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“zhiqiandajiaganshenmedouzaiyiqi，zhihoutajiushuomeiyousuiyi。”

 “lianaideqingkuangxia，zhengyepeizhewowanyouxidoumeijiantashuodaokunguo，zhihou，gangguoshidiantabianshuozishentaileile，yaoxiexile。”

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nizigaozidadeqingshen，zaitalaikanbuguoshibukenfangkaishoudefakuangbale。

 fenshouzhihou，tazuibixudebingbushinidetaojinhu，yebushinidechengrencuowuwanhui，tayaodeshisuiyiheshineikongjian，yaodeshiyunilakaijuli。yinci ruguoniyuefabuyuanfangkaishou，yuefaqianxinwankujiuchanbuqing，taduinidexintaijiuyuedichu。

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