爱情没有对错,分手后别纠缠

 aiqingmianqian，wojinnian28sui，nanpengyouyuwotongling，womenzaiyiqisannianle，qingganyizhiyilaidouhenhao。neimeaiqinglianshangyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingmeiyouduicuodewenzhangba。

zhizhishangyuehetayongcandeqingkuangxia，tayizhizaidixiatougenrenxianliao，woneishihouganjuekenengshigongzuozhongdeshier，jiumeiguanta。

 yelitaxianzaodeqingkuangxia，woyedakaishoujijiufanlefan，kantazaimangnaxie，suihou，woyekandaotayuyigetongshidexinxineirong。

neirongdayuebianshi，tongshilailijiale，haihenanpengyouzhengchaole，xinqingyumen，yaowonanpengyoudiaokan。

 jinguanzixiguankanmeiyoushenme，keshixiangqitamenguanlianjuranjindaonenggouliao“yuejing”woyeshifennanshou，youyuzheijianshiqing，woduitadexinrenganyetongtongtale。

 congzheiyihou，woyegangkaishiminganduoyi，zonghuixiangqizheijianshiqing，quanburenzhuangshachonglengde，bianshiwangbudiaotamendeweixinliaotianjilu，wuluntagenwobiaoshulejihui，wohaiganjuezishenzaoyizuobudaoxinrenganle。

 rujinneiyangdeqingkuang，yerangnanpengyouhenyougongzuoyali，jichudajiameiridoushihuiyouyuzheizhongshinaodehenbugaoxing，qianyitiantashuodao，dajiarujindeguanlian，guodujinzhangle，henbutaihao，yaoxiangfenlilizhiyiduanshijian。

woneishihouyewanhuile，keshitaquejianchibuxieyaofenshou，woyebuzhidaogaizenmebanle，dajiahainengbianhuiyuanxiandemoyangma?

答：

 qingganchuangjianqilaideguanjianchengshouli，bianshixinrengan，dajiazhongjiandeqinggan，shijishangshimeiyouwentide，guanjianyuangujiushinizaiqingganzhongzaoyiyibuxinrenganlingyifangle。

 yibanyibuxinrengandeyuanguyousanzhong：yi、youyulingyifangyiqiandepanbian，jiniqueshixinrengan。aiqingmianqian，er、yiwangmouleilijingjinihaipaxinrengan。san、jiatingguanxiweihai，meiyouchuangjianxinrenganxiguanxing。

congnidexushuzhongkanlai，buxinrendeguanjianyuangujiushininanpengyouhenvtongshideweixinliaotianjiluyinqide。

 keshi，qizhijieyuanyinshilaiyuanyunibenshendequefazixin，jinjinzheijianshiqingcijixinglaidaoni，jiniganjuezishenshibuzhishenaide，shinizaiqingganzhongshenxianleyigebuzixindewoxuan，daozhileguishuganqueshao。

yinci ，yaoxiangzhongguiyuhao，bibushangrangbicilizhiyiduanshijian，haohaodixiufuyixiaxinlizhuangtai，zhongxinqihang。

xiabianwonengrangniyixiewanhuishangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

理智如理

 nirujindexinlizhuangtai，zaoyichunantile，bibushanghaohaodilizhiyixia，jibian rujinnilaiwanhui，yeyiranhuijiushizhongti，dabukaixindejushi，bibushangfenliyiduanshijian，lizhisisuoyixia。

 haohaodixiangyixiangweihebuxinrenlingyifang，ninengquhejiemeiyiqiqusangexin，lvgeyou，rangzishenfangsongyixia，bubizongkunzaiyigejiaolvbuandexintaili。

提升自我

 shijishang，niyibuxinrengandejuedaduoshuyuangu，quanshilaiyuanyuzishen，nijuedezishenshibuzhibeidonglexin，yinci caihuibuduancaiyininanpengyou，yinci yaoxiangtaguozheiguan，jiuxuyaorangzishenxiufuxinxin。

 aiqingmeiyouduicuo,yigejiankangdeshenti，hepiaoliangdeshenxing，keyitigaodajiadexinxin。ninenggenjuyundongjianshenqugaibianzishen，tigaoziji，rangzishengengweichuse，tishengzishendezichan。

neiyangcaikeyiwanquanjiejue，guishuganqueshaodailainideheiying，caihuixinxinlumianduiyiwang，kaiqixinpianzhang。

 xushushangshuo，lingyifangyaoxianglizhifenliyiduanshijian，neimadengzhenigaibianzishenhou，nenggoutanjiuxingxuexidilianluolingyifang，zhaotatanyitan。

 tanxintanhuaneirong，zuihaoshibubitanjihekaixindeshi，ninengguanjianshuoyixiazishendegaibian，suihoushuoyixiacengjingzijibuxinrendeyuangu，lingtingyixialingyifangdeniantou，haohaodihelingyifangtanyitan。

xianbaguanlianhuanjie，zaiyihoudeshenghuoli，zaihaoquguanzhuyixialingyifang，danshiyizuihaodepengyoudezhenshishenfen。

 youshihou，nenggouzaiweixinpengyouquanfayixie“yixing”，ranglingyifangchiyixiexiaocu，bubiguofenjiuhaole，neiyangguobushangduozhangshijian，lingyifangdangranhuijijixiangniqiuraode。

danzheizhaodeqiantitiaojianshi，dajiazhongjiandeqingganzaoyishengwenle，burandebuchangshie。

 aiqinglianshangyin,qingganzuizhongyaodegouchengbufenbianshixinrengan，xinrengandelaiyuanyuyeshiyouxuduo cengmian，zuizhongyaodebianshibenshendexinrenganchuangjian，jianxinziji，caikeyibaozhengjianxinlingyifang，nixuehaolemeiyou?