aideguang,benlaixinxinmanman,keyidantaruwanhuilumianshang,queyizaicuobai。zheiyidingjiushinixinlingshenchudehuhan。neimeaideganjueyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidehanyidewenzhangba。
jibian duinilaishuo,nisuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqudeyiqie,douchengxinshizu,danluozaitadeyanli,queshibubujinbi,poshitazuochurangbu。
taqidaizou,niqidailiu,zaiyikaishi,dajiadeyishibianshiyouyidingdemaodunde,yinci wulunnizhuyaobiaoxianchuruhedechengxin,dandoubushitaqidaide,naizhihetaxinlisuogandechedifanguolai,tayouzenmekenengyuanyinilei?
wanhuihennan,jiushinizhuyaobiaoxianchuqudefuhexingchongdong,shitashengangongzuoyali,tazhidianjizhetaochuhebikai。ruocishiniyaoguannianbushangtapaichideyuangu,naizhihuidanchunxingdeganjue,nidechengxinmeifachudongta,yincisipilailian,pinlemingwanhui,danzuihouyezhiyoujiakuaidajiaguanliandeliekai。
xiangwanhuiqiannanyou,jiuxuyaojiangdilingyifangdepaichixinlizhuangtai。ziran,zheijiudaibiaozhenixuyaoshaopuluwanhuiyaoqiu,aideguang,nisuozhuyaobiaoxianchudexuqiuganyueshao,taduinidepaichiyeyuedi。
danshi,nishibushixiangguo,jibian jiangdipaichi,danshiduoshaohuanshiyoudeni?zheijiuxiangyaonihuangefangshi,hetazuodaoqinggangongming。nulizuodaozheiyidian,jiuxuyaojiyulingyifang:chongzudelejie。
1.给与了解,提升共鸣点
nimeilejieta、tichuzhiyita→tapaichini
nijiangdiyaoqiu,yibutichuzhiyi→taxiufuningjing
nijiyulejie→tajianshaofangyuli,naizhijijiqinmijiechuni
dabufen,zaiwanhuideqianchezhanzhong,dajiadeguanlianjiuzheiyangde,zheibingbingbushidanchunxingdeyigeanliuyongdongdequanguocheng,zhishinijiyutahuanjiedexintai,tabianhuirangnifeikuandexintai。
erruguonigangkaishizishenzhengli,jiyuyouxiaodebiaoshu,lingwaizaigentadelunshuzhong,biaoshuchuduitadelejie,taduinidexintailikebianhuibuyiyang。
nanshizuibixudebianshinidelejie,dangtamingbainizaoyigaoqingchuta、lejietashi,tashiduoshaodoushihuibianruanchulai。
nanshizuibixudebianshinidelejie,dangtamingbainizaoyigaoqingchuta、lejietashi,tashiduoshaodoushihuibianruanchulai。dannizheileiziwofanshengheshiya,queshifeichangjiandande,nengrangdajiazhongjianfenqikuaisujianshaodefangfa。
2.心态正确引导
zishenshiya,youxiaodebiaoshu,nengshitajiaoda shuipingdexuehuifangxiafangbeixinlizhuangtai。danzaitadexinlingshenchu,yezhirangdajiazhongjiandeguanlianzaicizhongguipenyoudeguanlian。zhongjiu,shangyiduanganqingjiaojitadeheiying,bingweichedijiejue,ruozaizheishihounijuedezheijiushifuhexingdezuijiashiji,bingerweifuzhushijian,neizhihuirangdajiadeguanlianzaidumaixiangbingdu。
zheigeshihou,haibingbushimingquetichufuhexingdeshidujihui。rujindetabupaichini,buyiweizhejiuburongyipaichidajiadeganqing,taxiangdeshilinshizheiban,buyuanyoubiedezhuanbian。
aidehanyiyounaxieni?zheijiubixugenjunidexintaishangdezhengqueyindao,shidudeqingkuangxiajiyuanshizhe。ziran,zheijiukanzhenidegongzuonengli,jirantabupaichiyunidegoutongjiaoliu,neimejiuzaizheigeshangbianhenxiagongfu。
zhaotaxiaidehuatitaolun,goujianqingqingsongsongdeqifen,shitaxiaishangneiyangdeqifen,dajiadeguanliancaihuihuodexunsushengji。
3.暖味升級
dangdajiadeguanlianhuodehuanjie,jiuxuyaokaolvdaozhaojihuirangxianghudeguanlianshengji。
ziran,zhijieshuofuhexing,henyoukenenghuirangxianghudangzhongchuchou。cikejiubixurangdajiazhongjiandenuanweishengji,jinguanliaodaohao,danzhongjiuhuanshiyaotaruneiyibude。
zenyanghuodetishengni?youwangshangdaoxianxiatuiguang,xianshangxiachengxiannidegenggai,zhuyaobiaoxiannidefengcai,yongxiaoshouhuashuheshidudechupengheqinmijiechu,goujiannuanweiqifen,rangxianghudeguanlianshengji,bianshizuihaoshidefangfa。
zheiyangyilai,jiuxiangyaoniyouyidingdegenggai,yichengbubianzhihuirangnanshijuedekuzaofawei,danqudejinbuhegenggai,shikeweichishenmigan,bianhuishitayoubuyiyangdeganshou。erruguoniderenqizhichixutigao,niyehuifajuetademuguanghuiyizhizhuisuizheni。
aideganjueyoushenme?tishengnuanwei,shengjixianghudeguanlian,yagenhuanshiqujueyunidegenggai,weiyouniyuelaiyuegengchuse,caikeyirangnanshixiangyaozainideshenshangxiangmutouzi,rangnidaliangdeguanxin,rangnigengjiashenrudeganqing。
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