爱的理论:这3件事你越懂，前任越离不开你！

 fenshouzhihou，nichangshijitamenduguowanliuxin，renweineiyangjiukeyichudongta，aiderenyeyongguoxiangtarangbuyiqie，renweineiyangjiunengshitahehaoruchu，keyiqiedouwanle，wandaodeqingshen，bicaodouqingjian......neimeaidelingyizhongcunzaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidelilundewenzhangba。

 zhihou，nizaiwangshangxuexilexuduo wanliudefangfa，keneimezhangqi，tayiranmeiyouyisihehaoruchudeyinhen，nandaoshuoqueshimeiyoubanfawanliulemeiyou?

 shijishang，yaoxiangwanliuyiduanqingganfeichangjiandan，jinjinnidefangxiangzhaobudui，wanliuzuizhongyaodeshizhencheng，chunkaofangfashibukeyibangniwanliude。

jinyouxunzhaoqingganzhongde“zhengjie”，duizhengzhiliao，caikeyiyizhenjianxuediwanhuiganqing。

yiqian，dajiaxiezhuguoneiyangyimingxuesheng，tajiaolizi(biming)，zaiqingganzhongyizhimeifajiejinquanlidizijintouru。

jibian nanpengyoufeichangaita，tayezuobudaochedixinrengan，biciqinfenguoyiduanshijianhou，huanshiyitichufenshoubashou。

 kelizixinlishijishangshifeichangailingyifangde，quebuzhidaozenyangbiaoshu，yinci xunzhaodajia，qiuzhu，zhihoucaizhangwodaoyuanxiantashishoujiatingguanxideweihai。

 yincilaoshirangtafenshouleyiduanshijian，bangtaganleyixiliedexinlishudao，tayeyongyoufeichangdadefazhan，zuishaorujinyaoganbiaoshuqingxule。

 lizidexinlizhuangtaiyuangu，shitamenqingganzhongjiaoda denanti，yinci laoshibingmeiyouzaiwanliudefangfashangbangtaxiaduoshaoshijian，zhishizhuyaoquchulizheizhongjutidexinlijiankangwenti。

lijingledabanniandekehoufudao，lizijichuzaoyixuehaoruhequaiyigerenle。

 zhihou，laoshixiezhulizifangancehualeyichangheqiannanyoude“qiaoyu”，lianggerenyuanbenjiumeiyouxuehuifangxiadexianghu，pengmianhoujiuliaolexuduo ，haiyiqichiguofan。

neinanhaizifajueliziqueshifashengbianhuaxuduo ，renyehensuihele，yincibiciyexiufulelianluo。

 yihouliziyegenlingyifangtiaominglezishendexinlihua，hezishendexinlijiankangwenti，youyuzheizhong，nanpengyouyegengxintonglizile，rujindetamen，budanjielehun，yeyoulezishendeganqingjiejingti。

 nikankan，wanliushijishangbianshiyigefaxianwenti，jiejuekunnandequanguocheng，jinyou“duizhengzhiliao”caikeyizhenshidibangnijiuhuganqing。

neimayingdangzenyangduizhengzhiliaoni?

难题自身

 aidelingyizhongcunzai,dangdajiadeganqingchuxianduanbanshi，niyinggaimanxialaihaohaosikaoyixiashinalichuxiannantile，erbushizheganmanghuangdiquwanliu，jibian yunyongfangfawanliule，yejinjinbunenggenchueryi。

 yinci ，ruguoniganjueqingganbuduanbuxialai，huoshiyingduifenshouzhihou，yingdangshizhezhecongbenshenkaolvxunzhaonanti，zheicaisuanshiwanliuzhuyaodediyibu。

解决困难

 xunzhaonantihou，jiuxuyaoxiangbanfaqujiejuekunnan，jiarudajiashiyouyuyixiesuosuifenqi，jiuxuyaoquyanjiuyixiazishenrichangshenghuodexintai，hejiejuenantidexiguanxing，shibushitaiguozishen。

zongeryanzhiquanbufenqishenhoudoushihuiyouyigezuiyagendenantidengniquchuli。

提升自我

aiqingdedingyishijishangbianshixiyinzhu，erxiyinzhudeshizhibianshishiyongjiazhi。

 yinci wulunshijingyingganqing，huanshiwanliu，bixubaozhengtigaoziji，rangzishenbubishizhongyuanditabuzou，wulunshirongmaoshanghuanshibenzhishang，nideshengjiyiyangyehuichanshengganqingdeshengji。

 aidelilun,wanliushiyigezhonghuoxinshenghezishenzhonggoudequanguocheng，fangfashizhongjinjinfuzhu，jinyouzhenxinshiyicaisuanshiwanhuiganqingzuizhongyaode“lingdanmiaoyao”，nixuehaolemeiyou?