爱情来的时候,挽回首先要解决价值差异

 aiqinglaideshihou,xuduo nvhaidoushihuigenfalesiliaoshuo，zishenwanhuideqingkuangxia，lingyifangduizishenchedibulicai，naizhiyuewanhui，zishenhelingyifangdeganqingqingkuangyuecha，tayaoxiangfenlichulaideniantouyulaiyujiandingbuyi。neimeaiqingkeyiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqinglaiqiaomendewenzhangba。

 naizhiyixienvhai，huibaneiyangdezhuangkuangguizuiweinanhaiziyititichufenshoujiuchediwuqingle，naizhiyouxierenhuiganjuelingyifangzishenbianshihuaxinnan。

 shijishang，niwanhuibushang，buyidingbianshinanshengduiqinggandejiandingbuyi，yebuyidingshiyouyuhuaxinnan，zhishiyouyunizaiwanhuizhichu，jiumeiyouquzuojunhengshiyongjiazhichabiedeshijicaozuo。

dajiazhongtouzailailvyixia：

nijuedenanyoubuainile，nijuedetiantale，nijuedezheigeshijieheisele。

 wolejienidetihui，yinweiwozhongshinidetihui，danniyedelejie，zaizheileiqingkuangxia，xiaochendeqingxuduiniyidianxiezhuyemeiyou。

bingqie，jiarunizhimiyulingyifangshuoruguobuailebunengziba，nishimeifawanhuide。

 nixuyaogaoqingchuyijianshi——nanyouzaineiyangdezhuangkuangxiashuobuaini，bingbushijinideaiyimeile，zhishiduinideshiyongjiazhihuiyuanchuzhimeile。

他爱着你吗?

爱。

taxiangzaicihenizaiyiqima?

不愿。

你可以挽回他吗?

当然可以。

 aiqinglaideshihou,qinggandeshier，shijishangyoushibuyidingxianggongshijisuandinglvyiyangxunguidaoju，yaobutaiyouxierenshuozheileishiershuobuqingni?

 shijishangbuyidingshishuobuchulai，jinjinbeigaofangbuqingchueryi，wohaizaizuoxuduo xueshengdeanlishi，tamendoushihuishuolingyifanghainengyuwolianluo，shuoshenmedou，weiyoutiqingganbuhao。

想过为何吗?

 lingyifangyunititichufenshou，xianglaibingbushiyouyuyishifahuosuikoushuochu，eryidingshilijingshijiandeleiji，jinjinniyongyuanbuzhidaoeryi。

 youshijinjinnimeiyouchajuechulingyifangderenshou，nijuedelingyifanghenaizheni，shijishangneiyangzaoyizaileijiduinidefumianxinxiqingxule，zhishidangshihaibuhuitichufenshoubale，jinjinnijuedebushangbale。

 jiranshuotichufenshou，liangrenjiaowangbingbushiguojiajiayouxi，lingyifangjiusuanbingbushixiajuexinyeshizuishaolijingyifankaolvdaode，yinci bingbushisanyanliangyu，yirufanzhangjiunengwanhuide，nixuyaorenqingtichufenshoudekeguanshishi。

bukeyihaizongdianjizheyiqiandewangri，tianmei，neiyangniyuexiangyuetongchu，neixinyuefanzaobuan。

 dannikendingshixiangxinjiwanhui，pinlemingdeyaoweilingyifangtouruyiqie，yiqidaolingyifangnenghezishenfuhexing，neiyangdexinlizhuangtaimeiyoucuoba?

jiarumeiyoucuo，neimajieguojinjinnimenzhongjiandejianjuyuezouyueyuan。

youyuniyizhizaigenlingyifangdeqingganxuqiugongzuozhong，danlingyifangdezuaidianbingmeiyouganqingshang，erzaishiyongjiazhichabieshang。

02

youderenbulijieduoyuanhuazenmehuihuihuaiguanlian。

shijishang，dajiachangchangshuodeliangrenzaiyiqiyao“sanguanhe”bianshifeichangjiandandejiazhiganfanying。

danrujindezhuangkuangshi：tagennijiaowangleyiduanshijian，yikaishitayouxinxinqujiejuedajialiangrenzhongjiandeshiyongjiazhichabie。

danrujintafajuewulunzishenzenmenuli，dajiazhongjiandechabieyirancunyou，naizhiyuelaiyueda，tadangranhuilikai。

zheigeshihou，youshiyongjiazhichabieyinqidexinlizhuangtaichabiejiuchuxianle——

taganjueshenxinpibei，niqueganjueshitabuainile，naizhibianxinle。

 yinci，nigangkaishixianglingyifangfaxiezishendeqingxu，huoshiqiqiutabuyaolikai，dantashierbujian，youyuzaitalaikan，niyagenmeiyouyaoxiangchulidajiazhongjiandeshizhinanti。

yinci ，rujintadexintai，dabufenbianshi“haishenaizheni，danmeiyouhuishoudeyuanyin”。

jiaruniyaoxiangrangwanhuishijicaozuowangshunxiangqingkuangqufazhanqushi，neixiabianzhei3jianshi，niyidingbubizuo：

01.持续说爱。

aiqinglaiqiaomen,xuduo rendaowanhuiquanguochengzhong，zonghuichixufanfu“woshizenyangdeaizheni，nibuyaolikaiwo。”

 ziranfangshihenyoukenengbuyiyang，danxingdongdeshizhishibuhuigaibiande。yizhineiyangchixudefanfuhezhuzhongzishenduilingyibandeai，shijishangbingmeishenmeshunxianggongxiao。

 zaizishenbuzuochugenggaideqingkuangxia，zongshiyizhizhuzhongzishenshiduomedeailingyifang，zishenshizenyanglibulelingyifang，zongshitutiantadeyanfangan。

yigeweikongbiniburuderen，youweishenmehuibeiniwanhuini?

02.过多顺从。

 yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangyejingchanghuichuxian，bianshizishenzaiqingganxiufudequanguochengzhong，weilegenghaodijinzaowanhuilingyifang，erdaozhixuduo shier、fenbian、juecenaizhiyuanzewentiexingshijiandouyizhaolingyifangdeyaoqiudabiaoniantoulai。

 zheizaixiufuzhong，shishifenzhimingxingde。youyudajiazishenbianshiyouyujiazhiganqifucaifenlide，neiyangdezuofa，zongshibadajiazhongjiandechabieladeyuelaiyueda。

tazongshiganjue：niguozhenshilibulewode。

aiqingkeyiyou,yidanneiyangdeniantouchengxingle，qingganxiufudesuoyouzhudaoquanyejiudengtongyuzaoyijiaodaolingyifangle。