爱一个人有错吗？前任会疯狂找你联系的技巧

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？yixienvhaizaifenshouzhihoufaguolailiuyanbanliuyan：nanyouyuanxianduinihenhaode，tahenchongwode，weishenmefenshouhouhuijiaruheimingdanwoshandiaowo，yuelaiyuedabuxiangtongni?neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma？cuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

 shijishangyuangufeichangjiandan，nanshengbuyuanrangzishenzaiganqingzhongzaoshoudesunhaizaiduzhongdaofuzhe，yinci tiaoxuanlengdanzheileifangfalaizuochuyanzang，kaizhanfangfanyishi。

neimazenyangfangzhifenshouzhihoubeilingyifanglijijiaruheimingdan，cuoguowanhuijiyuni?niyinggaixianmingbaiyixiajigefangmian。

第一点：为何碰到事儿男生老想讲理而不是哄人。

fensimengmengdaqianquxunqiubangzhu，tashuotadenanyouyiqianduitaqianyibaishun。

 liangrenchaonanyoukendingshizuikaishidixiatouchengrencuowuderen，danshicicizhengchaoyihoulingyifangbulaihongta，taganjuelingyifangbuxihuantale，yincimanhengwuli，jieguonanyouquetiletichufenshou。

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 yuangufeichangjiandan，nanshengdeluojisiweiyuanbenjiugengpianzhongkeguan。tamenjiejueshierdefangfajiubadadaolishuotong，suihoubashierchulihao。

 nvshengdemanbujianglirangtamenjuedeshifentoutong，hongnvhaiziduitameneryanshiyizhongxintaihaofei，zheihuiranglingyifangjuedeyanfan，bukaixin。

aiyigerenyouduoku？zheileibuliangqingxudejileihuirangnanshengshifenpijuan，zuihoutiaoxuanwanbizheiyiduanganqing。

 yinci zainanshengchuxianjiatinglengbaoliquxiangshiyidingyaoshenzhong，lingyifanghenyoukenengyanfanbutingdezhengzhi，dakailefangfanyishitizhi，tabuyuanmianduinideqingxufaxie，yinci tiaoxuanjianmo，yegangkaishijianjiandisheqidajiadeganqing。

第二点：加入黑名单(未删除微信好友)相当于他不爱我了?

 fensixiaomshigejixingzi，tapengdaotichufenshouzheijianshiqing，fangcundaluan，yincibingjiluantouyi，quzaiwangshang“xiaofang”lexuduo laomujitangwenxueleizhongdetiyi。

keshixianeryijianzheizhongtiyiduitadezhuangkuangbingbushihe，naizhihairenulelingyifang。

 dengtayihouzaixiangtianbuquefajuezaoyibeiduifanglaheile。xiaomxinlianglebanjie：zheixiawanhou，tadoubawojiaruheimingdanle，yidingshicongcitaoyanwole。

 shijishang，xiaomshengxingduoyile。youyunanhaizimendeniantouxiangduilaishuoshijiaoweidanchunxingzhijiede，jiaruheimingdantahenyoukenengjinjinbeitayiqiandeshijicaozuokonghezhule，xiaomdezuofashitashifentoutong，tajiejiaruheimingdanlaiduogeqingjing。

youdeqingkuangxiajiaruheimingdanjinjinnanhaizituolixianshideyizhongfangfa，bingbubiaomingtazaoyibuainile。

 keshi，qianwanbieyinerganjue：e，tahaishuoaiwo，woyoujihui!yougangkaishixinxihongzha，suohunlianhuaicall……yuanbenliangrendeguanlianyeyouhuanjiedekongjian，jinizheitongsipilailiandezuofawanquangaozale。

第三点：创建恰当的挽回认知能力

 fensizhangzhangyouyufenshouzhihoubuganjiuchanbuqingwuguo，gendajiachizelelingyifangbianshigehuaxinnan，roulinganqing，cuoguolezishendeqingshen。

 shijishangtadezhuangkuangdajiayiqianshiduoshaoyeshiyouzhangwo，lingyifangyecengchangshihetajiangli，keshixianeryijianshibaile，zhangzhangmeiqufanshengzijinanti，fandaodecunjinchi，bubujinbi。

zheirangqiannanyouzuizhongneidianyouguantichufenshoudeneijiudoubianchenglezhenzhenyouci，tichufenshoudexinxingengweijiandingbuyi。

 shijishang，buguannanshengzhuyaobiaoxiandeduomedewuqing，tadeneixinyiranhuichongjingganqingde，tamenxiwangzhezishennenggoudedao yiduanpingwendeganqing。

 youdeqingkuangxiananshengxianludejueqingjinjinyizhongfangfanyishifangshi，bingbukeyibiaominglingyifangzaoyibuainile。niganwanyaokongzhu，bubiyinerbubujinbi，feidelingyifangjigejieguo。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma？diaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，jixianghuyixiesuiyi，yejiganqingyigechuanqidejiyu。duoqusikaoyixieganqingzhongcunzaidebuzu，xiangbanfaqujiejuekunnan，erbushiyongbushidangdewanhuifangfabalingyifangyuetuiyuezhang。