiyunqishijianhendiurendeshier，weilegenghaodibuxushierchuanchu，tababamamacouheyuanyilezheimenhunyindashi。

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 fufuliangrenqinfen，shenghuofanguoyuehao，shubuzhi，yigenvrenbaquanbudesixu，doufangdaolejiazhong，laogonghexiaohaideshenshang，yagenmeiyoububiyaodesixuqingxizishen，yitiandaowandehuitoutulian，shiguangzaitadelianbuliuyouleyinhen。

renquanshiganxingdongwu，zhujiandelaogongduitadeyulaiyubufangzaixinshang。

 shenmeshiai？laidaosishisuideqingkuangxia，talaogongwaibianyongyounvxing，zhangqibuhuijia，meigeyuezhijibukeduodedeshenghuofeiyong。tayigerenzaijiaxiang，daizhuxiaohai，meiriqingdianzhetianguoshenghuo，zaoshoulezhoubianrendelianmin。

 youxierenkanbuguoqu，quantaliyizaizhaoyigerenjia，tajiushuosishisuilebuyuanxiazheteng;yeyouxierennaizhilijixunchitalaogong，meiyouliangzhi，taqueyizhengyancideshuo，tamendejiawuhuo，bierenguanbuzhe。

 zhaolishuo，rensishisuile，weihehaizuochuxiaohaibanhaiziqidegerenxingwei?guigenjiedi，huanshirenpinwenti。weiren，hunyinshenghuodeyinyangjing。

 dangyigerenbianlexin，huixiayishidezhaogezhonggeyangyuanyinhetuociquyangaizishendebuzhengque，naizhihaibabuzhengqueguijiedaoairendeshenshang，queshilingrenyuanhen。

 kanleneiyangyijuhua：“hunyinshenghuojiuhaoxiangdengshan，lianggerenxiangzhixiangxi、liangshouwojin、xianghuzhijianqianchezhejinshan，zaizhihou，lianggerenxianghuzhijianfuzhechushan。”

hunyinshenghuodeyanluzhong，huipengdaoxuduo meilidejingseheyouxiuderen，danwomenbunengwangjizijideyiwuhezhongren。

 shenmejiaoai？neiyizhihunshu，shiliangrenfuwuchengnuodegangkaishi，suiranzaiyouyanjiangcudechentuoxia，kanqilaipingpingchangchang，danweirenchushibukeyiwangquelechuzhong。hunyinshenghuobingbushishufu，zhishiyizhongyiwudeshengji，yidangangkaishi，shuangfangdouyingdangzhixingzerenheyiwu，bukeyipingpingdandandeshenghuoerzaochengpanbiandexiangfa。

hunyinshenghuodaozuizhong，pindebianshiweiren，weirenzairenheshike，douzhiguanzhongyao。

 qingganbansuizhezuikaishishidefenbugushen，daoshiguangshenxindexiliyihoudepingdanrushui，bicidereqinghuibeilingsuixiaoshidaijin，qiaolibukeyiyouyureqingdejiangdi，erzuochuduihunyinshenghuochuguixingweideshier。

buguanrenshengdaoluchuzaigaofengqihuanshidichaoqi，zhenduiqinggan，yidingyaojianzhenbuyu。

nianqingdeshihou，bubahunyinshenghuodangyihuishi，zhidaonianjidale，shenpangzenmekenengyouyigezhilengzhirederenshouhou?

 shenmecaisuanai？suhuashuodehao，qingshaonianfufulaolaiban。nianqingdeshihouhaohaodihunyinjingying，laidaolaonianrenjieduan，caikeyiganshouhuxiangxiezhu，huxiangzhaogu，huxianggongnuandejijiyiyi。