如何恋爱呢？男朋友劈腿究竟该不该挽回？

 shilianaima？meiyigefenshouzhihouyaoxiangwanhuideren，doucengwei“xinxineirongyaozenmefacaikeyijinzaojiedaolingyifangdehuiying”erjuedefannao。neimeruhelianaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqidailianaidewenzhangba。

youyujiqiannanyoufaxiaoxiqueshizhendehennan。

 yaobulingyifangwanquanmeiyourangnifaxiaoxidejiyu，yuanbenyouyiduzihuayaoxiangshuo，jieguolingyifangyiju“dajiayijingfenshoule，buyaolaidajiaowo”，shilianaima？yijuhuaxiaochuleniquanbudexiangfa，zaojiuzaixinlizuohaodefugaohaibudengtashuojiuzaoyitaiertingyu。

 yaobumeiyouhuiyingnidezhunbei，wulunnizaishuoshenme，tadouyilvcaiyongailibulidexintai，niyaolehenduoyeli，piaopiaosasadefaguohaozhangyiduanhuajitamen，jieguodenglejiritayemeiyouhuiying，xinxininiuruhai。

 yaobuhuiyingnini，keshixintaijiweifuyansaize，lingrenwukenaihe。nihuitashimiaohui，tahuinishixunhuan，huibuhuichedikanqingxu，niyigerenzaineilichiyabakui。

 fenshouzhihou，jiqiannanyoudexinxiyaozenmefa，zhenduiwanhuieryan，youweizhongyao。youyuzhenduihenduoreneryan，xianliaofaxinxikenengshiliangrenzhongjianbaochilianluodeweiyifangfahefangshile。

 jiaruniqidailingyifanghuishou，budanyaowanjiuzheiyiweiyinenggoutongjiaoliudeduihuakuang，yeyaogenjuzheiyiduihuakuangranglingyifangzaiduduinizaochengxiyinzhuhejuannian。

 yinci fenshouzhihou，duanxiaoxiyaozenmefa，heshifa，fashenmeneirongquanshiyoufangfahezhuzhongde。xiabianjiuhedahuoshuoshuo，wanhuishi，zenmefaxinxijiqiannanyou，tacaihuimiaohuinidexinxineirong。

最先、要记牢，你的信息内容一定不可以给另一方导致工作压力，产生搔扰

 fenshouzhihou，nanshenghaipadeshisha?jiushinidebuyiburaoheyuzhanyuyong。yixienvhaifenshouzhihou，zuixianxiangqidewanhuifangfabianshidianhuahesaoraoduanxin，bapingshidejilingyifangfayixiezhiqianrencuodehua，kenqiukuanrong。

 shubuzhi，nanshengyanli，nizheibushiwanhui，shisaorao，niyuanyuanbujuedefasongjitadexinxi，zaitalaikanbianshixintaifeiqiwu，chixushitajuedeyanjuan。

 ruhelianai？    dangyigenanrenjueceyaotichufenshou，sanyanliangyu，yiliangjuzhiqianyagenshiling，fanguolaihaihuijixufanxianghelixingtagennitichufenshouzheiyigerenxingwei。

 mianduinimeiributing，rangrentoutongdexinxihedianhua，taweiyinengzuodebianshijiangnijiaruheimingdanhuoshishandiao，yanbujianxinbufan。yinci ，fenshouzhihou，nifadexinxineirongyidingbukeyizaochenglingyifanggengjinyibudefumianqingxu，jinyouneiyangcaikeyiquebaogoutongjiaoliuduihuakuangshicunyoude。

次之，发的內容要和情感不相干，简洁明了

 fenshouzhihouheqiannanyoutantaoxirilianren，lingyifanghuizhuyaobiaoxiandehendichu，youqishitajuedeliangrenshibushihede，meiyoubanfazaicizouxialai，niyuefahetaliaoxirilianren，tayueganjuenishizaiyuyanbaolita，tahuiduobi，congertiaoxuanbuhuiyingni。

 yinci qiadangdezuofashibuyaoshuoheqingganxiangguandehuatitaolun，liaoyiliaoqitadeshier，fenbiedezhuangkuanghejinqidegenggai，zuihaojijizhudongshunxiangdeneirong，neiyangtayuniliaomeishenmegongzuoyali，yexiangyaohuiyingnidexinxi。

最终，管理自己的要求，不必经常的联络

 fenshouzhihou，qingjinjinjilaodajiarujindeguanlian，jinjinyibanpengyou，eryibanpengyoushiburongyiyitiansangedianhua，meiriqidianbananshihelingyifangshuozaoshanghao，xianliaoliaodewanshangyiliangdiande，qinglvcaihui。

 qidailianai,jingchangdelianluo，zongshiguofendepulunidexuqiugan，zaitameiyouduinichediqingchufumianqingxudezhuangkuangxia，huilijijiangnilaheishanchu。