爱的光，分手后别纠缠做好这些

 aideguang,guoquzhengchao，tajihudoushihuirangzheni，cicitabujinbushiruo，haiyigejingerdigonghuo，niyiqizhixiajiujiangguotichufenshou，suihoujiazhuangbuzaihudemoyang，shanchuletadeshoujiweixin。neimeaideganjueyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidehanyidewenzhangba。

 benrenwei，tayiranhuixiangyuanxianyiyangmashanglaihongren，kedouhaojitianle，tahuanshiyidianshengxiangyemeiyou，nizheicaigangkaishihuangle.......

 shijishang，henduorendouyudaoguozheizhongleidetichufenshou，zaiqingxujidongdeqingkuangxia，yinhenqierzaochengdejiduanhuatichufenshou，bianshidianxingxingdejiaxingfenshou。

 danzheizhongtichufenshoushifeichanghaowanhuide，jinjinhenduorencuobajiaxingfenshoudangzuolezhenxingfenshoulaijiejue，yinci caicuoguozuihaowanhuijihui。

 yiqian，dajiayouyiweixueshengjiaomiaomiao(biming)，tagangdaozhaodajiashi，bianshiyouyucuobayinnixingzhendexinglaijiejue，jieguoyuegaoyuezao，zuizhongnongbianchengzhenxingfenshou。

 shijishangmiaomiaodetichufenshoushifeichanghaowanhuide，yuanyinquanshiyixieshenghuozhongsuosui，jieguoyouyuouqitajuranbananpengyoushandiao，zheixiananpengyouwanquanbuzhaotale，tacaigangkaishihuangle。

 miaomiaoxingqingshiyixiejiaozongde，danyaoshidikuaitousagejiao，tananpengyouyidinghuilikepaoguolaihetashiruo，ketapianyaotiaoxuanlezuijiduanhuadefangfaqujiejue。

 zhihou，laoshijutizhidaomiaomiao，zaiwangluoshangjinanpengyoumailaijianlipin，jisongzhitamenjia，laoshishuo：“lipinshoudaole，lingyifangyidinghuilianluoni，neishihouniyejiumaochongshuojicuole。”

miaomiaoyikaishibulijie，danhuanshirenhuoyibeizile，guozhenwupinjiedaohou，aideguang,nanpengyoulikelianluolemiaomiao。

 miaomiaoshuozishenjicuole，jiezhe，nanpengyoubianshuojitasongdao，miaomiaozheicaidonglelaoshidehanyi，suihouhaohaodishuxidabanleyifan。

laoshirangmiaomiaopengmianhou，shuozheiyuanbenbianshizengjitadelipin，suihouxianglingyifangsagejiao，daogeqian。

guozhen，cicipengmianhou，tamenjiufuhexingchenggongle。

shijishang，xuduo lianrendouxiangmiaomiaoyiyang，douhuipengdaoyixiefenqi，jieguoqueyouyuyishijiaozong，balianrenjinongdiule。

 zheileitichufenshoushizuiyihande，benlaihaiai，queyouyuxianghuguzhiercuoguoyuanfen，yigerenweiburongyizou，yigerenweihuiwanhui。

dan，zheibingbuyiweizhebukeyiwanhui，jiaxingfenshoujiejuewentuo，shizuihaoshiwanhuide，neima，jiaxingfenshougairuhechulini?

正确认识提出分手种类

 zaifenshouzhihou，zuihaoshibubishuahuazhao，zuixianyingdangfenqingxizishendetichufenshouzhonglei，bubixiangshangbianshiliyiyang，buzhengquedechulifangfa，huiwuduanzengjiawanhuinanduxishu。

 yinci fenshouzhihou，yingdangbaochilengjing，jiarudajiaxianghuyouwuhui，huoshiyinyishichongdongertichufenshoude，neimabianshijiaxingfenshou。

jiarudajiashixianghulijingshenzhongkaolvxianghuzhijianyongxinjiangchudetichufenshou，neimabianshizhenxingfenshou。

自我反思

aidehanyiyounaxieni？jiaxingfenshou，zuibihuidebianshizhangqihelingyifangfenshou。

 yinci ，fenshouzhihoujiaruhaiailingyifang，yingdanglikerangzishenpingjingxialai，keguanxingdipouxiyixiadajiaqingganzhongdenanti，nibenshendenanti，xiangqingxiruguobujiuzhengzishen，duidajiazhihouhuiyounaxieweihai。

 jiarunijuede，daogeqianjiunenghehao，ermeiqugaoduzhongshinantizishen，neimafuhexingzhihou，yeyiranhuiyicuozaicuo，fenqiyuelaiyueda，yehuibianweizhenxingfenshou。

积极示弱

 jiaxingfenshou，shijishangyaoshichengxindixianglingyifangdaogeqian，jichudounenggoufuhexing，ninengxiangshilizhongdemiaomiaoyiyang，zhaoyigetuocibalingyifangyuechuqu。

zhongjiupengmiansanfenqing，zaihelingyifangtiaomingyixiezishendenanti，jianxinlingyifangyidinghuikuanrongnide。

 yinci ，zaifenshouzhihoububizongbabuzhengquedouguizuidaolingyifangdeshenshang，qingganshibicide，meiyigerendoushiyoucuowudediqu，jinyouyanchuanshenjiaole，caikeyizhengqueyindaolingyifangqufanshengziji。

 aideganjueyoushenme？jiaxingfenshou，jinguanfeichangrongyiwanhui，dantangruonijiangtichufenshoudangzuofangshi，meiquyongxinjingyingganqing，neimajibian zaihaodeaiqing，yehuilangfeichengzhenxingfenshou。