爱情三十六计:分手后晾着前任这样做

 aiqingsanyuanlilunshizenyang？ruguonihelingyifangxiangzhixiangshi，yiludiediezhuangzhuang，enaichengnuozhongshenshi，niyejiugaigaoqingchufenshoudeshihoudetongchu。neimeaiqingqianguizeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingsanshiliujidewenzhangba。

 yiqianxianghuqinmiwujiandeqinglvpobudeyifenli，sipodetongnengrangnichibutaihao，shuibuzhejue，naohaizhongzhimimanzheyigefuhexingdexiangfa。

suihounibuguyiqiedequwanhui，buduandezhiqianbuduandeziwofansi，nilaiguotamenjiataqiye，yongyiqiebanfaqujianta。

dantazishizhizhongduinidekukuwanliuzhiruowangwen，naizhigenniduanjuelelianluo，jinicongtadequanqiuxiaotui。

“zaizheigequanshijie，wulunwozaihuoduoshaonian，jiejiaoshiduoshaopengyou，woxiangxincongcizhaobuzhelingyigeni”

huoxurujinnidezhengyouzheileitihui，danjiaruniyaoxiangwanliu，jiuyidingyaokanleyixiajigefangmiantiyi：

一、回拉心态调整

fenshoudenitongkubukan，yikaozhuiyiguorizi，meirimeiyedexiwangzhetayouyitiannenghuishou。

danshijishang，tabudanburongyiyouyuneiyangdenihuishou，nizijiyebuzijuedishenxianzheileitongchujianaodexintaizhong。

 jiarunimeifadiaojiehaozishendexintai，neimejiu99%wufamibuniaideta。aiqingsanyuanlilunshizenyang？jiarulingyifangzaoyilaheishanchuleni，neimenihaijidediyibushi：fenshou

 lingyifangwangwanghuishandiaojiaruheimingdanni，shiyouyunidecunyouhegerenxingweijilingyifangdaozhilebijiaoyanzhongdekunhuo，taduijini“sipilailian”he“bubian”deyuce。

 yinerzheigeshihou，rutadechangsuoyuanduandiaolianluo，dajiaobujiuchanbuqing，baituotadeyuce，taduinidexintaicaihuiyouyidingdezhuanhao。

 womingbaiguanlizijibulianxilingyifanghentongchu，youlvhuizhuangmannimeiyigetixibao，yinci zheishihounixuyaoxuehaoqianyizishendezhuanzhuli。

 jiezhezheiduanshijian，xuexipeixunyigechaojijineng、qulvyou、qujieshixinpengyou，jiangnidefumianqingxugenjurijidexingshi，nabijixialai，suihoudiudiaohuoshaohui。

xiangxinziji，jianchibuxieyizhou，niyejiuhuiyouyidingdezhuanhao。

二、整理情感问题

 zuoweibuyuantichufenshoudeyifang，jiarunijiangzhuanzhulifangdaohelingyifangdeqingganjieguoshang，neimenishizhongdouwufamibuqudechenggong。

 youyunideluojisiweihuiyouyunideliuyiyuelaiyuejuxianxing，jinyouruguoniqusisuodajiaweishenmefenshoushi，nidewanliucaisuangangkaishi。

 ruguonizaiwenyixiazijizheigewentishi，nixuyaobaochilianghaodelizhi，zainixinlizhuangtaichongzuwendingdeqingkuangxiakaizhan，zenyangquzhenglini?

 xunzhaoyizhangzhi，yibiyihuaxiechengtatifenkaideliyou，tangruotashuodaonitaizuole，duiyunizuozheiyidian，lieju5jianzhishangdajiazhengzhideexingshijian。

 duiyumeiyigeexingshijianpouxinixinlizuizhenzhengdeniantou，shiyouyuburongyigoutongjiaoliu，huanshiyouyuquefaanquangan，huanshichunsuiganjuenvshengjiuyingdangzuo，nanhaizijiugaikuanrong?

duiyunipouxideniantou，duizhengzhiliao，xuexipeixungenggai。

三、创建恰当的恋爱观

 aiqingsanshiliuji,yigeqiadangdelianaiguan，budannengtisheng nidewanliutongguolv，gengnengtisheng nizheiyishengdexingfukuailegongzuonengli。

buzhengquedelianaiguanbianshixingfulushangdelanluhu，liruxuduo nvshengrenwei，yaoshiwoxintengni，niyejiubuhuilikaiwo。

 zuixian，zaiwomenaiyigerenhuibuzijuedebaquanbudexingfudoujitamen，zheimeiyoucuo，danruguonijuedeniduitahao，tajiubuhuilikaini，jiuhutu。

 youyudajiayexuhuimishangyigeduidajiahaoderen，dandajiajibenshangburongyiyizhishenaizhezheiyiduidajiahaoderen。ganqingkaodeshishiyongjiazhixiyinzhu，jijiushinideshenshangyouyixietexingrangwoyizhiaini。

meiyouxiyinzhudehaozailingyifangyanzhongshisha?shixiguanxing，shigongzuoyali，shibangpiao。

xiguannidehao，tabianhuiwangjileaixi，dangtameifadafunidefeililuo，zheiyiduanqingganduitaeryanbianshigongzuoyalizhongzhongde。

ruguoniyierzaizaiersanshuozhe，woduinineimehao，nibunengxuanzelikaishi，yuyanbaolihuishitaganshoudaotongchu。

 jieguoshisha?jieguoziranshitichufenshou。yinci ，wanliuqianyidingyaochuangjianyigeqiadangdelianaiguan，neiyangnidewanliucaikeyishibeigongban。

 ruguonizhishangsangejibendoubaozhengle，erqiezaiwaimianyineizaidoushiyoulefeichangdadetigao，zheishihouniyejiunenggougenjufangfakaizhanfuchouzhelianmeng4。

 xiangxin，jiandaohaifantianzhuanbiandeni，aiqingqianguize,lingyifangyidingxiangyaoyuniweichigoutongjiaoliu，jiusuantazheishihoudouhaimeifuhexingdeniantou，danshijishang，nizaoyiliqudechenggongwanliuhenjinle。