什么才算爱?想挽回前任？当然要用这几招！

 shenmeshiai?lijingjihuishizhe，danwuyidouyibuchenggongerjieshu，nigangkaishiweishouweijiao。neimeshenmecaisuanai?aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

xinliyouyidingdeyaobaibuding，yezongsuanyishidaozheiyidian：yuanxian，wanliumeiyouxiangxiangzhongdeneiyangjianyi。

 xiangwanhuiqianren，zhaodaoyuanxiandexingfu，queshimeixiangxiangzhongzheimejiandan。danshi，zheijianshiqingyeyuanmeiyounixiangxiangzhongneimajiannan，wangwangninengshenshoucuobai，zhijieyuanyinqujueyuzaifenshoudeqianqi，taduiniyirancunyoupaichixinlizhuangtai，dannidegousicuoluan，qingkuangyebuyiwanliu，feichangrongyiyongcuofangfa。

xiangwanhuiqianren，xiangzhaodaoyiqiandexingfu，xianbubijiqiewanliu，xianzheshouyuzishendexinlijianshe——

1.缓解心理状态

 jiqiewanliu，danfxinlizhuangtaibingweihuanjie，xiangdaodechulifangfancuoshifeichangrongyimangmugenfeng，nanyirangqilingrenmanyi。naizhi，youshihouzaibulizhixianxia，zuochudezhuduojuece，youshihoufandaozongshirangdajiadeqingganjiakuaiwanbi。

 xiangwanliuqinggan，zhiyoulinshijiangxintaihuanjiechulai，pingwenxinlizhuangtai，sisuoqingganbuchenggongdeyuangu，shenmeshiai?yixunzhaojiejuekunnandeyouliangfangfancuoshi。

2.想清晰挽留目地

 nidewanliu，daodishigenjunaxiemudini?yaoshimeiyousisuoguozheigewenti，zaiwanliuqian，tiyihuashijianfangdaozheigewentishang。daodishiganjuetouruzheimeduo，shebudewangji，huanshichuziyujingtixin，huoshishiganjuezijizuodebuzu，ruozaijiyicijihui，henyouxinxinrangxianghuhehaoruchuni?

 wanliumudi，lijijuecezheniwanliushidexinlizhuangtai，jiqizaiwanliuquanguochengzhongdejianchibuxieshuiping，ziran，zheidoulijijuecezhezuihoujieguo。

3.提高信心

 ruguonixintaipinghe，yexianzaishishihoutigaoxinxinle。zaiqingganbuchenggongdeyanlidajizhong，zainidewanliuxuqiubeitayicicijueqinghuijueshi，nidexinxinyesuizhebeidakua。

 meiyouxinxin，nanyizaicixiyinzhudaota。bingqie，ruguonidexinxinjianshao，ruguonizaiwanliuzhongpengdaocuobai，xinxingenghuishoucuobai，dangranyenanyijianchidaodi。

pingjingxinlizhuangtai，shiwanliudejichu。ruguonixintaichongzupingwen，yexianzaishishihougangkaishikaolvdaowanliuxiangguandeshiyi——

1.提前准备

zhixingwanliuqian，yaozuohaoyouguandezhunbeigongzuo：yishigenggai;ershixuanzhunjihui。

 qinggandebuchenggong，youyigebuzhengdeshishi，dajiabicidoushiyouyiwu，jiaruofenshouzheijianshiqingshitamingquetichulaide，neihenyoukenengnidewentidalianghuogengburongleguanyixie。

 xiangwanliu，bukeyizhikaozuibianshuoshuo，yebukeyidanchunxingdejiyufuwuchengnuo，huoshisipilailianyaoqiufuhexing，zheizhongyezongshizaochengtadeyanjuanxintai。

 xiangzhaodaodajiadexingfu，jiuxuyaoyishidaozishendecunzaidebuzu，bingerweizuochugenggai，lingwai，chongfenfahuizishendeyoudian，waizaigenggaizishen，benzhiyaopeiyangxingqu，tigaozhuanyejineng，tuokuanshiye，tishengjingyanheyanjie，zheizhongdoushihuirangnideneiwaizaiyigetisheng。

2.进攻

 wanliu，chukaigenggai，gengyaoxuanzhunjihui。jihuibudui，yiqieqinfenquanshibaifeide。jianxinzhenduizheiyidian，zaiwanliudeqianqi，nizaoyiyishidaozheigewenti，jiarunizenmebiaoming，doushihuibeitadepaichixintaisuofouren。

shenmejiaoai?zinanshifenshouzhihou，tongchanghuichuxianneiyanghaoduogejieduan：dichulengmo→xiangyoukongdang→pingdanqi→huailianqi。

 qianlianggejieduan，yidianyebuheshiwanliu，tayaobudichuni，yaobubianshichuzaixiangyoufenshouhoudesuiyihuanjie，yinci buguanzenyang，quanshidenghoujihui，qingjingguancha，guanchatajindaopingdanqi，gangkaishijindaohuailianqi，caisuanshiyouliangdejiyu。

3.升級

 zaicijingong，buyidingyishangqujiunahanzhuwei，bijiaotuchudeduitashuo，nixuyaowanliu。jibian tachuzaihuailianqi，neixiangzhedejuedaduoshushidajiayiqiandexingfu，danxinlishiduoshaoyiranhuidichude，zhibuguoshimeiyouyuanxianneimaxianzhu。

 yaobuloushuishengsequanma，zhaoyigeyouxiaodeyuanyin，hetazaiciqudelianxi，liruqiuzhu，yilaierqu，youchuangjianhudongjiaoliu，hainengweiciweituoci，xianxiatuiguangyaoqing，qingtachigefan。

 shenmecaisuanai?wangshangqudelianxi，suzaoyouliangdeqifen，tuichuzhanxiangenggai，dazaochuxiyinzhufangshi，rangxianghuzaiyiciaijin，zaiqinmiwujianzhongshengjixianghudeguanlian。