爱情没有对错,绝情分手后这样做

 aiqingmianqian，fenshouhou，nizuobudaoxuehuifangxiata，yemeifabaozhengwangleta，niyibianmandijitamenfaxinxi，yicicidijitamentongdianhua，kequesuoyouniniuruhai。neimeaiqinglianshangyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingmeiyouduicuodewenzhangba。

bansuizhezheizhongmeiyouhuiyingdexinxineirong，niyegensuiyiqiluorugengdijiandezhaozedizhong，jinibunengziba......

 shijishang，nineiyangzuo，yagenbuhaoxiangzaiwanhuita，zhishizai“weiquqiuquan”zishen，hezishendezhizhezoubuguoqu，neiyangbudanmeifawanhuiganqing，jiulianzizundoushihuiyiqipeijinlai。

wanhuiganqingzuizhongyaodeshijishangbingbingbushi“wanhui”，zhishi“sheqi”，shayisini?

 jianyieryanbianshi，yaogaohao“wuqing”dexinlizhuangtaijibenjianshe，rangzishenjienafenshoudekeguanshishi，lengzangnidexuqiugan，bubirangxintaishangxiazishen，jinyouzheiyixinlizhuangtaidahaola，caikeyibaozhengwanhui。

 yiqian，dajiayouyiweixueshengjiaoxiaodou(biming)，henanpengyoufenshouhou，yizhikongzhibuzhuzishendexintai，zongganjuelingyifanghaihuijixuxiangyuanxianyiyanghaohaoaiziji。

 yinci tabuduankaosunhaizishenweixienanpengyoulaizhaota，yici2cilingyifanghaihuijixujiezhao，nengyongdeduole，lingyifangjiubuxiangxinle。

 yinci，nanhaizijitafaguoyitiaoxinxineirong：“biehuitoule，wobuhuizainishenbianle。”，suihoujiubaxiaodoujiaruheimingdanle。

 ziciyihou，xiaodoumeirikudexianggeleiruyuxiayiyang，buduandizaiwangluoshangzhaowanhuidefangfa，zhizhitajiandaodajiadewenzhangneironghou，jiuganmangdilianluoledajia。

 laoshijianyidizhangwotamendeganqingjinglihou，jiubangxiaodoukaizhanlexinlizhidao，aiqingmianqian，youyuzaixiaodoudelejieli，taqijinmeiyouzhengshizijizaoyifenshoudekeguanshishi。

yinci zaijutizhidaoxiaodouquwanhuidequanguochengzhong，jijinyouyibandeshijian，laoshidouhuixiezhutazhonggouxinlizhuangtai。

youyuwanhuijuebunengjiqieyishi，jiuhaoxianggaiyidonggaoloudasha，jiarulujibuwen，zheilouchizaohuitanta。

 yinci ，laoshijitashangdediyikebianshi：zenyangzhonggouxinlizhuangtai，baozheng“wuqing”lumianduifenshou。neimadaodishizenyangzhonggou，zenyangwuqingdeni?

应对分手缘故

 zaiqingganzhong，liangrenyouyuzhongzhongyuanyin，cushibicibukeyizaicifazhanqushixialaile，cikenizongdanxinlingyifanggududebeiyingyouduomedewuqingshimeiyouyongde，nixuyaozhangwodeshilingyifangwuqingdeyuangu。

 jiurutongxiaodou，tazaifenshouyiqian，taiyikaonanpengyou，bugongzuozhongdoubujiaoyou，bukaizhanshejiaomeitigengtaoyannanpengyouqushejiaomeiti，keneiyangdeqingganjiuhaoxiangyigeqiulao。

danxiaodouquebuneiyangjuede，taxiangyouerrenshijiedejuede，quehulvelenanpengyoudetihui，tashitamenfenshoudeguanjianyuangu。

 aiqingmeiyouduicuo,yikaishilaoshiqiangdiaozheizhongfenshouyuangudeqingkuangxia，xiaodouhainanyijiena，youyutazaoyineiyanghaozhangshijianle，jinguanlejiebutaihao，quecongmeiyouxiangguogaibian。

keshilaoshihuanshiyibubudijutizhidaotabaituojiamenkou，xiancongtihuizheishijiegangkaishi，yidianyididizaitihuizhongmanmangaibian。

对以往“清零”

zaiwanhuizhong，jinyoubaozheng“wuqing”，caikeyijianshaozishenxuqiugan，zheiyejiudaibiaozhenixuyaozhongxinkaishi。

 ranglingyifangrenshini，sheqiyiwangdeyiqie，jiejinquanlidiconglingkaishi，neiyangdexinlizhuangtaicaiburongyirangzishenchenjinzaiyiwangdeguzhili，rangliangrendoufeichanglei。

 xiaodouyeshineiyangzuode，zidagangkaishishizhezouchuquhou，tajiuaishangledujialvyou，gangkaishixiangyoudujialvyoushidailaitadecijixingheqite。

 zheiyerangtazailvyouquanlejielexuduo xindepenyou，jianjiandituozhanlezishendeshejiaoquan，renyeleguanxinxinlexuduo ，sangeyuedeshijian，xiaodouzaoyibianchengleyigequanxinshengjidezishen。

 zuizhong，xiaodouyezailaoshidexiezhuxia，jinanpengyouxieleyifengzhongzixin，zaixinzhongta，taxiexienanpengyourangtadakailezishendedierrensheng，yeduiyiwangdezhuduojiangguohenbaoqian，bingzailvyouzhongjinanpengyoushaoleyijianlipin。

 zhihounanpengyouzongsuanjijijiashanglexiaodoudeshoujiweixin，zhenduixiaodoudegaibiannanpengyouhenshijingya，jianjiandichupengxiatamenyedakailequanxinshengjidetanlianaizhangjie。

 aiqinglianshangyin,nikankan，shijishangwanhuizuijianxindebingbingbushiwanhuizishen，zhishi“xuehuifangxia”，fangxiaguoqudezhuduo，dakaiquanxinshengjidezishen，caikeyizhenshidirangzishenyizuihaoshidequanxinshengjiqingkuang，ranglingyifangzaiduaishangleni!