shenmeshiai?lijingjihuishizhe,danwuyidouyibuchenggongerjieshu,nigangkaishiweishouweijiao。neimeshenmecaisuanai?aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。
xinliyouyidingdeyaobaibuding,yezongsuanyishidaozheiyidian:yuanxian,wanliumeiyouxiangxiangzhongdeneiyangjianyi。
xiangwanhuiqianren,zhaodaoyuanxiandexingfu,queshimeixiangxiangzhongzheimejiandan。danshi,zheijianshiqingyeyuanmeiyounixiangxiangzhongneimajiannan,wangwangninengshenshoucuobai,zhijieyuanyinqujueyuzaifenshoudeqianqi,taduiniyirancunyoupaichixinlizhuangtai,dannidegousicuoluan,qingkuangyebuyiwanliu,feichangrongyiyongcuofangfa。
xiangwanhuiqianren,xiangzhaodaoyiqiandexingfu,xianbubijiqiewanliu,xianzheshouyuzishendexinlijianshe——
1.缓解心理状态
jiqiewanliu,danfxinlizhuangtaibingweihuanjie,xiangdaodechulifangfancuoshifeichangrongyimangmugenfeng,nanyirangqilingrenmanyi。naizhi,youshihouzaibulizhixianxia,zuochudezhuduojuece,youshihoufandaozongshirangdajiadeqingganjiakuaiwanbi。
xiangwanliuqinggan,zhiyoulinshijiangxintaihuanjiechulai,pingwenxinlizhuangtai,sisuoqingganbuchenggongdeyuangu,shenmeshiai?yixunzhaojiejuekunnandeyouliangfangfancuoshi。
2.想清晰挽留目地
nidewanliu,daodishigenjunaxiemudini?yaoshimeiyousisuoguozheigewenti,zaiwanliuqian,tiyihuashijianfangdaozheigewentishang。daodishiganjuetouruzheimeduo,shebudewangji,huanshichuziyujingtixin,huoshishiganjuezijizuodebuzu,ruozaijiyicijihui,henyouxinxinrangxianghuhehaoruchuni?
wanliumudi,lijijuecezheniwanliushidexinlizhuangtai,jiqizaiwanliuquanguochengzhongdejianchibuxieshuiping,ziran,zheidoulijijuecezhezuihoujieguo。
3.提高信心
ruguonixintaipinghe,yexianzaishishihoutigaoxinxinle。zaiqingganbuchenggongdeyanlidajizhong,zainidewanliuxuqiubeitayicicijueqinghuijueshi,nidexinxinyesuizhebeidakua。
meiyouxinxin,nanyizaicixiyinzhudaota。bingqie,ruguonidexinxinjianshao,ruguonizaiwanliuzhongpengdaocuobai,xinxingenghuishoucuobai,dangranyenanyijianchidaodi。
pingjingxinlizhuangtai,shiwanliudejichu。ruguonixintaichongzupingwen,yexianzaishishihougangkaishikaolvdaowanliuxiangguandeshiyi——
1.提前准备
zhixingwanliuqian,yaozuohaoyouguandezhunbeigongzuo:yishigenggai;ershixuanzhunjihui。
qinggandebuchenggong,youyigebuzhengdeshishi,dajiabicidoushiyouyiwu,jiaruofenshouzheijianshiqingshitamingquetichulaide,neihenyoukenengnidewentidalianghuogengburongleguanyixie。
xiangwanliu,bukeyizhikaozuibianshuoshuo,yebukeyidanchunxingdejiyufuwuchengnuo,huoshisipilailianyaoqiufuhexing,zheizhongyezongshizaochengtadeyanjuanxintai。
xiangzhaodaodajiadexingfu,jiuxuyaoyishidaozishendecunzaidebuzu,bingerweizuochugenggai,lingwai,chongfenfahuizishendeyoudian,waizaigenggaizishen,benzhiyaopeiyangxingqu,tigaozhuanyejineng,tuokuanshiye,tishengjingyanheyanjie,zheizhongdoushihuirangnideneiwaizaiyigetisheng。
2.进攻
wanliu,chukaigenggai,gengyaoxuanzhunjihui。jihuibudui,yiqieqinfenquanshibaifeide。jianxinzhenduizheiyidian,zaiwanliudeqianqi,nizaoyiyishidaozheigewenti,jiarunizenmebiaoming,doushihuibeitadepaichixintaisuofouren。
shenmejiaoai?zinanshifenshouzhihou,tongchanghuichuxianneiyanghaoduogejieduan:dichulengmo→xiangyoukongdang→pingdanqi→huailianqi。
qianlianggejieduan,yidianyebuheshiwanliu,tayaobudichuni,yaobubianshichuzaixiangyoufenshouhoudesuiyihuanjie,yinci buguanzenyang,quanshidenghoujihui,qingjingguancha,guanchatajindaopingdanqi,gangkaishijindaohuailianqi,caisuanshiyouliangdejiyu。
3.升級
zaicijingong,buyidingyishangqujiunahanzhuwei,bijiaotuchudeduitashuo,nixuyaowanliu。jibian tachuzaihuailianqi,neixiangzhedejuedaduoshushidajiayiqiandexingfu,danxinlishiduoshaoyiranhuidichude,zhibuguoshimeiyouyuanxianneimaxianzhu。
yaobuloushuishengsequanma,zhaoyigeyouxiaodeyuanyin,hetazaiciqudelianxi,liruqiuzhu,yilaierqu,youchuangjianhudongjiaoliu,hainengweiciweituoci,xianxiatuiguangyaoqing,qingtachigefan。
shenmecaisuanai?wangshangqudelianxi,suzaoyouliangdeqifen,tuichuzhanxiangenggai,dazaochuxiyinzhufangshi,rangxianghuzaiyiciaijin,zaiqinmiwujianzhongshengjixianghudeguanlian。
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