什么样的爱?分手后，其实是在暗示你

 shenmeyangdeai?meiyigerendouqidaituranxindongdeqingkuangxia，lingyifangshiyichengxiangdaide，meiyouyiqiedemengpian。keshizheijinjinyizhongxingfudexiwangeryi，xiangbizhijiedebiaoshu，dajiagengxihuanwanzhuandebiaoshuqinggan。neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshizhenaidewenzhangba。

 changchangyounanrengankai：nvrenxin，haidizhen，fannaoyubulejienvrenjiujingzaixiangganshenme?zenmehuiyouneiyangderenzhinenglini?neishiyouyunvrenyibandoujiaoweilixing，xiaiyiqiyongshi，zhideyitideshi，weilegenghaodixianshixinxinvrendemiantian，changchangshuoyixiefanhua，rangnanrenyitouwushui。

 nandaoshuojinyounvrenxin，caisuanshihaidizhenma?buyidingshineiyang，nanrenjinguankeguan，keshibingbuyiweizhetamenhuizhenzhengdebiaoshuzishendeyixiang，burongyimanbao，burongyigaoshenmi。

1、大家已经分手了

 zhendui90%dereneryan，fenshouzhihou，caiyongdewanhuiduicequanshicuode。lirujingchangdetongdianhua，shenmeyangdeai?faxinxi，sipilailian，naizhishijinzhuibushe，yeyougengjiduanhuadenaizhiyisixiangbi。

 keshininengfajueneiyangdefangfabingmeiyouhuandelingyifangdehuishou，zhishijianglingyifangtuidegengzhangyuan，lixingyidiandehuiduinishuo“dajiayijingfenshoule，buyaolaidajiaowo”，bijiaoyanzhongxiede，zehuijiangnijiaruheimingdan，gengweidedichunidechuxian。

 xuduo nvrenzaiwanhuideqingkuangxia，yitingqiannanyoushuo“dajiayijingfenshoule”zheijuhuajiushifendetongchu，juedelingyifangzaiyebubizishenle，yaobubianshidujidenaonu，zenmekeyishuofenshoujiufenshou，suihouqingxushikongxiazuochugengweibunengwanhuideshier。

 ruguonijuedenanrenshuozheijuhua，shiwanquanbuaidebiaodadehua，neinijiubudui，zheijuhuashenhoudehanyishijishangshi：dajiarujinzaoyibingbushilianrenle，buyaolaiyaowo，rangzijixianyigerenqingjingyiduanshijian，xianzaiwoduinihenshengqi，linshibuyuanjianniyimian。

 nanrenzhuzhongfenshoudekeguanshishi，bianshiweilegenghaodijiejuenidejiuchanbuqing。cike，qiadangdewanhuifangshibianshijienafenshoudekeguanshishi，jixianghuyiduanshijianlizhi，huanjiedajiazhongjiandefenqi，erbushizaicisipilailian，youkuyounao。

2、你之前不是这样的

 shenmeshizhenai?“nizhiqianbushizheiyangde，rujinruhebianchengleneiyang?”zheijuhuashifouyouqideershu，yiduanqingganxiuchengzhengguo，xianghujianjingchangdezhengzhi，huxiangbumanyihechize，naizhishifenshou，neiyangdehuabianhuicongnanrenkouzhongshuochulai。

 ernvrenzaitingjiannanrenzheijuhuadeqingkuangxia，zuikaishixiangqidebianshi“zheiyinanrenyiqingbielianle，tazaoyibuaiwole”neiyangyixiezhuangkuang。keshishishishang，nanrenyaoxiangbiaoshudeshi：“nibianle，meiyouzhiqianneimawenroule，meiyouzhiqianneimapiaoliangle，zaoyibingbushiwoxihuandeneirenle”。

 nvrenzhijiandaonanrende“lanqing”，keshibingmeiyoujiandaozaizishendeshenshangchanshengdekeguanshishi。nandaoshuonanrenzhendeshikongkoushuobaihuama?buyiding。nixiangyixiang，dajiabujiuzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，waichuyouhui，ninengyongxindaban，xuanzepiaoliangyifu，zhongshishenxingde，keshirujin，niyuelaiyuezimingqinggao，shenxingzouxing。

 lianaideqingkuangxia，nixingzifeichanghao，jianghuawenrou，muguanglimanshiduitadeqinpei。keshirujinniqingxubuwending，yidiandexiaoshierdoushihuijinidanaopiqi，niyibuqinpeita，yibuweitajuedezihao，nijuedetabuqizuoyong，yizhizeguaitazheixie。nanrenquanshiganxingdongwu，lingwaiyeshiaimuxurongbaomandexiaodongwu。

 renquanshichongjingmeihaoshiwude，，jiarunimeizuoyiqiedegenggai，shimeiyoubanfawanhuilingyifangde。ruguonizaicizhongguixingfu，nidezhuanbiannanrenkanzaiyanzhong，neimatayidinghuihouhuimojiyunifenshou。dangtazaicibeinixiyinzhudeqingkuangxia，bianshinizaiciqianghuizheiyiduanqingganzhudongquandeqingkuangxia。

3、近期忙吗

 zheijuhuashifouhenershu，dangshitacaigangkaishizhuiqiunideqingkuangxia，changchangyuenixianliaoshuodeshuzuiduodebianshizheijuhua。ruguonigenggaizaoyizuochulegenggai，yuelaiyuezaicichongmanleyouhuolideqingkuangxia，nanrenzheijuhuajiubujinshijianyidewenhaole。

 zaiwanhuidequanguochengzhong，dajiazhongjianzaoyiduguolezuikaishidelengzangqi，zaicixiufulelianluodeqingkuangxia，nanrenzheijiuhuadehanyishijishangbianshizaianshizheni，taduinizaiciyongyouhaogandu，yaoxiangyunijinyibufazhanqushi。

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai?zheigeshihou，nixuyaodezuodebianshiyipenyoudezhenshishenfenhelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，jiyulingyifangjijizhudongdedafu，shidangdekaizhanyixieanshizhe，tishengtaduinidexiai，neimawanhuijinjinzaozhongwandeshier。