爱的光，挽回不顺利，究竟哪里出错了？

 aideguang,zuorijiedaofensixinjian，shuozishenganjuewoyiqianzaiwenzhangneironglitijide【qidaizhiguanlifangfa】zheiyidingyihenhao，zishenyezaineimezuo，keshiweihejieguohuanshiwanhuibushang?neimeaideganjueyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidehanyidewenzhangba。

 zhihouzaixiangjinxianliaodequanguochengzhong，wofaxianleyixiexueshengzhendui【qidaizhiguanlifangfa】zheiyijianshier，shicunyouwuhuide。erzheiyiwuhui，ganghaojiushiniwanhuibuchenggongdeyuangu。

实际上，私聊和点赞跟我说期待管理方法的人，确实有很多。

 meiyicizaiwobiaoshuwan，erqiejianyipouxileyinggaizenmezuoyihou，wenwodenanrenyaoshuoyiju“yuanlaizheiban”，keshizuodeqingkuangxiafajuechedibingbushineimahuishi。

yinci，youpaohuijiagenwoshuo：“weihewobuganxinni?shifouzheiyifangshibuyiwo?”

wochengren，yixiefangshibingbingbushinenggoujianrongrenheren，keshi，zuishaozheizhongfangshiquanshiyoushijicaozuoshineikongjiande。

youderenganjuezuoqilaibingbushineimahuishi，henyoukenengshishizhinantidouhaimeinongqingchu。

 jiunaqidaiguanlifangfaeryan，wojingchangyaoshuoweizijideqidailiuyidiankongjian，bubirangzishenxiangxiangdetaiman。baqiwangzhidiaodi，zaijieguochengxiandeqingkuangxia，nidoushihuishixiyuede。

zheijiushifeichangjiandande“qidaiguanlifangfa”deshijicaozuofangfa。

keshiyouxierenganjuebushihedeyuanyinshishenmeni?

zuishizhidenanti，bianshinizuoqidaiguanlifangfadeqingkuangxia，zhiliyudeshiqidaiguanlifangfazishen，huanshibiededeshierni?

 wojingchangfajue，yixieshoutuorenzaizuoqidaiguanlifangfadeqingkuangxia，guanxindebingbingbushizenyangjianshaozishendeqidaizhi，zhishihuizaochengyizhong“wozuoleqidaiguanlifangfa，womendeguanxijiuyidinghuibianhao”dexiangfa。

实际上，这不就早已踏踏实实的方向跑偏了没有?

aidehanyiyounaxieni？shijishang，qidaiguanlifangfazheiyidingyi，aideguang,yunidexinlizhuangtaishilijiguagoude。

 ruguonizaizuochuyijianshiqingdeqingkuangxia，yizhihuixiayishidequzhuiqiuwanmeishouyi，youyuwotourule，yinci ganjueniyouyidingdeshouyiyeshilisuoyingdangde。

 shubuzhi，qingganjihudoubingbushineimayihuishier，youdeqingkuangxiajiusuannishidadongtiandadongdi，keshiquefenhaobukeyichudonglingyifang。

yaolejie，congtadejiaoduguancha，tabingbuqiannishenme，gengmeiyoubixuweilegenghaodikaolvdaonidetihuierzuochutiaoxuan。

yeyoubianshi，zaiwanhuidequanguochengzhong，yidingbubichangshiyixiezhaoshuquranglingyifangganjuenikeling，huoshilinglingyifangyourouguaduan。

为何?

 shijishangnizijixinzhongyoushu，lingyifanghenyoukenengduiniyourouguaduanyici，2ci，sancinaizhihenshuci，keshidouhuiyouyitianninengjiangtadexixinxiaomodaijin。

zheileifangshidewanhui，yeshibixuchuangjianzailianggerenyidingdeganqingjichushangde，dantayekenengtunshidajiazhongjiandeqinggan。

 lingyifanghaiaini，yinci caihuiduiniyourouguaduan，ketaruguobuainile，nidezheizhonggerenxingweijiuzhihuishitagengweiyanjuanni。

wosulairenweidewanhuifangfa，bianshi“zhikanzhongyao”。

aideganjueyoushenme？quwajuelingyifangdeshizhiyaoqiudianhexintaidian，caisuanshiniyizhizaiwanhuizhongnenggouhaohaodiyunyongdeyinsu。