爱的理论:抓住前任心理的3个“挽回黄金期”

 zhenduibenshennantilaijiang，aiderentamengengzaihuzenyanglijijianxiaodiwanhuiganqing。neimeaidelingyizhongcunzaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidelilundewenzhangba。

rutongcengjingdewojiandaoguodeyigegushi：

yiweidayeyouyuyaotengerquyiyuanjiancha，tazixunyisheng：“ninkuaidiankuaidiannayaoba，wotaitengle。”

 yishiduiyucishiquebuzheji，tahendandingcongrongdirangdayejienachayan，kanyixiajiujingshinalichulenanti，zaiduizhengzhiliao，kedayequexiandangeshijian，haodaibuyuan，yinciyishizhinengbashou，zhunbeijidayekaijigaoyaotie。

dayeyouwen：“zheiyaogaonengmashangbutengma?”

yishengshuo：“yizhiquanshibixuyigequanguochengde。”

yinci，dayeyilianbuqingyuandishuo：“bukeyimashangzhitong，neibuyongle。”

zheigegushizhongdedaye，jiuhaoxiangzheixiexinjiwanliudenvsheng，zhuiqiuwanmeilijijianxiao，zaoyimeiyoukeguanzheiyidingyile。

yinci ，wanliushimangongxihuo，bubizongdianjizheyibudengtian。

 youyu，fenshouzhihouhuichuxianbuyiyangde3gehuanjie，jinyoujingliguozhei3gehuanjie，caikeyixunzhaowanliudejinziqi，duizhengzhiliao，zhengjiunideaiqing。

抵触期

 zaifenshouzhihou，nanhaiziyibanhuiyou1-2zhoudedichuqi，zheiduanshijiantamenzhenduiyiwangdeqingganshiyanfande，aiderenjiarucikenilaijiuchanbuqing，zongshirangwanliudebuchangshi。

 yinci dajiacaishuo“yusuzebuda”，bingbingbushiyuekuaiwanliu，yuefeichangrongyiwanliude，rutongshangbianxiaogushizhongdedaye，jinyouxunzhaoweishenmeyaotengdefabingyuanyin，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao，quchuzhengjie。

 danxunzhaofabingyuanyin，yeshibixuyiduanshijiande，yinci zheiduanshijianbiezheji，haohaodipingjingxialai，sisuoyixiadajiaweishenmefenshou，weihezongzhengchao，weishenmebukeyishuohuazhidao。

思考期

 renbianshihenguaiyi，yizhizaitichufenshouyiduanshijianhou，caihuixiangqiyaofanshengziji，jiuhaoxianghetarenzhengchao，womenzaiqitoushangshi，congburongyisikao，daliangdeshichize。

erguoyiduanshijianhou，fandaohuigangkaishizhuiyi，bingzaiwanshangqiaoqiaofanshengziji。

 qingganyeshiyiyang，fenliyigeyuehou，lingyifangcaihuigangkaishifanshengziji，danzheiduanshijianyebushiwanliudezuijiashiji，dajiayingdangjiyulingyifangchongzudeshijianqusisuo，fansheng。

neiyang，caikeyinenggougenghaodiranglingyifangjindaoxiayigehuanjie。

怀恋期

 aidelingyizhongcunzai,xiaohuaxishou1-3geyuedeshijianhou，lingyifanghuijindaoyigehuailianqi，zheiduanshijiantadouhuizaiyeshenrenjingdeqingkuangxiaxiangqileni，jiaruzheiduanshijianqiahaopengdaotadedichaoqi，tahaihuijixujinbuzhulaijijilianluoni。

 zheiduanshijianbianshiwanliudedajiaqile，youyutazaoyibayiqianzhuduodouxiaohuaxishoumeile，keyixiangqilaidejiuweiyouniyiqiandehaola，yinci zheiduanshijianninengluoshicuoshiwanliule。

 liru，shengchanzhizaoyixie“qiaoyu”，zaitabiyouzhilushang，shitakanjiannijihui，huoshizaiwangshangpingtaishanggongbuyixiezishendezuixinzhaopianzheixie。

jiarunidezhuanbiangouda，zugoujiqilingyifangdeqiuzhiyu，neimatayidinghuijijilianluoni。

 jibian lingyifangbuzhudonglianluoni，niyenenggouzhaoyigetuoci，jijilianluolingyifang，liru，zhaolingyifangbanggemang，huoqinggongtonghaoyoubangzhuzheixie。

 yinci ，zhenduiwanliu，shizhejichibushangxishidoufude，jinyouzhangwolingyifangfenshouzhihoudexinlizhuangtailutu，caikeyixunzhaowanliudedajiaqi。

aidelilun,erqiejinyouyibuyigejiaoyindiquzhaofabingyuanyin，caikeyizhenshidiliaoxiaoxianzhu，nixuehaolemeiyou?