爱一个人有错吗?分手后摆正自己的位置

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?yibannanshengdetichufenshoushijiaoweilixingde，juedaduoshunanshengbuxiangnvhaiyiyangjiangtichufenshoudangzuoleyijiadebiaozhunfama，zhishilijingshenzhongkaolvyihouzuochudejuece。neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

 jiaruyingduinanpengyouneimelizhiwuqingdetichufenshou，nigaizenmezuocaikeyiwanhuidajiadangshideqinggan?jidahuoeryixiekexueyanjiudewanhuifangshi，qidaiqianliyinyuanyixianqian。

终止一切作的个人行为

 aiyigerenyouduoku,henduonvrenyitingjiantichufenshouzheigecijiulengzhu，jiuhaosimorilailinyibanyaoxiangjinjinbawozhulingyifang，ranglingyifanggenzishenhuannanyugong。keyiquguanzhunanpengyoushihaode，keshidaliangrenshimeiyoulelixingqusipilailian，luandiaofencungan，bulizhixiahaihenyoukenenghuizuochuyixiebulixingdeshier。shijishangzheiquanbudeshierdounenggouguijieweichengyige“zuo”zi。

 zhongzhizheizhongzuodegerenxingwei，chukairanglingyifanggengyanjuan，lingwaihaihuijixurangzishendeshiyongjiazhijiangdi。aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?yinci dangnanpengyoumingquetichutichufenshoudeneiyike，buyaozaicifanta，bubiquchangshitiaozhantadejixian，ruguozhenzoulaidaozheiyibu，wanhuinanduxishuyehuiyuelaiyueshifenda。

忘记自身的投入，摆放盆友的部位

 dangmeinvmenweiqingsuoshanglexuduo deqingkuangxia，yizhiyaoxiangshouyide，yixiewanhuibianshizheileixinlizhuangtai。zheileitouruninengkanzuolisuoyingdang，nenggoudangzuoniaitadeyuanyin，keshiqingbuyaodangzuowanhuideyuanyin。

 bijiaohaodefangfabianshi，wangjizishendetouru，badajiadeguanlianbaifangzaizuihaodepengyoudebuwei，bubiguidingnanshengzuozheiyizuoneige，jinkenengjilingyifangduoyixieshijianyukongjian。

对症治疗作出更改

 aiyigerenyoucuoma?zheishiniyinggaishuhaohaodixiangyixiangdajiafenshoudeyuanyin，shizhishiweishenme，sisuoqingxileyihou，zaiduizhengzhiliaozuochugenggai，dangnanrenjiandaonidegenggaiyihou，zaijiashangduinidefumianxinxiqingxuyezaijianjiandijiangdi，tongchangchongzurangnanpengyouhehaoruchule。