恋爱理论：挽回男友这3点行为堪称“毒药”！

 lianaimoheqiyounaxie？fenshoudeqingkuangxia，jinguanhenduorenzuibianchengqiang，keshixinlingshenchuhuanshihenbushedesheqizheiyiduanganqingde。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

 meirenganshuofenshouhou，jiuqueshiwusuoweile，yidiandoubuyuanlingyifang，doumeiyoufenhaolianlianbushe，gaogaoxingxingguoqilemeihaoshenghuo，99%derenhuanshixiangfuhexing。

 keshifuhexingbingbuzhishishuoshuoeryi，haibixucaiyongqiadangdefangshi。xiangfuhexingderenxuduo ，zuihouzhenshiwanchengfuhexingderenquefeichangshao，zheishiyouyuxuduo rendaowanhuidequanguochengzhong，yongbuduifangfa。

xiabianzhei3zhonggerenxingwei，chengdeshangwanhuiquanguochengzhongde“manxingduyao”，shei“fushi”shei“zhongdule”。

1、表述三连

tanqiwanhui，henduorenxiangdequanshilikehelingyifangbiaoshu，zhiqian，jiechuwujie。

neimezuodeyuangushiyouyuyiqianliangrennaofenshoushi，yaoshineiyangzuolikejiunengjiejuekunnan，hehaoruchu。

 keshinvhainiyaoguomeiyou，yiqiandajiazhongjianjinjinyinnixingfenshou，rujinbianchenglebinglixingfenshou。lianaimoheqiyounaxie？nibiaoshuzaiduo，yemeifaranglingyifanghehaoruchu。

 youyuxuduo qingkuangxia，daozhiliangrenfenshoudezhenshiyuangubingbushitafenshoushibiaoshidezheixie，fenshoushibaofadefenqihenanti，jinjinyasiluotuodezuizhongyigendaocao。

 zheigeshihounipinlemingsuihoufenshouqingkuangxiadenantizuobiaoshu，tayagenbuxiangting，fandaohuiganjuezishenshizaikanrenao。youyutazhidaodajiazhongjiandezhenshiyuanyinshishenme，yinci nibiaoshudeyueda，tayueduinijuedexinhan。

2、一味的服务承诺

“wonenggai，yidinghuigai，nixiangxinzijizenmeyang?”

 henduorenweilegenghaodinengwanhuilingyifang，huichixudejilingyifangquebaohefuwuchengnuo：wozhihouzaiyebuzuole，zaiyebuchaxunnideshouji，zaiyebumanbujianglile，congcibuheqitananhaiziaimeibuqingle。

 shijishang，niwulunnijuedededuomededezhenxinshiyi，zaitayanzhongheshihouzhugemeishenmechabie。youyunizaoyishuoguotaishucile，tayejileniyicicidejiyujiuzheng，keshinijihudoujinjinshuoshuoeryi。

 dangyigerenzaoyiwanquanxinhanle，fuwuchengnuohechengnuoshuodezaichaohaoting，yemeifachudongta。nizaoyihuihuailetaduinidexinrengan，guangshuobuzuojiabashi，meiyoukandeqingdegenggai，tayagenburongyizaiduxinrenganni。

3、不愿意认可分手客观事实

 lianaililunyounaxieni？zonghuiyouyixienvhai，zailingyifangzaoyizhuyaobiaoxianchufeifenshoubunengzhihou，haibuyuanyirenkekeguanshishi，zaicidanfangyinvyoudezhenshishenfenhelingyifangjiaowang，zaocheng zuizhongbeilaheishanchu，wanquansangshiwanhuigailvdezhuangkuang。

 benlaizaoyifenshoule，haizaiciyinvyoudezhenshishenfenquguanzhulingyifang，meirijilingyifangfaxinxi，tongdianhuachaqin，ganyulingyifangderichangshenghuohesuiyi。

 yaolejie，fenshouqianqi，lingyifangchuzaiyigejielixiangjiejuenideqingkuang，taxiwangnishixiang，jitamensuiyi，bubihetatantaoyiqieyuganqingxiangguandehuatitaolun。

 zaizheileixinlizhuangtaixia，nijiarusisidejiuchanbuqing，qiangzhishitazaiciliudaoyunideganqingenyuanzhong，zongshishitayulaiyudichuni，niduitaeryan，fangfoyigeheiyingyiyang，meifajiejue。

 shijishang，hekugushouzhenvyouzheiyizhenshishenfenmeifang，conghuiyidian，fenshouhou，jinzaojianshaotaduinidefumianqingxucaisuanshizuizhongyaode。

fenshouzhihou，wulunnishizhunbeilijisheqihuanshizaiciwanhui，douyingdangpingjingxialai，jixianghuyiduanshijianqusisuo。

 lianaileixingshishenmeni？zheiyiduanganqingduinilaijiangshiyigenaxiedecunyou?guoqudejiaowangzhong，wocunzaizheixienanti，dajiazhongjiancunyouzheixienanti?zheizhongbixujingxialaihaohaodilvyilv。mangmugenfengdexingdong，zongshizaibuzhengquedelumianshangyuelaiyueyuan。