爱一个人有错吗?抓准男人的“需求”

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?zuichutaduinihenhaofeichanghao，quandouyaowoquandouguanzhewo，woyuanbenxingqingjiubutaihao，changchangluannaopiqi，yebuganxiangxinta，keshitayehuihongwo。neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

houbianhuaileyun，yuanyiweiyongyouaiqingdejiejingdajiahuiyulaiyuxingfukuaile，danshijiqueyizhijueqingchoulian。

 wocidiaolegongzuozhong，xiangzaijialishuxinzhidaohaizichusheng，gangkaishibazhongxindianfangdaojiazhongshang，yeyulaiyubijiaomingan，yidantabukeyilijilaijiedianhua，wojiuhuibugaoxing，qingxuqingkuangyebutaihao。

jinguantarengranyijianshiqianyibaishun，keshiwozongganjuetahaibugouaiwo，youshitawangjigenwowanan，wojiuhuishuo：

“weishenmebugenwowanan，shibushinibuaiwole。”

kantahuijialejiarubawupinluandiu，wojiuhuikongzhibuzhuqingxuyoukuyounao：

“woyigerenyunqizaijialihaishoushiwuzifeichangrongyima，nihuilaishenmeshidoubuzuo，jiulejiepingtangzhe，niguanguojiama!”

youshiqueshiganjue，neiyangxialaihaibibushangbuxiangjiehun。

shijianjiule，zhengchaodepinciyulaiyuduo，hetazhongjianyeyulaiyubushanyanci，meiyougoutongjiaoliu。

 zhujiande，tayeyibufalaizaoshanghao、wananhaomeng，yinweiwozhiguanzhuxiaohai，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?buqingchuhetashuodaonaxie，youshi，wohaiyouyizhongtazaoyiliquzheiyixingfudeganjue。

 zhizhishangniannianmodeqingkuangxiatabaofale，buliwo，doubuguanzhuwo，gangkaishigezhonggeyangbumanyiwo，wofahuoyebuhuizaihongwole。

woneishiyeyishidaozishendenanti，jiugangkaishigaibianxianzhuangdexingzi。

houbiantayexiangyaozaiyuwoyiqi，keshicongneiyiciyihoudajiajiuhuiyouxuduo nanti，changchanghuiyouyuyidiansuoshinaodebukaixin。

 chaojiayihoutayeburongyilaiyaowole，woganjuetahenxianzhudefashengbianhua，gangkaishibuguanzhuwo，yijianshifuyansaize，buzaiyiwodeganshou。

 wojitamenjiangqingzheizhongnanti，tajinguanzuibiantongyile，keshixingdongyiranmeiyouzhuanbian，zhizhiqianjiritashuodaotaganjuefeichanglei，taganjuetabuaiwole，xiangzishenyigerenguo。

womengle，buqingchujiexiaquyinggaizenmeban，jibian wozenmedaoqian，zenmejiangzishenhuigai，tayebuyuanhehaoruchu。

yongbianlequanbufangfa，naizhitongdianhuadaotababamamajiazhong，shitaqinrentongyi，jieguorengshibeicankuhuijue。

dajiazaoyijiehunyinianduole，erqieyinweiwokuaiyaoshenghaizile，wogaizenmezuoa，neiyangxialaiwonengbengkuide。

burongyizheiyijiaowangfangfa，zaijiali“shoukushoulei”yebuqizuoyong

专享问题分析：

mumuxiyidubenkuideqingkuangxia，zhaodaoguangsi。

 zaizhangwomamahunyinshenghuozhuangkuang、xianyoudeqingganwentihou，guangsijiaoshizhijieledangdeqiangdiaolemamahunlianwenti：gaoyajiaowang，kaobeishirichangshenghuo，changchangshixiaogoutongjiaoliu，zaocheng fuqiganqingshidiao。

 zaiguangsihemumuxipouxiyihou，rangtaxuehuilepouxinanrenxinli，zhaodaohunlianwenti，tigaolebenshenyouhuoli，fuqiganqingdadatigaole，mumuxihaishuo“juedefanhuilezhangfugangzhuiwodeqingkuangxia”!

shijishang，mamahunlianwentihenxianzhuyefeichangjiandan，xuduo nvxingdoushihuiyouzheizhongnanti：

1、xintaiqianghanzaocheng gaoyajiaowang

 qianghanbingbuzhishirangnanshengweizhunizhuan，zhishizaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhongyizhiyiminglingju、wenzeshideyuyan，ranglingyifangjuedenideyuyanzhongdaizhuzhilingheweibi，bujilingyifangshuo“bu”dejiyu。

shijianjiule，nanshengneixinyouhuajiuhuibiezhu，youqingxujiuhuigenjubiededefangfahuanjie，fuqiganqingdangranjianwen。

xuduo nvxingyaoshuo，weishenmejiehunhoutajiumeineimexihuanwole?

yuanguqujueyuerdian：“nanxingshichangjingzheng”dexiaotui;zhangqixingrichangshenghuozaiyiqidecengciganxiaotui。

 mumuxihunhoumeiyourongruguanliandebianhua，huanshiyitanlianaidefangfalaihunyinjingying，nanshengdangranjiuhuiganjuegongzuoyalibianbianda，youyutafajuejiehunlezhihoubingmeishenmezhuanbian。

2、一边投入一边埋怨

xuduo nvxingzaihunyinshenghuolidequetouruxuduo ，duixiaohai，duigonggongpopo，duizhangfudoushifenjinxinjieli。

 aiyigerenyouduoku,keshiyibiantourudeqingkuangxia，yibianyoushuozishenruhejialeyigeneiyangdenansheng，shashidourangzishenyigerenlai……

 shijishangxuduo nvxingdouhemumuxiyiyanghenxianshu，keshilaogongbuxinhuaiganen，duizishenyebuzuhao，yuangujiuqujueyudahuoerdetourudouyongbuduifangfa。

weihenishifeilibutaohaoderen?weihenidaozuizhongluodishiyige“xutaonvxing”depinpaixingxiang?

 youyunimeiyouzhengqueyindaonanshengcanjia，meiyouzhengqueyindaonanshengrangnishouyi;nanshengzhitingjiannizeguaitadebingbushi，zaitalaikannizuodezheizhongyeyoushijiyiyima?

 guangsijimumuxizhile1zhao，rangmumuxizaiyihouderichangshenghuolineiyanggenzhangfugoutongjiaoliu，zhangfujingrangangkaishijijilanxiajiazhongdejiawu。

3、承认错误方法不善，造成 男性更想逃出

nanhaizishiyizhonghenbixuzishenshineikongjianhezhongshideweishengwu，bingqienanshengtitichufenshouyidingshixialefeichangdadexinxinde。

jiaruzheishiniposhitanaizhibanlitadebabamama、xiaohai，zheizongshijiazhongtaduinideyanfanqingxu，shitagengweixiangtaochuni。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma?youyuzhenduinanshenglaijiang，liyishitaduobidetiaoxuan，ruguoninengbawozhutadexinlizhuangtaiquzuoyixiehuifuguanliandeshi，tadangranjiuhuijijifuhexing。